Originally posted by o(^^)o_ah_wen:
do most guys prefer to find their girlfriends thru friends or classmates or they prefer to find and know girls outside their circle of friends?
I will prefer outside... because I had experienced this...
Situation 1:Think about it... If there's 2 guys Greg, Andrew and 1 girl peiyi... They are good friends Greg went and broke up with the peiyi... Then if Andrew asked his friends which is Greg & peiyi out for a movie... Do you think they will go?
Situation 2: Same thing Greg, Andrew, Peiyi good friends... Greg, Peiyi together... If the quarrel... look for Andrew to talk and came out with the... "who do you think is wrong?"... What will Andrew do? Even if by saying who he think is wrong, someone will feel that he's just siding him/her...
Situation 3: If 3 of them used to go out together... now the couple want to have their own time... the one who is left out may feel that they "zhong se qing you"...
Situation 4: Worst still... 4 friends, Greg, Dan, Andrew, the guys... the girl Jane and Adrian, the girl's boyfriend... when Jane and adrian is about to break, Jane and Dan got something... but they never go because she at that time haven't break with Adrian... then Jane, Dan stop being with each other... then Jane break with Adrian...
After a while Greg fall in love with Jane... then he ask Dan, "You still like her?"... Dan say "ai ya, I at that time got girl fxxx then fxxx one lar!"... Greg assume it's a no... then he and Jane go together...
When Dan found out, he felt angry and said that at that time, he said that because he doesn't want Greg to tease him.(The guys should understand... usually want their guys friends to know that they very flirt.)... and bla... bla... bla... then friendship break... then Greg, Dan asked Andrew who in the wrong(similar to situation 2)... even more friendship break...