need some advice..........
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i have got his prob wif this gal tt i i like ...hope people here can help out wif me.......i call this gal after losing contact fer quite a long time....but the replies tt i got was like so disappointing.....she juz reply "ok" "no" "yes"or yea to whatever i say.....some more she ask how how got her contact when she gave it to me herself b4......she don realli tok n i haf nt call her since.....can give some advice on wad to do......shld i call her again....wad should i do to keep her toking ???does it mean tt she don like me at all ???
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u shouldnt have called her at all!!...she gave u her number, but u lost it..to a gal, it shows u r not sincere about her..of cos she will give u the cold shoulder lar..
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dont call anymore.
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leave her alone...
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Possible reasons why she would reply such answers:Originally posted by gxelan:i have got his prob wif this gal tt i i like ...hope people here can help out wif me.......i call this gal after losing contact fer quite a long time....but the replies tt i got was like so disappointing.....she juz reply "ok" "no" "yes"or yea to whatever i say.....some more she ask how how got her contact when she gave it to me herself b4......she don realli tok n i haf nt call her since.....can give some advice on wad to do......shld i call her again....wad should i do to keep her toking ???does it mean tt she don like me at all ???
She have no interest in you. She is very busy for tt week(projects and exams are around the corner now) She have a boyfren already.
If you really like her, try to call again or sms her loh. Take the initiative. Try to show her some care like perhaps smsing her "goodnight, sleep early" or ask her what she is doing lately thingy. All this helps.
Oh ya, the most important thing, hint whether she got boyfren anot. If yes... hmm... den u should know what to do la..
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In simple:Originally posted by gxelan:i have got his prob wif this gal tt i i like ...hope people here can help out wif me.......i call this gal after losing contact fer quite a long time....but the replies tt i got was like so disappointing.....she juz reply "ok" "no" "yes"or yea to whatever i say.....some more she ask how how got her contact when she gave it to me herself b4......she don realli tok n i haf nt call her since.....can give some advice on wad to do......shld i call her again....wad should i do to keep her toking ???does it mean tt she don like me at all ???
On what ground must she be very responsive to you? Not everyone is interested to chat up with people they lost contact for every long time especially if she is not say very close to you in the first place. Esp if she is a Cancer/Scorpio.
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Haha... not realli la yun
I'm a scorpio but wheneva my long lost fren msg mi, i will chat with him/her for a long time be4 i end the conversation one leh
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Cause you are a guy?Originally posted by SoonKeong:Haha... not realli la yun
I'm a scorpio but wheneva my long lost fren msg mi, i will chat with him/her for a long time be4 i end the conversation one leh -
ei.....as i i lose contact means i nvr contact her fer quite a long time.....not tt i lose her contact no...oso....wad kind of hint do i give so as to noe whether she has a bf oreadi ???
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Originally posted by gxelan:ei.....as i i lose contact means i nvr contact her fer quite a long time.....not tt i lose her contact no...oso....wad kind of hint do i give so as to noe whether she has a bf oreadi ??? I doubt she is really interested in you. Forcing your way through the locked door will result in equal opposite reaction. Probably your image, reputation and feel in her mind will degenerate further.
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if if she starts chatting with you doesnt means she likes you lor..but if u think she is abit restless when talking to you..then maybe u should not be calling her..I think its silly to want to keep her toking 2 u when she doesnt want to...she's not there to entertain u...Originally posted by gxelan:i have got his prob wif this gal tt i i like ...hope people here can help out wif me.......i call this gal after losing contact fer quite a long time....but the replies tt i got was like so disappointing.....she juz reply "ok" "no" "yes"or yea to whatever i say.....some more she ask how how got her contact when she gave it to me herself b4......she don realli tok n i haf nt call her since.....can give some advice on wad to do......shld i call her again....wad should i do to keep her toking ???does it mean tt she don like me at all ??? -
[b]but the replies tt i got was like so disappointing.....she juz reply "ok" "no" "yes"or yea to whatever i say.....some more she ask how how got her contact when she gave it to me herself b4......she don realli tok n i haf nt call her since.....can give some advice on wad to do......shld i call her again....wad should i do to keep her toking ???does it mean tt she don like me at all ???[/b]
Ha! I have this problem with every single girl here, and the funny thing is I don't even want to chase them. To me its just girls being girls, weird rude and funny...
To avoid rebuttle, but then again girls here are still normal and human, for you all can get along with them.
My advice, yes, do nothing, get used to it like me. -
alrite...but then ...does tt means tt she hate me or something like tt when she does nt want to tok....er....how do i put across tt i am actually interested in her??
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My advice is the opposite ... Dun SMS her goodnite or good morning kindda stuff ... She will find it disturbing. I guess if you are still interested in her, you would need to find means and way to create "accidental" meetings with her. Meanwhile, dun SMS or call her liao, will degrade your image further.Originally posted by SoonKeong:If you really like her, try to call again or sms her loh. Take the initiative. Try to show her some care like perhaps smsing her "goodnight, sleep early" or ask her what she is doing lately thingy. All this helps.
But I dun know why you took such a long time to take action. Should have started SMSing her once you got the HP no. so that she have a impression of giving you her number. Anyway, what's done is done. You got a high mountain to climb from what I see.
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alrite...but then ...does tt means tt she hate me or something like tt when she does nt want to tok....er....how do i put across tt i am actually interested in her??
You can try and be daring and say it direct, usually this has a bad impact if she does not like you, then she will avoid you and not even be your friend. However if she likes you, then its no problem.
Or, you can just be like me, let the depression become routine, it makes you stronger that way too, but is unhealthy.
I don't think if girls do that it means "hate" as in "SAURON kind of hatred" or even my hatred when I am angry... but I think its more irritation, like when my mum keeps bugging me about stuff when I want to be left on my own, I think its most likely irration that actual "hatred". So I suppose you should just back-off and wait for the opportune moment.