Originally posted by dreamykite:
Recently there's a rise of people going pubs for the thrills of getting to know girls/guy. They can go into the extent of having ONS and not knowing the person in the following day. Worse of all, some have affairs leaving their wives and children at home. The more secretive their relationship is, the more they feel excited. This obviously shown human blatan desire for sex without no love. Like the rise of prositition (similiar to free ONS), massage parlours, cosmetic surgery, etc. With men fullfilling their inert desire and women having the attention w/hich they craz for. Both men and women need the assurance of their physicality from the public excluding their partners and family members. If this social immorality is to persist in our society, I suggest we abandon the idea of marriage. Why? This is for the good of all who resist the moral one. Don't you agree?
Gonna answer this in summary form:
Just in case you din realise, it has
ALWAYS BEEN THERE. Rise of people going pubs and seeking for ONS? Its has ALWAYS BEEN THERE.


Abandon marriage? That's insanely stupid. What you see is only half the glass; the idealogy of true love will ultimately lead into marriage, which will be the classic case of 'once there, forever will be'.
The theory of sex and nature works close to one another, while the theory of love and spirit is another altogether. Man by nature is born to mate and provide, while woman is to nuture. Man are 'taught' by nuture to spread its seeds around, to propagate and ensure humanity continues, while woman are 'taught' to cater and nuture the young, also to ensure the young ones survive and humanity continues. By nature you fark, by spirit you make love.

Example: Man patron bar. Man attracted physically or sexually to any woman, man wants to screw her. (literally - spread the seeds theory). Woman on the other hand, resist because woman has more to invest (nuture nature). - This is provided external factor is not considered to overweigh on both side.

Love is spiritual. Probably only human could attain such level in emotions. Marriage is the acknowledgement of your love blossoming into something. NOW, marriage has merely became a certificate. Physical evidence of superficial love - shotgun marriage, or for any physical & measurable reasons (Wealth, financial and probably career stability). This is the nature side of love. Spiritual love needs no such conditions.


Human's mind affects this as well: Psychological needs (Status, looks, 'feel', etc) conjunct with morals, values (Responsibility, religion teachings, etc). The spiritual side: Cosmic lesson & karma. In a nutshell of 100% - all these factors contribute into the person's attitude towards relationship. (Subjective and differ from people to people)
All these affects one's fate in any love relationship. If people wants to screw around, Physics Law states that there will be an equal opposite force (check out people who cheat on their marriage, do you think they are truely happy?). Love cosmic lesson stated that one comes into this world to learn something, repayin or collecting -if it must involve sexuality - it will. (Check out the chance of you marriaging your first love and happy-ever after is like how fringin` impossible in today's context?)

P.S: I type a whole list of sh|t, however I think its far too nagging. Anyway, marriage will and should never be abolish

Cheers