u could be a substitute I feel especially its still so soon dat he liked another gerOriginally posted by [S]tay:nope.... i told him i need time to think it over.....
actualli is becos of this message tt kip botherin me lo..
i'm kinda jealous tt this gal get to know him b4 i do.......
dun wana be a subsitute.....
Ask him to reconsider his decision and make certain if you're really what he wants? Alternatively, you can hint him indirectly... Not anything about the girl but his true feelings for you.... How old are the both of you?Originally posted by [S]tay:nope.... i told him i need time to think it over.....
actualli is becos of this message tt kip botherin me lo..
i'm kinda jealous tt this gal get to know him b4 i do.......
dun wana be a subsitute.....
i agree with him.. oR her..Originally posted by sillyme:u shouldn't have gone thru his phone..
it's not a nice thing to do..
in anyway, u'll have to forget about what u read.. and not be affected by it.. we all enter someone's life at different points of time.. doesn't mean if both parties meet earlier, therefore they'll be together.. it's more than time and opportunity.. compatibility has to come in play too..
if u cannot let this incident pass by.. then even if both of u do become an item.. the issue of trust will come back to haunt u...
Originally posted by [S]tay:ok...u are uneasy...and he's ur crush.....so my guess u are unsure abt the whole situation and at the same time u still like him? and now he likes u...
i once peeped at my crush's hp, n realised tt his hp stored some very personal messages by a gal...
tt gal mentioned something like asked him not to wait for her, tt she alrady got a bf n stuff.....
this message is send to my crush's hp durin september.....
which is 2 mths ago...
[b]now the problem is," i'm not sure whether has he get over the gal or is he tryin to use me as a subsitute?"
n i did the wrong thing by peepin at his messages, n he had nv mentioned abt this gal to me..... so i can't possibilty ask him abt this gal lor.....
n now,he told me he likes me....
ok, so nw shld i act blur n juz continue with him.....
i feel rather uneasy............[/b]
Originally posted by Friday13:ok...u are uneasy...and he's ur crush.....so my guess u are unsure abt the whole situation and at the same time u still like him? and now he likes u...
hmm...why dont you just ask him...if he like any gals in the past before....just a general chat....and see what he says...
least u know if he is lying.
Originally posted by Poolman:[color=red][size=large][i]Maybe you should hint to him things about peeping into others hp ? See how he react ?
Then slowly , bits by bits , you know....interrogate him !!!!![]()
Originally posted by [S]tay:naughty naughty
i once peeped at my crush's hp, n realised tt his hp stored some very personal messages by a gal...
tt gal mentioned something like asked him not to wait for her, tt she alrady got a bf n stuff.....
this message is send to my crush's hp durin september.....
which is 2 mths ago...
[b]now the problem is," i'm not sure whether has he get over the gal or is he tryin to use me as a subsitute?"
n i did the wrong thing by peepin at his messages, n he had nv mentioned abt this gal to me..... so i can't possibilty ask him abt this gal lor.....
n now,he told me he likes me....
ok, so nw shld i act blur n juz continue with him.....
i feel rather uneasy............[/b]
good for u...Originally posted by [S]tay:hey.. pple...thanks for all ya reply.........
n the good news here is i decided to ignore the messages in his hp...
n we r currently 2 gether le....... decided to trust him...haha
guess trust is essential for a relationship to work..... thanks for all the advices![]()
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