i'm gay, i need a cure!!!
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I'm gay...
It's really terrible. I've lost all confidence of meeting other guys, and i'm going to enter national service next year. I need help quitting!
I desperately need help.... -
is this a lifestyle thing or did you choose to be gay or are you naturally bent that way?
there is a difference... -
Hmmmmm...
Think of girls loh.
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Being gay is a sickness that needs to be cured?
Since when?
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btw how u noe u gay? when u realise u gay? and how u noe u not bi?Originally posted by sk8erguy:I'm gay...
It's really terrible. I've lost all confidence of meeting other guys, and i'm going to enter national service next year. I need help quitting!
I desperately need help.... -
not sure...i think it's most probably the way i was brought up....
since young nobody corrected the way i think, and for a few years already i been thinking about guys....
now, i want to quit, cuz it's affecting my confidence, and my relationships....
and i don't want to enter NS like this.... -
Hmm yeah quite true.. Maybe if you look more at pretty girls, you'll find THEM attractive. Just don't go to Changi BeachOriginally posted by Parka: Hmmmmm...
Think of girls loh. go to SENTOSA!!! 
I mean, really! No harm giving it a try 
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I get really turned on when i think about guys...
i've tried thinking about girls but i just don't feel anything, and i'm also the type that respect girls so i don't imagine them naked....unless it's like popstar...but still doesn't work....
i feel it's a "disease" cuz i just don't feel it's right.... -
i think you need a shrink... someone who can help you sort out your head...
if you don't want, take some time off and do some serious and honest introspection... figure out what is it you want...
sexual orientation isn't usually "chosen" by a person...
i hope you find your peace of mind
Originally posted by sk8erguy:I get really turned on when i think about guys...
i've tried thinking about girls but i just don't feel anything, and i'm also the type that respect girls so i don't imagine them naked....unless it's like popstar...but still doesn't work....
i feel it's a "disease" cuz i just don't feel it's right.... -
yes i agree...Originally posted by the Bear:i think you need a shrink... someone who can help you sort out your head...
if you don't want, take some time off and do some serious and honest introspection... figure out what is it you want...
sexual orientation isn't usually "chosen" by a person...
i hope you find your peace of mind
y u say its ur upbringing?
sexual orientation is realli something in ur mind... so as bear said if something can actualli be done it will be in the mind - c a psychiatrist.
in the end, i oso believe sexual orientation is not something one can choose. so i not tt sure if u can actualli switch back to being straight...
but r u veri gay? well.. sometimes its not obvious one is gay from his/her outlook and normal behaviour u noe. -
How can i go see a shrink??? i'm a student....who's gonna pay the fees? i'm not rich.....
yah...i been trying real hard to think of gals instead of guys, but it's really really hard. I end up masturbating thinking about anything at all.....
And i grew up in a highly religious family....i know the bible says it is wrong. -
Think it will all come to one word "determination"
If you are determine not to be a gay, then you have to work towards it. -
well.. if u canot c a shrink den realli dunno wat else u can do. u can o cos do nothing, and live wif it - no need to let anyone noe. or u can try to make urself straight lor - kua zarbor, watch porn (realli...), etc etc.. but pls dun end up going deeper in the wrong direction. and anyway theres nothing wrong wif masterbating nor wif being gay.Originally posted by sk8erguy:How can i go see a shrink??? i'm a student....who's gonna pay the fees? i'm not rich.....
yah...i been trying real hard to think of gals instead of guys, but it's really really hard. I end up masturbating thinking about anything at all.....
And i grew up in a highly religious family....i know the bible says it is wrong. -
i'll try to find a psychiatrist...i believe it's all in the mind also...my upbringing, well i'm close to both my parents. It's just that i remember going off-track somewhere....i think it's when i hit puberty, where i started seeing porn and stuff....i just started thinking guys can give better satisfaction than girls loh....
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Institute of Mental Health...
i do hope they have someone there to help... without prejudice..
and, it's not a disease, yah?Originally posted by sk8erguy:How can i go see a shrink??? i'm a student....who's gonna pay the fees? i'm not rich.....
yah...i been trying real hard to think of gals instead of guys, but it's really really hard. I end up masturbating thinking about anything at all.....
And i grew up in a highly religious family....i know the bible says it is wrong. -
try letting your parents know?
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no lah.. its not a disease... one canot be infected.Originally posted by the Bear:Institute of Mental Health...
i do hope they have someone there to help... without prejudice..
and, it's not a disease, yah? -
thanks a lot guys.....
when u think abt a girl, what is u like abt them? -
i'm not the typical guy.. i'm attracted to only one.. alas, i've lost her...
when with her, everything about her.. her sweet voice, her tenderness, her kind nature, her intelligence, the way she moves, her curves, her soft touch, her beauty, her sweet-smelling hair... everything
i hope the others will answer your question betterOriginally posted by sk8erguy:thanks a lot guys.....
when u think abt a girl, what is u like abt them? -
breast...her pussy etc ?Originally posted by sk8erguy:thanks a lot guys.....
when u think abt a girl, what is u like abt them? -
i'm really glad you've decided to change your ways. see a psychiatrist about your problem; he/she will provide you professional advice which we here cannot. all the best!
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Going to a polyclinic and ask for a referral to IMH or a psychiatrist got subsidy right...?
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Hey i understd how u feel..
Perhaps like wat others said, go see a phy, if not talk to someone from your church, your pastor, caregp leader or somebody whom u trust n is able to help. They will help you. Rather than keepin it to yaself n dunnoe how to solve it. Perhaps u might be worry to reveal ya inner most tots... but to help yaslef u got to take the 1st step.
You can do it. -
have you been into sexual contacts with guys? Or you have crushes and infatuation alone?
In short. How far have you gone? -
hmmz..