always look on the bright side of life.. huhuhuhuhu....Originally posted by doghouse837:bei guan
i am sure that all of u here know about this word and what it meant
it had always been a huge problem for me
i always think about the negitive side of life and things around me
maybe thats why my relationship dont really work well
haizzzz
i really dont know how to get rid of this
i had some years of peace for not being so bei guan
maybe i am focus on my sch work bah
but as i just finish my poly
there is nothing for me to focus on
haizzz
i really need help now
as i dont have mood or motivation of doing things
been rotting the whole day
and i dont think its good to do that
as now i should be doing all the stuff i can do now
i really wish someone here could help me
thanks in advance
Ta-da! Guess what, you're on the route to getting rid of your pessimism... I hopeOriginally posted by doghouse837:bei guan
i am sure that all of u here know about this word and what it meant
it had always been a huge problem for me
i always think about the negitive side of life and things around me
maybe thats why my relationship dont really work well
haizzzz
i really dont know how to get rid of this
i had some years of peace for not being so bei guan
maybe i am focus on my sch work bah
but as i just finish my poly
there is nothing for me to focus on
haizzz
i really need help now
as i dont have mood or motivation of doing things
been rotting the whole day
and i dont think its good to do that
as now i should be doing all the stuff i can do now
i really wish someone here could help me
thanks in advance
is not i dont have a jobOriginally posted by MooKu:Ta-da! Guess what, you're on the route to getting rid of your pessimism... I hopeAt least you've identified the problem
Being pessimistic, there really isn't quite anything anyone can do for you but try and cheer you on and hopefully influence you with their optimism.. But ultimately, it all lies on yourself because it's YOUR MIND
Whenever those thoughts of pessimism come, just remind yourself to think positively.. Force yourself to think positively.. In time to come, I guess you'll internalize some optimism heh.Really!
What, you don't know what to do after poly? Find a job lor. It's what everyone has to do to surviveNo motivation? Why, do you find life dull? Is there something else you'd prefer to do, than to pursue your diploma in the current field of study?
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i guess i had lots of optimistic friends around meOriginally posted by browniebaobao:Try to look at the bright side of life. Tell yourself that you are better off than many others. Mix with optimistic people, they will be able to influence you. Being happy or not, it's always up to you to decide. Not difficult, you juz have to know what kind of life you want. Want to spend a day sighing away or wear a smile?
There's always a CHOICE... Especially in THOUGHTS and THINKING.... Try to expose yourself to more POSITIVE things and THINKINGS.... And if you find yourself thinking NEGATIVE again? Just GO TO SLEEP.....Originally posted by doghouse837:i guess i had lots of optimistic friends around me
but i seldom talk to them
as i seldom talk to others
i had a phone friend for 4 years
we talk almost every night
but i know she is kind of piss off with my thinking
cause i always think about the dark side of life
but i know she try her best to make me feel happy
i know she try hard, so i just smile or laugh to make her happy
but inside my heart
i still dont feel happy
haizzzz
guess i really need to see a mental doctor soon
just to so call cure this mental problem i am having for the past 21 years
haizzz
If you want people to help you, you will first have to help yourself. Perhaps you can read some self-help books and ya, consult a psychologist. What made you so pessimistic at the first place? You ought to find out the source and work on it.Originally posted by doghouse837:i guess i had lots of optimistic friends around me
but i seldom talk to them
as i seldom talk to others
i had a phone friend for 4 years
we talk almost every night
but i know she is kind of piss off with my thinking
cause i always think about the dark side of life
but i know she try her best to make me feel happy
i know she try hard, so i just smile or laugh to make her happy
but inside my heart
i still dont feel happy
haizzzz
guess i really need to see a mental doctor soon
just to so call cure this mental problem i am having for the past 21 years
haizzz
Originally posted by doghouse837:bei guan
i am sure that all of u here know about this word and what it meant
it had always been a huge problem for me
i always think about the negitive side of life and things around me
maybe thats why my relationship dont really work well
haizzzz
i really dont know how to get rid of this
i had some years of peace for not being so bei guan
maybe i am focus on my sch work bah
but as i just finish my poly
there is nothing for me to focus on
haizzz
i really need help now
as i dont have mood or motivation of doing things
been rotting the whole day
and i dont think its good to do that
as now i should be doing all the stuff i can do now
i really wish someone here could help me
thanks in advance
I LIKE that song TOO....Originally posted by BLIM:if you listen to the Nike song, you will feel better.