can help? 1 sided love i suppose
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guys,i need help.. gif mi ur suggestions.
during the times when i am still with my ex gf, i came to noe her classmates called it "A".. during dat time i didnt realli noe "A" well, onli see in sch and exchange some greetings.. times passed and my r/s with my ex gf ended..
saw "A" online often and began chatting online..during dis time seldom sms her lei.. soon after, i met her once and we went out together.. w/o myself knowing, i noe myself dat i've fallen for her...
soon beginning to sms her but she seldom reply.. last few wks was exam wk so i nv sms her often onli tell her to studi hard and send some gd nite msg.. she didnt reply much.. i told her once b4 dat i like her.
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment..
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hmmm since u already said you told her b4 u liked her... and she's reacting in such a way, prob she doesn't want to take one step further in yr relationship wif her and just continue to remain as frens. So in tt case prob her actions is hinting to u tt she doesn't have any romantic interest in you... perhaps tis is just an infatuation on yr part or maybe you're looking for someone on the rebound( after yr break-up wif yr ex) tt you might have come on too strongly... hence i suggest tt you all continue to remain as frens and see how the relationship goes.. in any case keep yrself open to other girls and hope you'll find the right one someday!! Good luck and God Bless!
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thx, aniwae mi and my ex breakup quite long ago liao... 4mth+ alreadi.. so i alreadi open us myself.. .and i am sure she is the one..Originally posted by frOst^~^nOva:hmmm since u already said you told her b4 u liked her... and she's reacting in such a way, prob she doesn't want to take one step further in yr relationship wif her and just continue to remain as frens. So in tt case prob her actions is hinting to u tt she doesn't have any romantic interest in you... perhaps tis is just an infatuation on yr part or maybe you're looking for someone on the rebound( after yr break-up wif yr ex) tt you might have come on too strongly... hence i suggest tt you all continue to remain as frens and see how the relationship goes.. in any case keep yrself open to other girls and hope you'll find the right one someday!! Good luck and God Bless! -
4 mths is nothing...
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Originally posted by WrX_STi:guys,i need help.. gif mi ur suggestions.
during the times when i am still with my ex gf, i came to noe her classmates called it "A".. during dat time i didnt realli noe "A" well, onli see in sch and exchange some greetings.. times passed and my r/s with my ex gf ended..
saw "A" online often and began chatting online..during dis time seldom sms her lei.. soon after, i met her once and we went out together.. w/o myself knowing, i noe myself dat i've fallen for her...
soon beginning to sms her but she seldom reply.. last few wks was exam wk so i nv sms her often onli tell her to studi hard and send some gd nite msg.. she didnt reply much.. i told her once b4 dat i like her.
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment..
Two possible reasons:
I) You do not stir enough interest for her to give you a chance to get to know you better
II) simply, she is shutting herself. This does not only includes you; other people would be affected if they did what you did.
What you suppose to do? If she wanna avoid you, then let her be because chances are, she is not feeling very comfortable with your affection and attention. And yes, it is a one-sided love and like all one-sided love - you do not have the authority, power, stand and position to bargain or make request. Since you do not have all that mentioned, you could only wait or give up. I suggest the latter option, although if you have the fighting spirit, you could opt for the former decision, at your own risk.
Cheers -
SEEMINGLY she's not pretty much interested in you... On the other hand, there's also a chance that she's just avoiding you (or avoiding to give you an answer) for the time being due to certain reason(s)....Originally posted by WrX_STi:guys,i need help.. gif mi ur suggestions.
during the times when i am still with my ex gf, i came to noe her classmates called it "A".. during dat time i didnt realli noe "A" well, onli see in sch and exchange some greetings.. times passed and my r/s with my ex gf ended..
saw "A" online often and began chatting online..during dis time seldom sms her lei.. soon after, i met her once and we went out together.. w/o myself knowing, i noe myself dat i've fallen for her...
soon beginning to sms her but she seldom reply.. last few wks was exam wk so i nv sms her often onli tell her to studi hard and send some gd nite msg.. she didnt reply much.. i told her once b4 dat i like her.
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment.. -
thanks very much.. mayb i shall wait and see for awhile..
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sometimes... the truth isn't what you want to hear.. but its the fact and somehow, you will have to learn to accept it one day.
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thanks.. .
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hmmm since u already said you told her b4 u liked her... and she's reacting in such a way, prob she doesn't want to take one step further in yr relationship wif her and just continue to remain as frens. So in tt case prob her actions is hinting to u tt she doesn't have any romantic interest in you...
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
Precisely the thing I have been pointing out so meticulously, so save the effor and don't confess. Economically u get more out of it in the end. But for people like me, yall, it won't work, since we are dark and evil, nothing works, not even basic friendship.
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment.. -
well, based on what my obeservation on such matters, if a ger keep ignoring ur msgs or saying she busy or something like that, it obvious that she is purposely avoiding u... so don pin too much hope or waste too much time.. well boy, cheer up. u wil find a ger whu will apreciate you one day..Originally posted by WrX_STi:guys,i need help.. gif mi ur suggestions.
during the times when i am still with my ex gf, i came to noe her classmates called it "A".. during dat time i didnt realli noe "A" well, onli see in sch and exchange some greetings.. times passed and my r/s with my ex gf ended..
saw "A" online often and began chatting online..during dis time seldom sms her lei.. soon after, i met her once and we went out together.. w/o myself knowing, i noe myself dat i've fallen for her...
soon beginning to sms her but she seldom reply.. last few wks was exam wk so i nv sms her often onli tell her to studi hard and send some gd nite msg.. she didnt reply much.. i told her once b4 dat i like her.
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment.. -
well, based on what my obeservation on such matters, if a ger keep ignoring ur msgs or saying she busy or something like that, it obvious that she is purposely avoiding u... so don pin too much hope or waste too much time.. well boy, cheer up. u wil find a ger whu will apreciate you one day..Originally posted by WrX_STi:guys,i need help.. gif mi ur suggestions.
during the times when i am still with my ex gf, i came to noe her classmates called it "A".. during dat time i didnt realli noe "A" well, onli see in sch and exchange some greetings.. times passed and my r/s with my ex gf ended..
saw "A" online often and began chatting online..during dis time seldom sms her lei.. soon after, i met her once and we went out together.. w/o myself knowing, i noe myself dat i've fallen for her...
soon beginning to sms her but she seldom reply.. last few wks was exam wk so i nv sms her often onli tell her to studi hard and send some gd nite msg.. she didnt reply much.. i told her once b4 dat i like her.
now as "A" is having attachment, i tried asking her out for dinner after her work.. but she said she is bz.. and still sms her, and again she didnt reply much. at times,feel like giving her a call and haf a chat with her yet got no courage to call..
any ideas wad am i suppose to do or is she avoiding me? i once said to her i suppose dis is a 1 side love.. she replied "dis is not the right time to say" i am blur at the moment.. -
hmmm.. the case is everchanging.. sometimes ignore.. sometimes reply so fast.. realli dun understand wad gers are thinking..
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haiz... it like that.. jus leave it the way it is.. don keep forcing.. it may make the matter worse. cheer up..Originally posted by WrX_STi:hmmm.. the case is everchanging.. sometimes ignore.. sometimes reply so fast.. realli dun understand wad gers are thinking.. 
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Don't find anything adnormal about that? If HP is near and free, of course can reply fast... If HP not near, didn't realise got sms or too busy then reply late..? Why think so much?Originally posted by WrX_STi:hmmm.. the case is everchanging.. sometimes ignore.. sometimes reply so fast.. realli dun understand wad gers are thinking.. -
yeah, perhaps i am thinking too much.. i am someone who is pessimistic..Originally posted by Devil1976:Don't find anything adnormal about that? If HP is near and free, of course can reply fast... If HP not near, didn't realise got sms or too busy then reply late..? Why think so much? -
thanks.. i am leaving it alreadi..Originally posted by huy:haiz... it like that.. jus leave it the way it is.. don keep forcing.. it may make the matter worse. cheer up..