Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
good to hear that things are improving dear....Originally posted by zacken99:for the recent 3 yrs.. things is improving....
digest letter means to eat the paper?Originally posted by the Bear:write a letter to her...
write it honestly, and plainly.. with all that you, your family feels about her habits.. and how destructive it is to those whom she loves..
give it to her, ask her to read it, as you cannot say it out without bursting into tears.. the best way would be to write it.. ask her to read it and read it carefully.. then leave the room for her to digest your letter..
As in digest the content of the letter?Originally posted by NeonTetra:digest letter means to eat the paper?
wah lao eh!!Originally posted by Robin26M:lost millions and millions on the casino tables. .
Originally posted by NeonTetra:digest letter means to eat the paper?
sg got casino?Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
no larh.. maybe other places like Genting Highlands... I heard there are offshore casinos.. Only costs about $50 to get on the casino ship to gamble...Originally posted by BrUtUs:sg got casino?
wow lau. so serious ah. although my mum also goes for occasional mahjongs, but at least she nv treat us liek that.. if my mum treat me liek what ur mum treat u, then i not going to bother about her stuff. she wan to go gambling by all means and i not giving her a single cent..Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
Originally posted by narz:good to hear that things are improving dear....
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Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
YUP... You're probably unfillial on your part... But for this kinda mum? Who cares if you're unfillial or not....??Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
kang kor..........Originally posted by Robin26M:Thanks for all your replies. The ironic thing is that i also work inside a casino for a living, Its useless to persuade my mum to give it up. Almost all of my family members has given up on her. Life has been hell for us though things are picking up. Worst of all, my dad is willing to forgive her and give her 10 to 15K monthly allowance when business picks up again. I cant believe such silly men still exists. pardon me for calling my dad silly. If you guys have a wife like my mum, will you be nice to her like my dad?
Sometimes we gotta look at the roots, to solve this prob. U know when it actually started? Why/How it started?There must be a time when your mum started out this habit.....u should scroll through these questions, before any real actions can be taken. Find the roots first.....Originally posted by Robin26M:My mum is heavily addicted to casino gambling and has lost millions and millions on the casino tables. Yet she still demands for more money even though we are almost broke. When we dun give her enough money, she will smash everything she sees including plates, vases and even the deity figurines we worshipped at home. I often quarrel with her becos of her demands and in revenge, she went out and spread rumours that we as her kids are unfillial to her and my dad is a unfaithful bastard who abuses her physically. She will treat us like shit but takes her friends as treasure. She will only be nice to us when she needs money.I would like to know what you people out there would react. Is it really unfillial on my part if i shout at her in public and ignore her? I am really pissed at her double standards.
WELL.... It's your dad's money...?Originally posted by Robin26M:Thanks for all your replies. The ironic thing is that i also work inside a casino for a living, Its useless to persuade my mum to give it up. Almost all of my family members has given up on her. Life has been hell for us though things are picking up. Worst of all, my dad is willing to forgive her and give her 10 to 15K monthly allowance when business picks up again. I cant believe such silly men still exists. pardon me for calling my dad silly. If you guys have a wife like my mum, will you be nice to her like my dad?