need some advise
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I know this girl for almost 2 years. I start to develop feeling for her. How do I tell her? I am quite shy and not good at my words..... pls advise.
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words from the heart, real honest words, move the heart...
we can't profess to tell you what to say, coz it would then be dishonest... as they are not your words..
think, and let your heart speak...
good luck dude
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Originally posted by man4nth:I know this girl for almost 2 years. I start to develop feeling for her. How do I tell her? I am quite shy and not good at my words..... pls advise.
On the shy bit you have to work out - if you are not good with your words, are you not good at speaking or expressing your feelings? If it is the former, you could write your thoughts and feelings into letter form (at least you know what you wrote is TRUELY what you wanna say, won't stammer, etc.).
If it is about expressing your feelings - try to emphasis your loving ways on action and behavior. People who ain't good at words, work on your body language. Best if she is Cancer, Scorpio or Pisces, their intuition & psychic sense will detect your actions generally.
P.S: These are tools to be used - DO NOT USE them as such on individual level. They must be combined with other elements to make your chase a more effective measure. And of course, regardless of what you plan to do, you still cannot escape trying to work out on your shy part and your quiet nature.
Cheers -
My dark sinister advice, don;t bother confessing, it won't amount to much anyway. She will isolate you and shun you for the rest of your days, you will lose a friendship. Most people confess and most people tell me the feeling on the opposite side is NOT MUTUAL.
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Can dont say it out one... thru actions maybe even better...
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must make sure she has the same feelings 4 u lor.. otherwise it will turn out ugly... if u are VERY sure that she likes u too, take the initiative to say "I like (yes! like first!) you" immediately!
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does she feel the same? it's hard because if u value your friendship wold you want to put it at risk by reveling the feelings? if you are sure actions prove better than words!! but that depends on if she is shy to she might blow you off(turn u down) be careful but i think let her know and if she doesnt feel the same tell her you still want to be friends and you value your friendship with her... you never know! good luck
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oh come on! if u like her jus tell her how u feel... don be shy and must have courage ma.. who knows maybe she also have feelings for u.? so u must take the initiative to do the first step. even if she really reject you or wat. don feel too sad. treat it as an experience. everythiiing have to have its first time rite?Originally posted by man4nth:I know this girl for almost 2 years. I start to develop feeling for her. How do I tell her? I am quite shy and not good at my words..... pls advise. -
I feel that U should at least tell her how U feel and don't let her guess. Frankness is the word as all gals like guy who are frank, sincere to them.
If she reject U but still want to maintain the friendship, keep associating with her. U never know she might accept U one of these day as thru the association with U, she can find out more about you, your good points etc. Gals are attracted to guys who had good personalities. ANYTHING is possible in life.