How Do You Mend A Borken Heart......
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Yah, what u said absolutely true lor....always been single (somemore grew up as an only child)..then started relationship 8 years ago..time spent with friends/doing other things all greatly reduced..became used to it........now, trying to fill 'the gap', is extremely hard for some....especially it's 8 years of relationship.. but i think someday, there will be a time when one will eventually get 'out of the mud'....Originally posted by Bear:well, from my point of view it's how we think manifested itself, which leads to the sadness and so-called 'depression'. remember the time when you are single and never really had any problems about spending every minute of your time, you could be playing sports, hang out with friends etc etc. Then came the time when you got attached, and the hours you would spend with your partner. 3-4 hours a weekday, 5-10 hours on a weekend. you basically live your life on that other person, and had not given yourself time to do your own stuff or the same amount of time on the things that you used to do. Then the person goes away, you're stuck with this 3-4 hours a day not knowing what to do with it, which you usually spend on your partner, so you start thinking about her/him, which brings back all the memories, and sink you into a deeper into the state. This is where they ask you do other things come it, as it will distract you from your thoughts, and thus be pulling yourself out of the 'depression' earlier... =)
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yes...time will heal one broken heart...but memories will lingers around u..but i believe memories do fade sumhow...maybe u could keep yrself busy...so as not to think of wad had happened. Listening to msuci could smooth yr feelings too...a memory poem for u written by me...hope u like it
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its hard...but its possible...let time do the job
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Use handyplast
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yea.. time can really heal everything.. once time pass, u will slowly forget the unhappiness..Originally posted by FireIce:there is no standard formula to mend a broken heart....depends on how each individual is willing to put in determination to let life go on.....
time can heal.........just how long......... -
Time does heal all wounds but the scars remain.
The lover's spurn is like a knife searing and twisting in the heart.
It happened to me. I managed to get over it. Some friendly advise (hope it helps) :-
1. Pamper yourself. Boost your self-confidence by going for a new hair cut, working out in the gym ,etc
2. Distract yourself by learning a new skill or picking up a new hobby, e.g. keeping a pet, photography, etc. This will help fill up the uncomfortable moments when you are alone and your thoughts tend to drify back to the pain
3. Go out with your close close buddies. Talk about it if it makes you feels better. But don't swell on it. Remember that you have to move on and there are alot of fishes out there. Don't indulge in self-pity, it doesn't work and prolongs the pain.
4. At a later stage, prepare yourself for the next r/s. Try to understand the opposite sex by reading ot making new friends.
Last but not least, have to willpower to go on. Go read the lyrics of the songs, "I will survive"
Take it easy and remember, move on.