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Hiz..ppl....came across this forum...found useful....well i have a question......=P well..i been chasing this girl...well...she pretty cool....to hang out with....when we first met...through other frenz intro.....soon i find myself beginning to fall for her. (Puppy Love that what...other say) haha...so anyway......it been quite some time...we been friends (close infact)..but somehow....i find that she became colder to me.as time goes by.....example; when i ask her, how her revision been going? Her reply was like "orh like that lor" and then a long slience...i jus dunno wat to say!....haiz....she wasn't used to be like this.......kinda of hurt.... Soon... I became filled with thoughts..abt...mb i am not that gd enough for her.. forgeting her became a constant question, but i was not prepared to give her up...Haiz..What Shld I do?
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try to ask her out?Originally posted by eric_87sg:Hiz..ppl....came across this forum...found useful....well i have a question......=P well..i been chasing this girl...well...she pretty cool....to hang out with....when we first met...through other frenz intro.....soon i find myself beginning to fall for her. (Puppy Love that what...other say) haha...so anyway......it been quite some time...we been friends (close infact)..but somehow....i find that she became colder to me.as time goes by.....example; when i ask her, how her revision been going? Her reply was like "orh like that lor" and then a long slience...i jus dunno wat to say!....haiz....she wasn't used to be like this.......kinda of hurt.... Soon... I became filled with thoughts..abt...mb i am not that gd enough for her.. forgeting her became a constant question, but i was not prepared to give her up...Haiz..What Shld I do? -
something wrong with your full stop key???
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Well...I wanted too..but i decided...i will after....the O's? asking her out kinda late...haiz.......wat i want to know..is that..shld i juz give up? or juz take it to the end? or?.....*confuse*
And there is nth wrong with my full stop....it a bad habit.... sry... -
What you need to know is not from here.Originally posted by eric_87sg:Well...I wanted too..but i decided...i will after....the O's? asking her out kinda late...haiz.......wat i want to know..is that..shld i juz give up? or juz take it to the end? or?.....*confuse*
And there is nth wrong with my full stop....it a bad habit.... sry...
The answer will never come from us...
The only truthful answer will be the answer in your heart.
Overcome yourself and find that there are answers beyond your finite thoughts.
You're young though....but you'll learn along the way.
Cheers
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tell you what...
sounds like you're going to do your o-levels too huh?
go study and do your exams..
your english is atrocious..
if you love her, be the best you can.. there is a time for everything.. now is the time to do the exams right... -
M©+square : Icic....hmmz ok i'll try. Thx for the advice.
The Bear : Hey, thank for ur concern, yeah i know i should study for my examS. It is just that i can't just cast this problem aside and concentrate on my work. I will just keep thinking about it. =( -
Originally posted by eric_87sg:
It's really a bad time to have all these stuff boggling your mind right now.
[b]M©+square : Icic....hmmz ok i'll try. Thx for the advice.
The Bear : Hey, thank for ur concern, yeah i know i should study for my examS. It is just that i can't just cast this problem aside and concentrate on my work. I will just keep thinking about it. =(
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I agree with Bear, try your best to concentrate in your Os. Do the rest later. All you need now is to make a decision.
I hope you can get thru this.
Cheers
Bear: Awake yet?
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Originally posted by eric_87sg:Hiz..ppl....came across this forum...found useful....well i have a question......=P well..i been chasing this girl...well...she pretty cool....to hang out with....when we first met...through other frenz intro.....soon i find myself beginning to fall for her. (Puppy Love that what...other say) haha...so anyway......it been quite some time...we been friends (close infact)..but somehow....i find that she became colder to me.as time goes by.....example; when i ask her, how her revision been going? Her reply was like "orh like that lor" and then a long slience...i jus dunno wat to say!....haiz....she wasn't used to be like this.......kinda of hurt.... Soon... I became filled with thoughts..abt...mb i am not that gd enough for her.. forgeting her became a constant question, but i was not prepared to give her up...Haiz..What Shld I do?
Just a question: Why should she treat you differently?
You know, many a times when we like someone, we fail to think and consider certain side of the square which made it seemed so problematic and demoralising.
It has nothing to do with your age, young and should concentrate on your studies (although it pretty advisable to). It has nothing to do with your 'Not good enough for her' (Brain defensive mechanism to protect the mind)
Rather it the kind of motivation, drive, attitude towards your future love and relationship. You mean next time when you are ready to date and the same situation occur you are going to delude yourself that you ain't good for her, again?
If I were your case, even if she treats me this way, I wouldn't even feel anything, probably because we are just causal friend and your demands and expectation cannot be like so high and it simply means that more work must be done because we ain't as good as I thought it to be.
P.S: Finish what you start. Don't vanish halfway without a trace. Even if it simply leads to nowhere, probably a good conclusion would be desirable. You mentioned you gonna give up - sure its firm decision? I doubt so. She is still single I suppose? Then why give up?
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Hey...thx alot!....i understand what you mean........guess u r right......yeah she still single.....ok..then ..i shld not give up......till the end...thx alot =)
Oh...abt the qn on why she treat me different....i got no idea....i was hoping some1 could tell me. -
wey! so bad! wahahaOriginally posted by the Bear:tell you what...
sounds like you're going to do your o-levels too huh?
go study and do your exams..
your english is atrocious..
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my english is neither good nor bad!
it just that i am so confuse, i don't have time to care about my english. grrrr..... if he is talking abt my "shortcuts" , i understand. -
you are still young ... there is so long way to go..
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i always believe in one quote from Adam King!
In life, you only live for once and believe do what you should do.
no everything you think you should must be done. -
bah!Originally posted by antoh:i always believe in one quote from Adam King!
In life, you only live for once and believe do what you should do.
no everything you think you should must be done. -
come on
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Do what?
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I am not part of your social circle and its difficult to tell; the possiblility is unlimited. But I am sure things will be much clearer if you allow time to pass gradually.Originally posted by eric_87sg:Hey...thx alot!....i understand what you mean........guess u r right......yeah she still single.....ok..then ..i shld not give up......till the end...thx alot =)
Oh...abt the qn on why she treat me different....i got no idea....i was hoping some1 could tell me.
Cheers