hw to prevent urself from falling in love wif ppl's wife...
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or ger friend?????
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hmm still like that ar?
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getting worst... jia lat....Originally posted by jOhO:hmm still like that ar? -
Originally posted by zacken99:or ger friend?????
get new gf. -
no lah.....dun dare to scared wait kana jing zhu long....Originally posted by boy in blues: get new gf.
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Originally posted by zacken99:no lah.....dun dare to scared wait kana jing zhu long.... can elaborate mor detail? i no understand.
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thou shall not commit adultery...........Originally posted by boy in blues: can elaborate mor detail? i no understand. -
hmm been counting the er.. fortunes and numbers? still like that?Originally posted by zacken99:getting worst... jia lat.... -
ming zhong zhu ding.....Originally posted by jOhO:hmm been counting the er.. fortunes and numbers? still like that? -
Originally posted by zacken99:thou shall not commit adultery...........
oic. thou art not single? i pray for u den. -
haiz.. stay single lar.. it's not too bad.. i been that way for 2 years liow.Originally posted by zacken99:ming zhong zhu ding..... -
i enjoy being single leh....the situation hv change liao...will update u when meet up....Originally posted by jOhO:haiz.. stay single lar.. it's not too bad.. i been that way for 2 years liow. -
Originally posted by zacken99:i enjoy being single leh....the situation hv change liao...will update u when meet up.... so thou art single. wat adultery?
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Originally posted by boy in blues: so thou art single. wat adultery?
mai kah li kong.... -
ok man.. ahha when's that gonna be?Originally posted by zacken99:i enjoy being single leh....the situation hv change liao...will update u when meet up....
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Originally posted by zacken99: mai kah li kong....
dagnabit! u refuse to lemme sleep. i smell a stinking set-up. -
jus make a new yr resolution to complete all my ba zhi analysis.. 1st loh...Originally posted by jOhO:ok man.. ahha when's that gonna be? -
wo bu shi gu yi de~~~~~~~`Originally posted by boy in blues: dagnabit! u refuse to lemme sleep. i smell a stinking set-up. -
Originally posted by zacken99:wo bu shi gu yi de~~~~~~~` to atone for ur sin, i can allow u to tell me everything by pm.
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will atone for my sin in another way...Originally posted by boy in blues: to atone for ur sin, i can allow u to tell me everything by pm.
..maybe from today onward i oni sian or let singles sian me hahhahahahahaa 
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who is the lucky ger....
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Originally posted by zacken99:or ger friend?????
Emotional control is a skill. Not required kind, rather like all other form of skills, it is gain through practical approach. Usually, you can't prevent yourself from feeling because its so natural and it happens unconsciously. My advice is to avoid controlling it consciously as it will normally have adverse effect because in the end, you will discover you can't do it and probably acknowledge it or accepted it without you realising.
To prevent falling in love, we need to look into four areas.
(I) Visual - Avoid unneccessary contacts of all sort that trigger the sight factors. Do not meet her, do not keep her pictures, put away items she gave you, etc.
(II) Communicate - Avoid unnneccesary contacts of all sort that trigger the speech factors: Do not chat with her, do not email, etc.
(III) Sound/Voice - Avoid unneccessary contacts of all sort that trigger the hear factors: Avoid phones, SMS.
(IV) Thoughts - This is the most difficult stage. You MUST probably satisfy the above three to handle this. To handle thoughts, you must first acknowledge and recongise that this relationship is furtile to pursue - The reasons and stuff. Expand your mind and realise that love is not just about BGR. Spiritual love doesn't need physical/verbal committment. To love, is to see the best out of the person, with you or not in the picture.
To affect her marriage because of you isn't making the best out of her.
Recongise that its normal and natural to think occasionally. To ponder is to enlighten and gradually to attain realization.
Let me tell you, the most karmatic relationship, often have the strongest magnetic attraction. It's always a effect of nature to have you pay/repay your debts through entering the relationship/accepting the existence of it. By 1st level love - you suffer because by society ethics, you can't acquire such love easily, and more often than not, its painful and unfulfilling.
Being a Cancer, you will cloud your own emotions when suffering from emotional turmoil - the accuracy of your feelings will fail you. Heed your rational mind. Avoid thoughts like 'ming zhong zhu ding.' because psychologically, its self fulfilling prophesies - You are walking towards where your love cosmic karma wants to lead you.
P.S: Two ways to handle love cosmic karma - First is the most common: to accept them, which is what bear always say: love and damn the consequences. Secondly, is wisdom and enlightenment. I think you understand such thingy much more than me. Well, anyway, take care! I will be here if you need.
Cheers -
it's hard to control emotions n feelings....Originally posted by zacken99:or ger friend?????
tat's no particular ways to stop urself from loving someone unless u r cold-blooded or hard hearted.....
but since u noe she is attached or married... mayb don c her often?
distance n time may help.....
or when someone else appear.... she can help u to 4get this one.... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
thank u ren zhong zhi long...................... Emotional control is a skill. Not required kind, rather like all other form of skills, it is gain through practical approach. Usually, you can't prevent yourself from feeling because its so natural and it happens unconsciously. My advice is to avoid controlling it consciously as it will normally have adverse effect because in the end, you will discover you can't do it and probably acknowledge it or accepted it without you realising.
To prevent falling in love, we need to look into four areas.
(I) [b]Visual - Avoid unneccessary contacts of all sort that trigger the sight factors. Do not meet her, do not keep her pictures, put away items she gave you, etc.
(II) Communicate - Avoid unnneccesary contacts of all sort that trigger the speech factors: Do not chat with her, do not email, etc.
(III) Sound/Voice - Avoid unneccessary contacts of all sort that trigger the hear factors: Avoid phones, SMS.
(IV) Thoughts - This is the most difficult stage. You MUST probably satisfy the above three to handle this. To handle thoughts, you must first acknowledge and recongise that this relationship is furtile to pursue - The reasons and stuff. Expand your mind and realise that love is not just about BGR. Spiritual love doesn't need physical/verbal committment. To love, is to see the best out of the person, with you or not in the picture.
To affect her marriage because of you isn't making the best out of her.
Recongise that its normal and natural to think occasionally. To ponder is to enlighten and gradually to attain realization.
Let me tell you, the most karmatic relationship, often have the strongest magnetic attraction. It's always a effect of nature to have you pay/repay your debts through entering the relationship/accepting the existence of it. By 1st level love - you suffer because by society ethics, you can't acquire such love easily, and more often than not, its painful and unfulfilling.
Being a Cancer, you will cloud your own emotions when suffering from emotional turmoil - the accuracy of your feelings will fail you. Heed your rational mind. Avoid thoughts like 'ming zhong zhu ding.' because psychologically, its self fulfilling prophesies - You are walking towards where your love cosmic karma wants to lead you.
P.S: Two ways to handle love cosmic karma - First is the most common: to accept them, which is what bear always say: love and damn the consequences. Secondly, is wisdom and enlightenment. I think you understand such thingy much more than me. Well, anyway, take care! I will be here if you need.
Cheers [/b]
seems like my ding li still cannot make it......still hv a long way to archieve wisdom n enlightenment..... -
look for frens who r single.