im very sad...
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i broke off with my GF liao...
very sad now...
miss her very much...
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let time heal very thing.
good luck~ -
don be sad dude...
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let time heal your wounds..find a better one..
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dun know y i initiate the break up oso...
must be crazy....
love her so much yet broke up wif her...
i miss her.... so much so much... -
Originally posted by GHoST_18:......
dun know y i initiate the break up oso...
must be crazy....
love her so much yet broke up wif her...
i miss her.... so much so much... 
There's a reason behind everything.
If there're no reasons......well......I don't even want to say it. -
take it easy.....be well
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good for you, lesson learnt.
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Hm... it's the same thing over and over again.
Time my friend. Time. -
I dun think there is realli a better one..every experience is unique and sweet in it own ways...breakups neednt be bitter..true love never goes away..it just takes different forms...Originally posted by rovguy:let time heal your wounds..find a better one.. -
take a break. let time tell u what u really really wants.
memories only stay in the heart, life still goes on.....
best wishes
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Had the longest nite in my life...
Couldnt sleep...
Kept tossing around my bed til 6...
Then she msg me at 8.15pm saying we can still be frens...
Ask me to look for a more suitable ger...
Damn... i still miss her... -
its often very hard to accept the reality in the beginning of every breakups. and its human nature that u will miss her alot, keep thinking when she will sms/call u up to say "lets patch" and lots and lots of other stupid thoughts.
i seriously believe that time can fade those thoughts away....
if u know for sure both of ya is impossible to get back together, then dont put any hope into the relationship anymore..
i know its always easier said than done, but do believe that you will be you gradually. -
WHY did YOU initiated the break up? If it is just a moment of foolishness, why not try an immediate patch back with her ASAP if she can accept it?Originally posted by GHoST_18:Had the longest nite in my life...
Couldnt sleep...
Kept tossing around my bed til 6...
Then she msg me at 8.15pm saying we can still be frens...
Ask me to look for a more suitable ger...
Damn... i still miss her...
But of course, you must understand why you did mentioned the break up in the 1st place... Would you be able to tolerate once you're back in the relationship, or is it simply a wiser choice to just break up... It's also IMPORTANT that you don't hurt for again if you REALLY wants a patch back... If not, like what most others have already said... It's TIME to MOVE ON.... (or maybe just give yourself a little time to cool down before moving on? ) -
do stuff with friends..
take the time to be alone..
do some thinking, soul-searching...
heal...
move on...
it may take time... goodness knows it took a long time for me to become happy again.. but we do what we can..
and i'll never forget Her, i'll never stop loving Her.. but it cannot be for now... still, we move on...
be well yah? -
Plain stupidity...Originally posted by Devil1976:WHY did YOU initiated the break up? If it is just a moment of foolishness, why not try an immediate patch back with her ASAP if she can accept it?
But of course, you must understand why you did mentioned the break up in the 1st place... Would you be able to tolerate once you're back in the relationship, or is it simply a wiser choice to just break up... It's also IMPORTANT that you don't hurt for again if you REALLY wants a patch back... If not, like what most others have already said... It's TIME to MOVE ON.... (or maybe just give yourself a little time to cool down before moving on? )
Regretted the moment i said it...
Try to patch but she ignored me...
Boarded the cab and went home...
Damn... how stupid can i get...
Feet so bad now... Feel so sad now... -
it's normal....ppl nowadays be it gals or boys or whoever,they always do things without thinking of the consequences..only when they dd the thing,then they REGRET!!!!Maybe u r under some stress aso or watever,pls dun take anybody's feelings 2 vent it...regret is 1 thing,another thing is u can try 2 win her back by all means if u really love her...nevertheless,gd luck 2 u....Originally posted by GHoST_18:Plain stupidity...
Regretted the moment i said it...
Try to patch but she ignored me...
Boarded the cab and went home...
Damn... how stupid can i get...
Feet so bad now... Feel so sad now... -
Since she still willing to be frenz.....den start from frenz again....Originally posted by GHoST_18:Had the longest nite in my life...
Couldnt sleep...
Kept tossing around my bed til 6...
Then she msg me at 8.15pm saying we can still be frens...
Ask me to look for a more suitable ger...
Damn... i still miss her...
Maybe 1 day there will be miracles....
Pull urself together, if not for urself at least for those who still cares abt u....! -
Originally posted by GHoST_18:
Plain stupidity...
Regretted the moment i said it...
Try to patch but she ignored me...
Boarded the cab and went home...
Damn... how stupid can i get...
Feet so bad now... Feel so sad now...
things can anyhow eat...things cannot anyhow say..
some things spoken can never be taken back and things will not be
the same again...
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How old are the both of you and when did this matter happened? How long have you both been together liao...?Originally posted by GHoST_18:Plain stupidity...
Regretted the moment i said it...
Try to patch but she ignored me...
Boarded the cab and went home...
Damn... how stupid can i get...
Feet so bad now... Feel so sad now...
If you think that she's just currently angry with you and not decisively made up her mind to leave you (based on what you know of her character and not how you WISH it would be...), you might like to post the details of what happened out either in here or to my PM if you prefer.
HOWEVER, based on SURFACE ANALYSIS from the facts you've given... There's a > 70% chance that she's happy to leave it. And probably finds it kinda a relief to be so?
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sth tells me that u two will get back together..... just this strange feelingOriginally posted by GHoST_18:Had the longest nite in my life...
Couldnt sleep...
Kept tossing around my bed til 6...
Then she msg me at 8.15pm saying we can still be frens...
Ask me to look for a more suitable ger...
Damn... i still miss her... 
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Sounds like a sad story, but come on~... who's to blame here ... ...
Since you have initiate the breakup, why are you complaining about sad and etc etc ... Like a whining baby who had just lost a toy ... PULL YOURSELF TOGETHER. If you think you still love her, get your butt moving and show your sincerity. STOP WHINING HERE. Whining here alone does not bring her back to you. I believe if you show enough sincerity and that you truly still love her, you can win her back.
Sorry if sounds like scolding you, but then, I think you need a kick in the butt to get you moving
. Good luck bro. Dun let happiness slip pass you fingers without trying to catch them. AND DUN do stupid things again!
One thing you can be sure, if you tried to win her back, you will not regret for not trying, even if she does not chose you. If you just keep whining now, well, you know the result already. -
hi,Originally posted by GHoST_18:i broke off with my GF liao...
very sad now...
miss her very much...
hope you've gotten over the stormy period and are up and running fine now!!!
cheers
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i really dunno wat she wants...
she wants to avoid the topic on relationship...
but she like very gan cheong when she knew im facing some probs wif my work and tried to help me...
then after work i went to her workplace to look for her...
she saw me and avoided me...
juz read her ICQ profile and she wrote abt her in escape mode...
she is very lost and she dunno wat she wans... -
don't stalk her...
give her time and space to figure things out..
be strong.. for yourself and for her...
tell her you'll be there for her if she needs you.. and be there for her when she does..
but give her her own time and space...
if it was meant to be, and with your support, she'll go back to you.. if not, take it as it never was meant to be...
good luck, be well yah?