LOVE

• GOiN^CrAzY^SooN

  21 Oct 03, 21:33

  Originally posted by andywalker:

  now is you are the guy what will you do?
  Also, are guys really so noble that "Love is looking at her and knowing that even if you can't be with her, you feel happy because she is happy with someone else".
  

  I do not care about which route does the guy take but I will answer your second question. Yes, I do feel happy knowing that she's happy with the person she is with now..and that the person is showering her with the care that she deserved...but at the same time I do feel sadness...I feel sad knowing that I am not the one who will wake up every morning and find her snuggling next to me...I do feel sad knowing that I am not the one that she goes clinging on the shoulder pouring out her problems...I do indeed feel very sad to know that I am not the one that will be sharing each and every happy moments of hers together...but at the same time I feel happy. I don't know how to explain these feelings to you but some of you know what it feels like..all in all, I just wish that she will be forever happy with the person she is with now and that the person will take care of her..It's sad but it's the bitter truth...
  
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  " 'Wait!' That's what I said before you went away.
  Wait, that's what I'm doin' until today.
  Wait forever I guess I will, I just wish I could have told you,
  'Wait! I love you still....'
• Devil1976

  22 Oct 03, 11:56

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  I think i am doing that...am i happy... yes and no...

  You're alive...??
• andywalker

  22 Oct 03, 14:46

  Originally posted by GOiN^CrAzY^SooN:

  Yes, I do feel happy knowing that she's happy with the person she is with now..and that the person is showering her with the care that she deserved...but at the same time I do feel sadness...I feel sad knowing that I am not the one who will wake up every morning and find her snuggling next to me...I do feel sad knowing that I am not the one that she goes clinging on the shoulder pouring out her problems...I do indeed feel very sad to know that I am not the one that will be sharing each and every happy moments of hers together...but at the same time I feel happy. I don't know how to explain these feelings to you but some of you know what it feels like..all in all, I just wish that she will be forever happy with the person she is with now and that the person will take care of her..It's sad but it's the bitter truth...

  but sometime you can said, but when you want to act thts another story...how many guys really so noble? i mean in a real life situation, not a imaginary one..
• Yunhaier

  22 Oct 03, 23:32

  Originally posted by andywalker:

  but sometime you can said, but when you want to act thts another story...how many guys really so noble? i mean in a real life situation, not a imaginary one..

  Nothing to do with being noble - just personal definition of love.
  
  If I cannot with the one I love, I rather she be with someone she love then and me be her best friend.
  
  Cheers
• andywalker

  6 Nov 03, 14:52

  i found my answer have you all?
  
  Love is patient, love is kind.
  it does not envy, it does not boast,
  it is not proud, it is not rude,
  it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered,
  it keeps no records of wrongs.
  
  Love does not delight in evil
  but rejoices with truth.
  it always protects, always trust,
  always hopes, always perseveres.
  
  Love never fails.
• Devil1976

  6 Nov 03, 16:24