love?crush?or...??
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How many of u guys n ladies haf a crush on a celebrity?? Almost, if not every1 rite? But how deep do u feel for dat certain celebrity?? Wld u try to date her/him?Â…. or at least attempt to befriend her/him?Â…..given d fact dat he/she is contactable.
HereÂ’s my storyÂ…..plz advice. Well I wouldnÂ’t call her celebrity coz sheÂ’s a news presenterÂ….rather a tv personality rite? Anyways, I donÂ’t wish to reveal her name so as to respect her privacy n also to protect mine; juz in caseÂ….thereÂ’s a 0.001% tat she visits dis forum n sees dis topic, maybe she might get upset rite?
I’ve been admiring her for d past 4++ yrs now, infact I became a “fan” of CNA coz of her, hoping dat it wld be her shift everytime I turn on d tv! 
I noe dis is not lust coz close frens whom I confide in say dat she is juz ordinary looking, so it can’t b all physical attraction rite??…although I admit there got to b some. N it definitely is not a crush a teenager wld haf on a pop star. Maybe I don’t see her in a celebrity status n see her as an eligible woman to date whom I’m attracted to. Wen I socialize, I meet many eligible ladies too, but I juz don’t think of dating any of them….its almost like I’m telling myself dat I already haf some1 waiting for me!! She seems to haf d ‘x-factor’ effect on me, If u noe wat I mean. There r many factors dat stop me frm making a move, like age…she’s much elder,I’m only 25 n race is also a prob! I keep telling myself dis is juz a crush n its impossible but my feelings for her juz keeps growing. Does any1 here haf similar experience??….or is something wrong wif me?? Wat decision sld I make? How do I stop feeling dis way? Help me plzzzzzzzzzz! 
“she’s always on my mind…frm d time I wake up till I close my eyes” (song by Rick Price-“only heaven knows”), a song dat best describes my situation, also my fav song.
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Glenda Chong?
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I wld appreciate if matured ppl reply to my post coz i don't wan advice frm some1 who's still immature enuf to judge other ppl by their looks,anyways i think Glenda would not haf been put infront of a camera for regional veiwers to see if she's not presentable or proffesional enuf. We don't haf d right to judge others coz we ain't perfect ourselves,no1 is.....think of how we can improve ouselves 1st. i've already mentioned dat i don't wish to reveal her name. So any1 else who is matured enuf??
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Now now...i'm seriously thinking who is the one who's not matured.
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If u like her tell her lah...
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i think you need psychiatric help...
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Originally posted by the Bear:i think you need psychiatric help...
either that or you go try and land a job with CNA...
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seems like got alot of people like to see our female newcasters eh....in sggirls.com forums, there is a thread on Channel 8's Dong Suhua also.
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it ain't a joke.. i was serious...Originally posted by KrU:
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If i'm attracted to d gal next door or some1 i met at bar,dat's normal,but if i'm attracted to a tv personality...i'm sick n i need to see a shrink??? How is dat logical?Originally posted by the Bear:i think you need psychiatric help...
either that or you go try and land a job with CNA...
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4 years..
it moves from infatuation into obsession...
the next step if you mind keeps going on and on would be to stalk her...
that is whyOriginally posted by Nash79:If i'm attracted to d gal next door or some1 i met at bar,dat's normal,but if i'm attracted to a tv personality...i'm sick n i need to see a shrink??? How is dat logical?
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I did b4...nothing 2 beOriginally posted by Nash79:How many of u guys n ladies haf a crush on a celebrity?? Almost, if not every1 rite? But how deep do u feel for dat certain celebrity?? Wld u try to date her/him?Â…. or at least attempt to befriend her/him?Â…..given d fact dat he/she is contactable.
Here’s my story…..plz advice. Well I wouldn’t call her celebrity coz she’s a news presenter….rather a tv personality rite? Anyways, I don’t wish to reveal her name so as to respect her privacy n also to protect mine; juz in case….there’s a 0.001% tat she visits dis forum n sees dis topic, maybe she might get upset rite? I’ve been admiring her for d past 4++ yrs now, infact I became a “fan” of CNA coz of her, hoping dat it wld be her shift everytime I turn on d tv! I noe dis is not lust coz close frens whom I confide in say dat she is juz ordinary looking, so it can’t b all physical attraction rite??…although I admit there got to b some. N it definitely is not a crush a teenager wld haf on a pop star. Maybe I don’t see her in a celebrity status n see her as an eligible woman to date whom I’m attracted to. Wen I socialize, I meet many eligible ladies too, but I juz don’t think of dating any of them….its almost like I’m telling myself dat I already haf some1 waiting for me!! She seems to haf d ‘x-factor’ effect on me, If u noe wat I mean. There r many factors dat stop me frm making a move, like age…she’s much elder,I’m only 25 n race is also a prob! I keep telling myself dis is juz a crush n its impossible but my feelings for her juz keeps growing. Does any1 here haf similar experience??….or is something wrong wif me?? Wat decision sld I make? How do I stop feeling dis way? Help me plzzzzzzzzzz! “she’s always on my mind…frm d time I wake up till I close my eyes” (song by Rick Price-“only heaven knows”), a song dat best describes my situation, also my fav song.
Nash79 abt wad....i used 2 have a crush on avril lavigne.....Soooooooo Cute!!!! -
hahahah....pleeeze...this is real life n not reel.....wld i be asking advice on how to overcome this passing cloud if i'm some kind of psycho??i wld haf found out where she stays,wen she goes out,where she goes etc....i wld haf done dat n more if i'm wat u make me out to be; Jason or something...haf u been watching Jason goes to hell n Jason vs Freddie last week?Originally posted by the Bear:4 years..
it moves from infatuation into obsession...
the next step if you mind keeps going on and on would be to stalk her...
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which is why, the best person would be a shrink... real life too... we're all amateur AAs here.. this is serious enough that maybe only Yun can have a shot at giving you real advice..
or you can do the other way... go try and get a job with CNA... maybe really end up knowing her
Originally posted by Nash79:hahahah....pleeeze...this is real life n not reel.....wld i be asking advice on how to overcome this passing cloud if i'm some kind of psycho??i wld haf found out where she stays,wen she goes out,where she goes etc....i wld haf done dat n more if i'm wat u make me out to be; Jason or something...haf u been watching Jason goes to hell n Jason vs Freddie last week? -
"i'm not the typical guy.. i'm attracted to only one.. alas, i've lost her...Originally posted by the Bear:which is why, the best person would be a shrink... real life too... we're all amateur AAs here.. this is serious enough that maybe only Yun can have a shot at giving you real advice..
or you can do the other way... go try and get a job with CNA... maybe really end up knowing her
when with her, everything about her.. her sweet voice, her tenderness, her kind nature, her intelligence, the way she moves, her curves, her soft touch, her beauty, her sweet-smelling hair... everything"......sounds familiar bear?well i'm attracted to only one too,different rule wen it comes to some1 else huh?u sld noe how it feels to haf some1 so close yet so far away.work in CNA?nah,i've got my own home biz to run.
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then you're stuck..
i've made peace with my loneliness.. and i can live without her although i'd rather live with her
have you made your peace yet?Originally posted by Nash79:"i'm not the typical guy.. i'm attracted to only one.. alas, i've lost her...
when with her, everything about her.. her sweet voice, her tenderness, her kind nature, her intelligence, the way she moves, her curves, her soft touch, her beauty, her sweet-smelling hair... everything"......sounds familiar bear?well i'm attracted to only one too,different rule wen it comes to some1 else huh?u sld noe how it feels to haf some1 so close yet so far away.work in CNA?nah,i've got my own home biz to run.
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trying to...u noe how hard dat is rite?Originally posted by the Bear:then you're stuck..
i've made peace with my loneliness.. and i can live without her although i'd rather live with her
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Hmm, I truly can't understand your problem ... Sorry, but I can't believe you can truly love someone unless you know her. Anyway, although I can't help, but you have mine sympathy. Hope you see your ray of light soon.
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reality bites, snap out of the dream. be feasible too...somemore u dunno how she is off-screen. but since its only a crush, and i hope so that it is, no harm also.
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ok guys, many thanks to those who shared their opinions;both positive n nagative. If u notice,i nvr once used d phrase "i love her" coz i knew dis is a passing cloud...juz dat it's passing by too slowly!!i posted here thinking maybe d opinions of ppl frm all walks of life wld force me to make a firm decsion instead of avoid making 1. Perhaps u haf experienced it,but i've surfaced out of deceiving myself n evading d prob after reading ur posts......makes me realize how silly a person can be wen he's attracted to some1...well time for me to move on....away frm dis topic n away frm my sturbbon expectations. Thanks again....Adios
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OH yes! Congrats!Originally posted by Nash79:ok guys, many thanks to those who shared their opinions;both positive n nagative. If u notice,i nvr once used d phrase "i love her" coz i knew dis is a passing cloud...juz dat it's passing by too slowly!!i posted here thinking maybe d opinions of ppl frm all walks of life wld force me to make a firm decsion instead of avoid making 1. Perhaps u haf experienced it,but i've surfaced out of deceiving myself n evading d prob after reading ur posts......makes me realize how silly a person can be wen he's attracted to some1...well time for me to move on....away frm dis topic n away frm my sturbbon expectations. Thanks again....Adios
Nash79
Please stop watching CNA just in case you're attracted to another.
Gosh! i can imagine.
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Hey,can u stop being an arrogant bastard,don't tell me wat i sld watch n wat i sldn't,u post as if u r some kind superior who has seen it all.Yah go ahead n rebutt me juz coz u think u can act all tough infron of dat pc,try to be a little nicer if u wan ppl to respect u...screw u biatch,u shall be ignored,shall not waste no more time on crap like u.Originally posted by M©+square:OH yes! Congrats!
Please stop watching CNA just in case you're attracted to another.
Gosh! i can imagine. 
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Originally posted by Nash79:Hey,can u stop being an arrogant bastard,don't tell me wat i sld watch n wat i sldn't,u post as if u r some kind superior who has seen it all.Yah go ahead n rebutt me juz coz u think u can act all tough infron of dat pc,try to be a little nicer if u wan ppl to respect u...screw u biatch,u shall be ignored,shall not waste no more time on crap like u.
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Gentleman, please watch your language...Originally posted by Nash79:Hey,can u stop being an arrogant bastard,don't tell me wat i sld watch n wat i sldn't,u post as if u r some kind superior who has seen it all.Yah go ahead n rebutt me juz coz u think u can act all tough infron of dat pc,try to be a little nicer if u wan ppl to respect u...screw u biatch,u shall be ignored,shall not waste no more time on crap like u.
Nash79