I get sick of everything very fast.
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Hi. I am new here and this is my first post. I have a problem and that is, i am tired of everything in life very fast including relationships, hobbies and anything else. I always wanted multi relationships and nothing can keep me interested for more than 3 months. What can i do to keep occupied and stop wasting money
. I only have a few friends and they are mostly busy compared to me having lots of free time to kill in my life. Please comment what should i do to live a more meaningful life. Thanks. -
noted your problem...i am also another person that is always on '3 min heat'...
You are someone always like to start sth, but bad at maintaining.
just to say, alot of things do get stagnant after some while ...after the initial passion dies off....it can be jobs, relationships or even hobbies...
my personal view is that career wise, choose a job that you can do different kinds of tasks every day ...something you can move around so you can be exposed to different things...not just sit 9-5 and do routine stuffs...thats quite yucky...prob u can probe into technology/research/public relations / marketing career that are ever changing...
relationships ah ...maybe you can suggest different activities and jio your partner to take part...at least it opens up to new topics of discussion...rather than facing cold treatments...
i always try to define my core interests....so that i will try to stick to them despite being very hyper at times...
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Originally posted by Robin26M:Hi. I am new here and this is my first post. I have a problem and that is, i am tired of everything in life very fast including relationships, hobbies and anything else. I always wanted multi relationships and nothing can keep me interested for more than 3 months. What can i do to keep occupied and stop wasting money . I only have a few friends and they are mostly busy compared to me having lots of free time to kill in my life. Please comment what should i do to live a more meaningful life. Thanks.
I sense that your quick-interest has alot to do with how and what you see in life. Normally this problem occur in people who doesn't have much picture of their future and what they want to do with them.
To lead a more meaningful life - try do something you wouldn't do normally (like volunteering for example), or take up classes, hobbies, etc. You need to expand your mind, your social circle and basically yourself. Things can't come to you being interesting forever; its you who keep the things interesting.
P.S: Are you Aries, Cancer, Libra or Capricorn?
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I am a Sagittarian. I dun share my troubles with anyone. Even my gf of 3 years cannot understand me at all. She has suggested a break up with me recently but i just could not let it go so we patch things up again. I am a slightly overweight guy where i can say i am not good looking at all. But cos i used to be from a rich family, i have that extra confidence in myself, thinking that i am better than most of the people around me. Naturally, i always feel i deserve someone better than my gf or leading a better life than now. I only completed my O levels but the business venture i am handling for my dad allows me to earn many times the income i will get for a job based on my qualifications. Sometimes, i just wish i had more friends of the opposite sex to go out with, just for a meal or movie will do but i am a shy person.
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i used to have the same problem.
i believe it was because i looked at things too hard, asking too much of it, be it friends or hobbies.
and i began to lead a more casual life and demand less from what's surrounding me.
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Originally posted by Robin26M:Hi. I am new here and this is my first post. I have a problem and that is, i am tired of everything in life very fast including relationships, hobbies and anything else. I always wanted multi relationships and nothing can keep me interested for more than 3 months. What can i do to keep occupied and stop wasting money . I only have a few friends and they are mostly busy compared to me having lots of free time to kill in my life. Please comment what should i do to live a more meaningful life. Thanks.
u can try loving somebody with all your heart and living ur life for the sole purpose of makin dat person happy. but make sure that person is a positiv influence. u'll find urself spendin less money on urself, find drive to succeed and stuff like dat. b single-minded in ur pursuits. dat includes relationship. but downside is broken heart can kill. -
I am a late starter in life. I dun start falling in love, have no ideas what jeans are like and what an ATM card is under i turn 21. I live a sheltered life for most of my life until when the economic crisis hit us then i have to learn to do many things myself. I cant even get around my neighbourhood taking public transport cos i will lose my way. Not even MRT. I tried loving someone with all my heart but it did not work out and the ones besides me are not the one i really want.
The last 3 years i was leading a life of hell. I was not able to fend by myself and get a job and have to get by doing temp jobs. Its only now that my income is more stable and learnt that being normal is a blessing too but i still feel its not enough. Maybe i am just finding someone here to confide in so please do not avoid me if possible. Thanks. -
veri true.Originally posted by fumih_81:my personal view is that career wise, choose a job that you can do different kinds of tasks every day ...something you can move around so you can be exposed to different things...not just sit 9-5 and do routine stuffs...thats quite yucky...prob u can probe into technology/research/public relations / marketing career that are ever changing...
i guess tts how deskbound office jobs can be rather off-putting, cos its so routinised.
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are people who these star signs more prone to being fickle minded or unfocussed?Originally posted by Yunhaier:P.S: Are you Aries, Cancer, Libra or Capricorn? -
Originally posted by Robin26M:I am a Sagittarian. I dun share my troubles with anyone. Even my gf of 3 years cannot understand me at all. She has suggested a break up with me recently but i just could not let it go so we patch things up again. I am a slightly overweight guy where i can say i am not good looking at all. But cos i used to be from a rich family, i have that extra confidence in myself, thinking that i am better than most of the people around me. Naturally, i always feel i deserve someone better than my gf or leading a better life than now. I only completed my O levels but the business venture i am handling for my dad allows me to earn many times the income i will get for a job based on my qualifications. Sometimes, i just wish i had more friends of the opposite sex to go out with, just for a meal or movie will do but i am a shy person. Oh yeah! Sagi! why didn't I thought of that - nothing could interest you forever.
Ok, lets be serious for once. Your gf of 3 years didn't understand you BECAUSE you didn't allow her a chance to. You didn't see what your flaws and limitation are because like what you said, you led a sheltered life. Everything is spoonfed and given like it was the norm.
Reality sunk in and you realise that you can't live like that forever. Your shyness is because your EQ wasn't properly developed during your younger days. You felt that you didn't need to because like your material possession - it should come naturally to you. Of course, it's a great mistake and wrong preception. What deserve someone better than your gf and better life? Welcome to the real world.
You want to change your fate? Let me tell you how:
(I) Learn humanity.
(II) Learn to drop that highness status.
(III) Learn to sweep your own floor.
(IV) Learn to initial conversation with people you normally wouldn't.
(V) Learn to see that others are equal as you.
(VI) Learn to realise that without hardwork, you won't have result.
(VII) Learn to see that without improvements, you will forever be like that.
(VIII) Learn to make first attempt.
(IX) Learn empathy. Learn to feel for others.
(X) Learn to treasure.
(XI) Learn to appreciate.
P.S: and the last rule (XII) learning is not enough - you have to consciously upkeep them.
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Originally posted by wuming78:are people who these star signs more prone to being fickle minded or unfocussed? No... but these signs often suffer from 3-min curse. (San fen zhong rei du)
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oh man. i was afraid tt u wud say so. cos im one of those too, and i haf to consciously make sure i dun do tt - by taking a long time to decide b4 i start.Originally posted by Yunhaier: No... but these signs often suffer from 3-min curse. (San fen zhong rei du)
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i am not any of those signs mentioned but do have this kind of inclination too...
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oh comon! believeing in these horoscope stuff is so childish.Originally posted by Imperfect:i am not any of those signs mentioned but do have this kind of inclination too...
i am a leo btw...
it is totally nonsense. if horoscope can determine your character... or fate, then whats the use of living life?
horoscope? HA! one of the biggest bullsh!t i've ever heard in life. -
sounds like you are really jaded... had a silver spoon stuck in your mouth when born?
who knows?
try doing something for a change.. go do charity work.. in a 3rd world country... without wimping out... do something good for someone else without wanting anything back for a change.. for an extended period of time.. maybe half a year..
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i think no one here said that we treat the horoscopes like the rule of the land. whether one believes in it and how much ones believes in it is realli one's own choice and does not concern others.Originally posted by digicharat:oh comon! believeing in these horoscope stuff is so childish.
it is totally nonsense. if horoscope can determine your character... or fate, then whats the use of living life?
horoscope? HA! one of the biggest bullsh!t i've ever heard in life.
most ppl treat it with a pinch of salt and something tt adds more colour to our lives. -
i am a libra .....on a 3 min heat....
so i skip from one boiling pot to another...
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i get sick of textbooks very fast. dunno why? any way for me to lust after textbooks???
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dun think anyone wanna do tt!Originally posted by NeonTetra:i get sick of textbooks very fast. dunno why? any way for me to lust after textbooks??? -
i need to....be as intimate with my textbooks as possibleOriginally posted by wuming78:dun think anyone wanna do tt!
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Originally posted by Imperfect:i am not any of those signs mentioned but do have this kind of inclination too...
i am a leo btw... Something must be in your birth chart to fuel that inclination.
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Originally posted by digicharat:oh comon! believeing in these horoscope stuff is so childish.
it is totally nonsense. if horoscope can determine your character... or fate, then whats the use of living life?
horoscope? HA! one of the biggest bullsh!t i've ever heard in life. If you think that astrology is all about the astro corner found in magazine and newspaper column, yes, its damn nonsense. 1/12 of the world's population sharing the same day with you is pure bullsh|t.
Of course, its far more than that - obviously your limited knowledge on this subject clouds your judgement and made such a biased statement. Anyway, to each his own. I respect your stand.
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what's wrong with me just giving feedback that a leo which is not within what he has listed does have this inclination too??? if u dont believe in these then so be it... i dont think there is any harm in knowing such things as long as one dont live his life according to what they dictate... sometime such things are fun to know of too... as a guide or getting some insights from them is also alright else one will only learn when things really happen... worse still some dont even learn when things happen...Originally posted by digicharat:oh comon! believeing in these horoscope stuff is so childish.
it is totally nonsense. if horoscope can determine your character... or fate, then whats the use of living life?
horoscope? HA! one of the biggest bullsh!t i've ever heard in life.