Hi, how ya doing...?
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I realised many a time when someone ask another he / she'll often reply... "Fine, how about you...?" Or something like that.... But I've also realised that often that's not truly the case....
Alot of people are just tired... They don't wish to talk about their lives... Their problems... Some don't trust others with their secrets....
Many here in AA.... Never mention a word of their own problem... Or never really post a topic regarding it / them.....
So I'm just asking now, "How are you doing...?" Just in simple terms if you don't wanna put it long? Yes? No? Not that good...? Feel strange? Empty? Unfulfilling.....? -
i'm ok..
i guess..i'm not really sure too..
thanks for asking
and how are you? -
i'm no good, but i know wat to do about it.
thanx for asking! hehehe -
ok, still surviving, hows the devil doing?
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then why u ask?
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How's life? -
Nice topic.
And why am I not surprised that you
will come out with something like this.
I think I am fine right now.
I ain't that sure myself.
Cause I know clearly that happy moments,
won't last.
I am just hoping the next mishap
won't come so early.
Just need to enjoy my holidays right now.
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How about u devil, how have u been doing?
It is true tat I've lots of friends asking me tat qn recently, maybe I've been too busy.
but I guess that is the way I like my life to be.... well.... at least for the next 3-5 years. -
Mi? life is ok wif ups n downs. Alot of times when time is bad, really have to look at the brighter side. Did I. hardly. I tend to b emotional. So I would ponder over my problem for a few days.
Tend to say "I'm fine' because in many other parts of the world, there will always be situations worse than ours. so Y ponder. -
haha~ Devil, we are all living in denial.. heheh~ just to be sure that we are not worse off than other people.. because we are in a society that cannot weaklings... Problems = weak = inferior... if let other know that we have a problem, we will still try to cover up by saying that we know how to solve it somehow.. hehe~ That's just human nature, especially when we are in a society that cannot accept failures and mistakes.
Well, I do have my problems like how am I going to get into graduate school to start on with my MA in Cognitive psych or I'm more interested in doing a PhD in cognitive psych directly after my BA. There's just a lot of work to do, and it means that I need to score 'A's for all my classes from now, which I'm not making the mark, at least till so far..
Then there's the problem with my r/s life too.. how to maintain a soon to be long-distance r/s. just that my gf is from another country, and we'll soon be parting with our BAs in a year's time. Even if we don't part, how are we going to stay together, and where shall we settle down in the end?? Problems that I cannot really solve, without her agreement, even with it, the finer details still needed some tuning, which I really have no idea what or where I'm heading... =)
Well, these are the things that's going on my mind at the moment... =) -
How r u
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BEAR!!! SO GLAD that you're STILL HERE!!! So are you coming back to Singapore SOON?? Hope you'll put your studies to some good use in here after you've graduated??Originally posted by Bear:haha~ Devil, we are all living in denial.. heheh~ just to be sure that we are not worse off than other people.. because we are in a society that cannot weaklings... Problems = weak = inferior... if let other know that we have a problem, we will still try to cover up by saying that we know how to solve it somehow.. hehe~ That's just human nature, especially when we are in a society that cannot accept failures and mistakes.
Well, I do have my problems like how am I going to get into graduate school to start on with my MA in Cognitive psych or I'm more interested in doing a PhD in cognitive psych directly after my BA. There's just a lot of work to do, and it means that I need to score 'A's for all my classes from now, which I'm not making the mark, at least till so far..
Then there's the problem with my r/s life too.. how to maintain a soon to be long-distance r/s. just that my gf is from another country, and we'll soon be parting with our BAs in a year's time. Even if we don't part, how are we going to stay together, and where shall we settle down in the end?? Problems that I cannot really solve, without her agreement, even with it, the finer details still needed some tuning, which I really have no idea what or where I'm heading... =)
Well, these are the things that's going on my mind at the moment... =)
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Sometimes I'll think back about my past, not in details... But... How I've managed to cast them behind. Am I simply cannot imagine how could I have survived if I've not done so. Neither can I imagine what kinda person would I be today if I've managed to survive under the salvation of those thoughts...
My life is busy. Not really that good but at least better than the past. I'd always hold this belief. No matter how deep a shit you're in, you're bound to bounce back... Unless you die? To DEEPER a shit you're in, the higher the probablity that your life would get 'better'... Go think about it...?
I know there're many 'mistakes' that I've made in my past life which have kinda greatly affected my life today. I know there're probably little I can do today to change them. Then again, I'm not sure if I would even wanna change them? For without them, I won't have been who I am today? A NOBODY.... Haha...
As a Devil I am today, I'm not quite worried about my future. My life should be simple enough. The future for me should be death... Inevitable? But there're just so much more about life (in general) which I ponder about... If my theories are true? Sometimes perhaps I think too much...? Yup... I believe I think too much....
My main concerns now other than work and survival would be the future generations of human kinds... What kinda person have we become as the world constantly reshape itself and changes....
Is it kinda be a brighter one? I certainly hope so...? But of course, 'hope' alone is certainly not enough for me... Sometimes I just wish there're so much more that I can do about it... But reluctant as I always am... I'm afraid... Of what I could end up doing? What if I really turn up to be a 'Devil'?
Damn... Don't think too much liao, think I'll be going CRAZY SOON...?? ~WAHAHAhahaha... " -
i'm fine. thank you... i read oftenly but seldom reply... coz alot of ppl reply liaoz...
i broke up wih my bf for bout 2-3 months le. until now still think of him. now stress loh. exam around the corner. haven even finish my PROJECT. aww... i hate it. so difficult. psychiatric project. going crazy soon. i say so much oso no use. haha u dunno me.... thanx for asking. how bout u?
akino -
hi how u?
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Harrowz... Still visit this place once in a while... =) and I'm surprised that you're here too.. in fact you went all the way to take the seat of the moderator.. heheh~ Congratulations. Though don't think I said this to you the other time when came back in some previous occasion.
Well sad to say, I may not be of much help in the future. Although I may be touching on the general psych on the surface, I learn that my interest is no longer about counselling, but to study how our mind works... =) Well, if people are looking to score 100% on their test, I could help a little, but not for telling them how to feel better etc etc... =)
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Stress? Strange enough I no longer feel much stress now... Sometimes I still complain of stress but deep down inside.... NOTHING much. Think I'm fast becoming more and more like a Devil. Used to be afraid as I feel less and less. The CHANGES. Now? Think a little getting used to?Originally posted by akino:i'm fine. thank you... i read oftenly but seldom reply... coz alot of ppl reply liaoz... i broke up wih my bf for bout 2-3 months le. until now still think of him. now stress loh. exam around the corner. haven even finish my PROJECT. aww... i hate it. so difficult. psychiatric project. going crazy soon. i say so much oso no use. haha u dunno me.... thanx for asking. how bout u?
akino
Sometimes I feel that I only act like a human. But deep down inside? Perhaps I want the best of both worlds? That's why I still continue to act like a human... But I know the majority of the human race quite well... Usually have little tolerance for other than their own kind... Think of their own as superiority... INDEED. From being barbaric to civilisation, to the LOSS of CIVILISATION... Such POWERS.... Such MENTALITY... EXTINCTION is just a MATTER of TIME.
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Originally posted by Bear:
Harrowz... Still visit this place once in a while... =) and I'm surprised that you're here too.. in fact you went all the way to take the seat of the moderator.. heheh~ Congratulations. Though don't think I said this to you the other time when came back in some previous occasion.
Thanks. Being a moderator in here has nothing much to congratulate about. It's just a job. Some time ago some chaos were in here. Without much moderation, it's a pity to see this place go to a waste.
Well sad to say, I may not be of much help in the future. Although I may be touching on the general psych on the surface, I learn that my interest is no longer about counselling, but to study how our mind works... =) Well, if people are looking to score 100% on their test, I could help a little, but not for telling them how to feel better etc etc... =)
Let me just post this question back.. How are you??
I think you're just being modest. Let me be FRANK with you. Your 'contributions' now as compared to before are totally DIFFERENT. Getting your facts right and the level of maturity in replies. It's a pity counselling is no longer your cup of tea. Though I'm not really that surprised, people do change. Afterall, it's a PRACTICAL world out there. -
out of point? haha ya loh... nvm la
akino -
fine for nw....thnkx for asking, how bout u?
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Devil1976:
Thanx for the compliment dude... =)
I was just thinking of putting what I have learnt and collated so far to good use, and prevent some speculation on things that are not all that true. Nowadays I usually only say things that have been supported scientifically. Matured?? maybe not... because we can't have matured content here, as some of our readers underage.. heheh~
akino:
What kind of psychiatric project are you working on?? I'm quite interested, as reading psychology in the uni at the moment. Maybe can spend sometime to chit chat a bit, and share what we have learned and discovered... -
YUP... After having been through your course of studies... You might be pretty amazed how 'fake' this world can be in its appearance.... And the way majority of the people choose to think and believe... Sometimes you just won't know to laugh or to cry...?Originally posted by Bear:Devil1976:
Thanx for the compliment dude... =)
I was just thinking of putting what I have learnt and collated so far to good use, and prevent some speculation on things that are not all that true. Nowadays I usually only say things that have been supported scientifically. Matured?? maybe not... because we can't have matured content here, as some of our readers underage.. heheh~ -
Yupz can't agree more I guess, especially how rumors can kill people. I just want to find out the truth about things, and dismiss all the silly old-wife tales. Well, that's how it was found that kissing will not result in pregnancy long time ago.. ehhehe~ =)Originally posted by Devil1976:YUP... After having been through your course of studies... You might be pretty amazed how 'fake' this world can be in its appearance.... And the way majority of the people choose to think and believe... Sometimes you just won't know to laugh or to cry...?
I'm currently more interested in memory, in ways that we would learn better. It is commonly known that when you get older, you will tend to have poorer sense of direction and poorer memory. I got to find out the reason behind it. Doctors are selling pills at $10+ each to help improve the brain but all it needed is a $1 plate, and the elderly can remember to take their meds and remember where they place their glasses.. That's what is inspiring me at the moment. Investigate, research and discover... =) -
Sometimes too much of a good thing is never really a good thing...?Originally posted by Bear:Yupz can't agree more I guess, especially how rumors can kill people. I just want to find out the truth about things, and dismiss all the silly old-wife tales. Well, that's how it was found that kissing will not result in pregnancy long time ago.. ehhehe~ =)
I'm currently more interested in memory, in ways that we would learn better. It is commonly known that when you get older, you will tend to have poorer sense of direction and poorer memory. I got to find out the reason behind it. Doctors are selling pills at $10+ each to help improve the brain but all it needed is a $1 plate, and the elderly can remember to take their meds and remember where they place their glasses.. That's what is inspiring me at the moment. Investigate, research and discover... =)
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Hey Bear, not sure if you remember me.
I don't think so eh.
hahahahaa
But glad to have you back.