5.30 thought
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'Everyone has experienced that love,
Like playing in the rain
Has been disregarded and taken for granted,
But when that rain stopped over,
People begin to remember
How fun it was
And they want it to experience it again.'
Probably one of my favourite phrase. Quite a number of relationships have been shattered during these period - (Probably due to the retrograding of Mars between 29 July to 26 Sep 2003). Almost always, people only realise the destruction of love stem from the root of their behaviour cum reaction when the relationship is dead.
You can't resurrect the dead relationship, just like its difficult to resurrect lost chemistry.
If you people knew that both personality and lifestyle conflicts heavily - would you still attempt to get together as a couple? When problem occurs, both preception clashes like enemies and the way of doing things is so much different?
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*ponders*
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nope.. i'm a firm believer of love does NOT conquer all.
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i second jonno's view...
sometimes, no matter how much you love each other, circumstances tear you apart...
alas...
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Yeah Love DONT conquer allOriginally posted by jOhO:nope.. i'm a firm believer of love does NOT conquer all. -
of coz not...but then...me c alot of cases whereby their personality clashes like siao but they still together...
guess there is no specific ans to tt question? really boils down to individual... -
I agree with tat. It's saddening to know that it is a fact. But sometimes no matter how much the couple love each other, u juz haf to let go somehow.Originally posted by the Bear:i second jonno's view...
sometimes, no matter how much you love each other, circumstances tear you apart...
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Actually it does - with the right person. The rest are cosmic learning cycle. Difficult to know each one is - well, often the one you truely love most is but the learning cycle.Originally posted by jOhO:nope.. i'm a firm believer of love does NOT conquer all.
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but they say normally u will not end up w/ the person u truely luv most leh...so does tt mean tt 'happliy ever after' really only exist in fairy tales?Originally posted by Yunhaier:Actually it does - with the right person. The rest are cosmic learning cycle. Difficult to know each one is - well, often the one you truely love most is but the learning cycle.
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Guys...LOVE is love...
When human is included in the equation, it's subjective.
Human change....not LOVE
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I agree.Originally posted by M©+square:Guys...LOVE is love...
When human is included in the equation, it's subjective.
Human change....not LOVE
That's my stand.
True love's standard is always the same - human standard differ from people to people.
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Hmm... Subjective and limited to 'capacity'....Originally posted by M©+square:Guys...LOVE is love...
When human is included in the equation, it's subjective.
Human change....not LOVE
That's my stand.
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chim
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It took me sometime to get what you're trying to put across.Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Subjective and limited to 'capacity'....
Maybe i'm slow or what
Thanks for that statement. I like what you've said.
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zhong qian zhong qian, you ke ren ai ni hen jiu. Dan pian pian, Feng jian jian ba ju li chui de hao yuan......
from Jay Chou -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
'Everyone has experienced that love,
Like playing in the rain
Has been disregarded and taken for granted,
But when that rain stopped over,
People begin to remember
How fun it was
And they want it to experience it again.'
Probably one of my favourite phrase. Quite a number of relationships have been shattered during these period - (Probably due to the retrograding of Mars between 29 July to 26 Sep 2003). Almost always, people only realise the destruction of love stem from the root of their behaviour cum reaction when the relationship is dead.
You can't resurrect the dead relationship, just like its difficult to resurrect lost chemistry. If you people knew that both [b]personality and lifestyle conflicts heavily - would you still attempt to get together as a couple? When problem occurs, both preception clashes like enemies and the way of doing things is so much different?
Cheers[/b] Nothing is impossible.
Although it will not be a wise choice to get this couple together, but if they truely love eachother, they will have to learn how to commit and reason out their difference.
Maybe for example, you are a die-hard soccer fan and hates tennis, and this gal which appear in your life that caught all your attention. She hates soccer and likes tennis. Things will start to change, perhaps either the guy will change his perception, or vice versa.
Doesnt occur only to personality and lifestyle. What about age? Or race? Though it might seem fairtaleish, but love is the source that keep a relationship going.
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If you people knew that both personality and lifestyle conflicts heavily - would you still attempt to get together as a couple? When problem occurs, both preception clashes like enemies and the way of doing things is so much different?
No, some of us don't even need personality/lifestyle conflicts to not get along, some of us are naturally inhibited to people's affections and other matters of the heart.
Cheers
Cheers back.