help!!!
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haiz. hi ppl. i'm troubled...by my appearance. well u see, im a short hair gal. waiting for it to grow long. but...d moment i see my hair, i get fed up. when i lift it up, worse. i've got more white hair than pple older than me. but not so visible, becuz mostly its inside. my hair is wavy and frizzy. those whites curls their way out. i hate my curls too...i tried gel to keep it down. but it juz wuden. i hate it when my classmates say "eeek, eh u got white hair leh, wan me help u pluck anot? shiny sia, like silver..heheh.." den they keep going on. den luff at me. suan me. say i old already. wat bull$h!t. and its not heredity. my parents said when they were young, dey had no white hair, but now got. den my diet...i eat almost everything mar.(mind u, i'm not a pig nor am i fat) juz dat less veggies...seldom eat fruits...will it affect? my parents keep sayin me...say i play too much computer..eat too much snacks...like to bath at night...blah blah blah. den they say its ok. nvm one. ppl see student wif white hair - understandable, cuz of pressures and stuffs. but, not me wat. i no pressure, no nth. juz dat i worry too much. and i mean TOO MUCH. my frens keep sayin i worry for nth. i dunno why. i dun care. THOSE WHITES MUZ GO!!!
i get pretty upset when i see those whites in d mirror...i used to pluck them, but pain leh..so i stopped. now, i cut them. until not so visible, until it cant curls out. i feel abit happier...dunno got side effect anot...haiz. later d more i cut, d longer and shinier it grows. den i die.
anyone of u got any treatments or stuffs for me?? intro them to me...i reali need those items. haiz. i hate my hair, i hate myself. no salons plz, cuz i dun think i can afford. neither will my parents fork out. if got creams or watever, affordable prices can...i think i can spare abit. i dun care wat, i borrow money from my fren...but! those whites....muz reali reali go....haiz. i need help desperately!!!!!!!!! ah........ who doesnt wanna look good............ -
In such a case, I think its still best to seek professional help at a salon or other hair care centre. Hope this helps...
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PARAGRAPH pls.Originally posted by blueberryjam:haiz. hi ppl. i'm troubled...by my appearance. well u see, im a short hair gal. waiting for it to grow long. but...d moment i see my hair, i get fed up. when i lift it up, worse. i've got more white hair than pple older than me. but not so visible, becuz mostly its inside. my hair is wavy and frizzy. those whites curls their way out. i hate my curls too...i tried gel to keep it down. but it juz wuden. i hate it when my classmates say "eeek, eh u got white hair leh, wan me help u pluck anot? shiny sia, like silver..heheh.." den they keep going on. den luff at me. suan me. say i old already. wat bull$h!t. and its not heredity. my parents said when they were young, dey had no white hair, but now got. den my diet...i eat almost everything mar.(mind u, i'm not a pig nor am i fat) juz dat less veggies...seldom eat fruits...will it affect? my parents keep sayin me...say i play too much computer..eat too much snacks...like to bath at night...blah blah blah. den they say its ok. nvm one. ppl see student wif white hair - understandable, cuz of pressures and stuffs. but, not me wat. i no pressure, no nth. juz dat i worry too much. and i mean TOO MUCH. my frens keep sayin i worry for nth. i dunno why. i dun care. THOSE WHITES MUZ GO!!! i get pretty upset when i see those whites in d mirror...i used to pluck them, but pain leh..so i stopped. now, i cut them. until not so visible, until it cant curls out. i feel abit happier...dunno got side effect anot...haiz. later d more i cut, d longer and shinier it grows. den i die.
anyone of u got any treatments or stuffs for me?? intro them to me...i reali need those items. haiz. i hate my hair, i hate myself. no salons plz, cuz i dun think i can afford. neither will my parents fork out. if got creams or watever, affordable prices can...i think i can spare abit. i dun care wat, i borrow money from my fren...but! those whites....muz reali reali go....haiz. i need help desperately!!!!!!!!! ah........ who doesnt wanna look good............
White hair occurs on young people because of stress, if it's not hereditary. I'm not sure if there are other causes, but I'm sure stress is a major contributor.
It will not go away simply because you remove them by plucking. You don't see white hairs on the elderly disappearing, do you?
Please don't bother so much about what your friends say! If their comments really bother you, you can go to a hair salon and dye it black or dark brown [presuming your school does not allow the dyeing of hair]. Alternatively you can do it at home, with a box of DIY hair dyeing stuff for less than $15.
Your wavy hair cannot be fixed unless you rebond it, but the frizzyness can be controlled with the use of SERUM. There are alot of brands of serum out there, such as St Ives. I think I bought mine at $15.
I have white hair too. But I only pluck those that show up on the outside. Gonna dye 'em some other color after leaving JC. 
The hair will be there permanently lah. The only thing you can do now is to control your level of stress and manage stress properly. Don't sleep too late also. Then the white hair will not come out so much. -
what you can do is to use a fixed brand of shampoo and not switch just becoz the other has a special offer or something. Get something for 'damaged hair' type of shampoo. NOT guaranteed to work, but at least it helps to improve the hair quality.
it is hereditary, even if u don't believe it. it can be cause to recessive alleles in your genes. For example, it is possible for a child to have O blood type when his biological parents are both A type or B type. The reason for your premature hair whitening may be explained by this.
most importantly, you have to accept yourself for what you are, because we have no control over how we are going to look, how to digest your food, how we think [even], how many times your heart has to beat etc. Just as we have no control on how to stop our hair from whitening, and don't tell me hair dye. Loving and accepting yourself is more important than whether or not your peers accept you. Best wishes -
Dear BlueberryJam,
I have white hair too, and it started when I was abt 14-15 years old. The reason? I also dunnoe leh.....even till today. But the funny thing is my brothers (3 + me) all have white hair, its just that some have slightly more and the youngest one have a few only. I have checked with my parents, and i'm sure its not inherited from them cos they do not have them when young.
My is still not so bad, esp when I'm a guy (mid 20s now). I keep my hair short so it doesn't really look obvious, esp under sunlight. Tried plucking them when young, and of cos it does not work. So think u better stop.
If you are talking abt food, hey I'm, exactly like you, seldom eat vegetables...... but dun think this is the reason cos I got a female friend who's a vegetarian and has some white hair as well. Might be something to do wif MSG in the food also.
I do think a lot though, much of a thinker myself, thus guess this is the reason why I have white hair. I personally believe its one of the reason, though i cannot 100% be sure. Yes, so its important to think less, sleep well etc.
I understand that as a young girl, in fact gers of all age do want to look nice, and be good looking. I fully understand your agony, cos like you, friends keep laughing at me when I'm ard your age. But then as I was too lazy to do anything, I just leave it alone. Soon get use to all the remarks and felt its nothing. But then, sorry for beinf frank but I do understand that if a ger got white hair, then, the case will be slightly different from guy.
Why i say this u might say. Like I say again, dun meant to hurt you, just being frank, and to share. Help if possible but not too sure how to. There's a saying a ger's hair is a ger's life. In fact a lot of gers look good cos of shiny healthy hair, thus understand the part of wanting dark beautiful hair. If the ger got white hair, the easiest way is to keep it short. If wanted to keep longer hair, require a lot of trouble and effort. And of cos money involve.
I personally feel that if you would want to keep your hair longer (which I'm sure will make you look much lovelier), you have to constantly dye your hair yourself, at home maybe cos cheapest way. This is the easiest way out. Make it a habit like once in a mnth kind of dyeing lor, guess its not so bad.
I also saw before some chinese medicated shampoo which they claimed that after using for some time, your hair will turn black. This, I see b4, but never tried before so not too sure if it will work. Guess one negative point of such shampoo is the smell i guess. Not sure.
Really, I hope you will not be too troubled by this. But if you really choose to keep your hair longer, my suggestion are as above. Hope it helps.
Like I say earlier, I understand your agony, but there's really not much you and I can do abt it anyway. All the best to you, and hopefully u r able to find better solutions than what I had suggested.
Hey, I wanted to look good as well you know. Heh....so if you got very very good idea, or solutions, pls share with us. Take care Jammy!
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thanks alot for u guys' advices. d prob iz, my parents DUN WAN me to dye.....den some more..my hair got abit brown...den if dye le...become black...i like my hair EXCEPT for its curls, whites n frizziness. haiz. juz feel so fed up wif all d whites curling out. not onli one part, but d whole of my head, i nt sure behind got anot..i cant see. and i dun wan, confirm got one...haiz..
a ger's hair is a ger's life...true...i noe. dats why...
serums? where to get those...? -
If i'm not wrong, serums can be brought at "Guardian".