i'm gay, i need a cure!!!
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i have heard stories tat gay can be straight if they find a gal they like...Originally posted by Ayu {O_o}:
I used to like a guy,but it was before he knew he was a gay. And he had to make a decision between me and the another guy...
In the end,he chose the guy!Was heart-broken and was like "Sh!t,I'm no better than a guy.." that kind of thing...
But eventually,I am still a close with that guy and his bf....
But if you are handsome,you bound to get attracted by girls and don't be surprise they are willing to change you....
P.S: The gays l know are so cute and handsome...Why??
dun know how to true is tat.
i think gay is actually a social disease, brought upon by stress....
some due to lack of love, some due to upbringing, and some maybe due to wrong mindset.
perhaps u can try to understand and appreciate woman.(althought it is said "it make no sense to understand them")
well female have their attractions too.
hopefully throught all the research, understanding and hands on experience, u can find ur way. -
No one asked me to, but I do feel that I'm wrong to have started the flaming. Apologies to sk8erguy, and hope that he'll find his path one day.
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What all the gays need is a good hard kick to the balls!!!!
This will probably wake them up and make them realise their proper roles in life. Them Sick Bastards....
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you idiots aren't helping...
this is AA.. not a flame-zone.. -
Originally posted by kamikazestar:What all the gays need is a good hard kick to the balls!!!!
This will probably wake them up and make them realise their proper roles in life. Them Sick Bastards.... 
You will kill them in the process,kid.... 
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Originally posted by wuming78:huh? by ur nick i presume u r one of those "ugly, with big dangling thing tt is too gross for words" kind like us? heheh..i had to convince our friend guys should find the male anatomy extremely unattractive what. like poles repel.
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he's gay dude, what the hell is he gonna do? marry a gay guy?Originally posted by wuming78:there r lots of consequence for declaring 302 for obvious reasons. one of them i noe is u r not allowed to get married.
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this thread was ok and on topic all along until some flamers came in. wats wrong wif those guys.
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They're not interested to help....that's why.Originally posted by wuming78:this thread was ok and on topic all along until some flamers came in. wats wrong wif those guys. -
tts not the point. the point is preventing ppl who r not gay from declaring 302 jus to siam ns.Originally posted by AzRaeL:he's gay dude, what the hell is he gonna do? marry a gay guy?
not yet anyway -
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mine, and i'm sure i'm not alone in this. i've always felt that homosexuality is unnatural and wrong. no one is ever born a homosexual. if that is true, males would've grown breasts and women, penises. homosexuals would have been able to conceive and give birth to young like normal couples do. but that is obviously not the case simply because it's unnatural.Originally posted by the Bear:again, i ask.. whose morality?
i personally feel that morals and the society work together hand in hand. for example, in the past, women and men were not allowed to walk on the same street. it is considered loose of a woman even if she flashes a male a friendly smile. then, women were very conservative, and to them, it was only morally right that they were so. but look at the world today, it's totally fine to dress scantity - she would even probably be called sexy.
anyway, i would like to clarify that i'm alright with homosexuals, just not homosexuality. but this is just my point of view.. i hope you'll respect it just as i have or will respect yours and everyone else's.
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My first GF was a les. And she became straight while being with me. Hmm...it's possible i guess
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its actually not as difficult as u think~
if u think its tough of cos its gonna be..
juz keep on reminding urself dat u r a MAN and its only right to fantasize abt and like a girl instead of a guy~ (p.s. im a girl with a few gay frenz)
there's really no such thing as upbringing cause u to be like this lor~its either u are born with more female hormones than men ones or u caused it urself~ -
I find that this matter has it's own complications....but you're also not wrong to simplify it. You have brought me to think of it the simpler way. ThanksOriginally posted by milkchoc:its actually not as difficult as u think~
if u think its tough of cos its gonna be..
juz keep on reminding urself dat u r a MAN and its only right to fantasize abt and like a girl instead of a guy~ (p.s. im a girl with a few gay frenz)
there's really no such thing as upbringing cause u to be like this lor~its either u are born with more female hormones than men ones or u caused it urself~ 
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but sexual orientation is not a simple matter of hormones and genes. its mental as well. and THAT is complex.Originally posted by M©+square:I find that this matter has it's own complications....but you're also not wrong to simplify it. You have brought me to think of it the simpler way. Thanks -
no offense but its also possible shes bi rite?Originally posted by M©+square:My first GF was a les. And she became straight while being with me. Hmm...it's possible i guess -
haiz....this is getting complicated....
yah, flame me whatever....but that's your immaturity, i'm not affected by your words....
anyway, i've tried to think about girls instead of guys....it's hard...whenever i think of a girl i know, i feel guilty cuz i respect a girl's body....maybe i should respect a guy's body too? -
hey,now u guys trying to say im a simpleton isit~ duhz~Originally posted by sk8erguy:haiz....this is getting complicated....
yah, flame me whatever....but that's your immaturity, i'm not affected by your words....
anyway, i've tried to think about girls instead of guys....it's hard...whenever i think of a girl i know, i feel guilty cuz i respect a girl's body....maybe i should respect a guy's body too?
and ya~i seriously think u should respect a guys body too~ -
okay.....respect
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here is some advice from a girl.
since u say u're a student, so i guess u must be quite young.
so my advice is - don't sweat it so much. who says u must decide now?
u have ur whole life to experience and explore, so take ur time.
what u think is such a big problem now (that u like men) will most likely be nothing 5-10 years from now.
in the meantime, learn as much as u can. there's a lot of books out there for gay pple. (but i dont mean porno lah!) i mean real books abt young pple's self-dicovery.
i bet u'll feel better and more sure of yourself after u read that u're not the only one who feel that way.
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thanks, really appreciate that.
yea you're right, i think i'm still quite young in age, but you see next year i'll be going into NS, so i better do something about it right now. Besides, i know homosexuality is morally not right....well at least to me it's not right. And i really don't want to live the rest of my life w/o a gf and then settling down to marriage...i want to be 'normal', i want to have kids and all that.....
okok am i sounding a little paranoid here? Just thinking long-term. -
btw, EVERYONE is gay to a certain extent u noe. its only how much u r gay and how u manifest it.Originally posted by sk8erguy:thanks, really appreciate that.
yea you're right, i think i'm still quite young in age, but you see next year i'll be going into NS, so i better do something about it right now. Besides, i know homosexuality is morally not right....well at least to me it's not right. And i really don't want to live the rest of my life w/o a gf and then settling down to marriage...i want to be 'normal', i want to have kids and all that.....
okok am i sounding a little paranoid here? Just thinking long-term.
u do not need to deliberately think of gals. mabbe u can try stop thinking of guys instead. and if u wan, think of gals u c on the roads lor, not ur frens. den u wont feel THAT guilty. the most impt thing here is u in fact want to marry and have kids. that is a good start! so dun worry too much. even if u still think u r more gay than most ppl jus try to control it and bring urself back by stop thinking in that direction. im quite sure from all tt u haf said u r not as gay as u think. u r prob more curious of sex and sexuality and thus did some exploration and thinking. tt is quite normal if u ask me. -
I guess thats quite a natural feeling.
We all want to be like everybody else, and fit in.
But I personally think life will be very boring if like that!
Abt NS, sorry i got no experience so I dunno what its like. (Though from my friends comments - sounds like torture! hehe)
I guess it depends on the pple you get thrown with. If you find that they're not so tolerant, maybe its in your best interest to keep your confusion to yourself.
And save it for when you feel more secure.
Although sometimes I notice that the least likely of pple who you think will help you end up being your biggest supporter.
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thanks for all the support guys.....
i guess i still believe i can change, so luckily i didn't declare it when registering for NS....u know...that room....
but anyways, i'm gay, but not that gay until extreme gay....at least i'm not sissy too....
but anyway, if there is anyone out there in the same problem as me and reading this post, i encourage you to try what i'm doing.