Ever felt left out in life?
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Have ya ever felt so left out among ppl? Felt tat y can't u be more like others who are so easy going? Well i want to be liddat, was a bit like this last time, but getting more n more quiet... and left out. Man~ am i having depression? so many problems bout life. Haizzzzzz
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i've never fit in..
in any group...
to the "radical" people, i'm the "nice guy" who is tolerated
to the "kwai" people, i'm the "weird and extreme" guy who is also tolerated...
but i'm neither.. i never fit in anywhere.. at anytime.. with anyone...
not even in my own place.. the only place i can almost relax is my own room..
the only time i felt i belonged was when She and i were together.. when she accepted me with all my quirks... then we parted ways...
maybe you're like me.. we don't belong anywhere.. but somehow, we have to make peace with that..
throughout the years, i've learnt to be at peace with that... on the outside looking in all the time.. it is a strange existence..
but yes, i have felt left out... still do... so i find my own way.. off the beaten path...
i hope you do find your own way, and find someone who will walk that way with you
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yep... i'm dat kind who warms up slowly, so most ppl might think me very dao...
NO!
i'm just shy...
unless i'm wif ppl i noe and is comfortable wif, u'll find me shifting in my seat every now n then, and keeping so very quiet... THEN i feel left out, coz got nuthing to say... -
yea.......once in a while....
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yah...
i feel left out of my family
and oni recently did i find out how left out i am of my maternal side family, even though i was so close to them when i was small.
it really hurts.
but i can only blame myself... -
wah...
haha.. is it guys too sensitive. -
You're not the misfit. They just can't understand your genius. Screw them all !
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Hmm....as for me...dunno whether to consider misfit or not?
Had these bunch of sec sch mates pretty crappy. Most of the time together, was in the so-called "noisier" grp in cls. Making jokes lar, doing stupid things. But however, i feel i cant talk to them about serious stuff. So in the end im always pretty alone.
I wish to loosen up but i find it hard cos im the type who rather have friends who are there with u sharing ups n downs n if bonus, similar interests. Instead of those just meet up, crap ard, do stupid thigns but nv realy tok "xin shi".
But scary dun u think?if u cant find anyone to click with. I like to do alot of stuff. Soccer,sports, music,hanging out....but just cant find the right pple to. Hmm...
To the outsiders, i seem like i need to loosen up. Alot of pple say i think too much n also sensitive.
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You're 18?Originally posted by w1nd:Have ya ever felt so left out among ppl? Felt tat y can't u be more like others who are so easy going? Well i want to be liddat, was a bit like this last time, but getting more n more quiet... and left out. Man~ am i having depression? so many problems bout life. Haizzzzzz -
So wat about being 18???
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Yeah 18... but then, felt tat i am always lagging behind by 2 yrs of age... really sux... lag...
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Do you think it's because of what had happened to you or just a sense of self-awareness at this point of life?Originally posted by w1nd:Yeah 18... but then, felt tat i am always lagging behind by 2 yrs of age... really sux... lag...
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seems that i'm having the same problem too.. its so sad.. i have frens whom i'm close to in jc.. we always meet up n crap ard too but nv tok abt 'xin shi'... mayb because i can't really open up or what... sometimes i feel really terrible and sad but i don't show it... i jus pretend to b happy or sth.. ppl don't c... i jus hide n cry alone.. i'm afraid to show the soft side to others... my frens end up saying i'm an unfeeling person and stuff though i noe they were joking but i take it seriously.. its sad...Originally posted by Insightist:Hmm....as for me...dunno whether to consider misfit or not?
Had these bunch of sec sch mates pretty crappy. Most of the time together, was in the so-called "noisier" grp in cls. Making jokes lar, doing stupid things. But however, i feel i cant talk to them about serious stuff. So in the end im always pretty alone.
I wish to loosen up but i find it hard cos im the type who rather have friends who are there with u sharing ups n downs n if bonus, similar interests. Instead of those just meet up, crap ard, do stupid thigns but nv realy tok "xin shi".
But scary dun u think?if u cant find anyone to click with. I like to do alot of stuff. Soccer,sports, music,hanging out....but just cant find the right pple to. Hmm...
To the outsiders, i seem like i need to loosen up. Alot of pple say i think too much n also sensitive.
i feel left out when i'm with my 2 sec sch frens cos i joined their group abit later... both of them in poly but not me... drifted apart even more... when we go out together i seem to b out of place not that they ignore me or what but i guess its jus that we drifted apart... argh... -
Originally posted by Insightist:So wat about being 18???
Being 18 is a curse. -
Man, I feel left out almost all the time in my whole 19 years of my life...Originally posted by w1nd:Have ya ever felt so left out among ppl? Felt tat y can't u be more like others who are so easy going? Well i want to be liddat, was a bit like this last time, but getting more n more quiet... and left out. Man~ am i having depression? so many problems bout life. Haizzzzzz -
Originally posted by Parka: Being 18 is a curse.
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Never not felt this way b4.Originally posted by w1nd:Have ya ever felt so left out among ppl? Felt tat y can't u be more like others who are so easy going? Well i want to be liddat, was a bit like this last time, but getting more n more quiet... and left out. Man~ am i having depression? so many problems bout life. Haizzzzzz -
i also cannot find into most grps
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ya... when 4 of my best frenz left me for no reasons... But now 3 came back... haha... damn happy...
Want to thanks them for being my best frenz.... -
Well, maybe self-awarness TOO MUCh already huh... time to dun bother...
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Not don't bother lah... Try to strike a balance and maintain a healthy outlook and mentality...Originally posted by w1nd:Well, maybe self-awarness TOO MUCh already huh... time to dun bother... -
Have ya ever felt so left out among ppl? Felt tat y can't u be more like others who are so easy going? Well i want to be liddat, was a bit like this last time, but getting more n more quiet... and left out. Man~ am i having depression? so many problems bout life. Haizzzzzz
All the time mate. But it should not be hard for you, because your local. Some of us are different in appearance, race, culture, time frames in JCs and many many more other characteristics.
You remind me of myself many months ago, but I have learned to let go of my goodness and sink into coldness. You are not having depression yet, I can tell by the way you write. If you let it consume you, you will sink into it. -
I used to be goodie goodie, probably because the people around me spoke to me. Eversince I came into this new class...late by 3 months, I seem to have grown more isolated from people day by day. I don;t even like going to school anymore. It hurts because I think there is something wrong with me if I can't have a group of friends like everyone else, plus it hurts even more because I have no way to solve this problem.
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Most of the time.. i feel dat way.. whenever i am in cls.. i c my frds toking n having fun.. but i juz can't do the same.. dunno y oso..
mebbe bcoz i dun oft crack jokes.. den other ppl tink i m serious or something.. dunno lahz..
these 2 yrs.. even when i m wif my family.. i start to realise dat its almost the same thing wif my family.. sighz^
Sometimes really envy my bro.. he seems to noe everything.. or mebbe he's juz more outgoing den me..
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i guess we are birds of the same feather cos i feel left out too and i am rather afraid to talk to girls too. even if i speak to them, after a while i will be like dun noe wat to say then i will keep my mouth shut