Ex-girlfriend or Girlfriend?
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If you are a guy, you have a girlfriend now, then at your workplace, you met your ex girlfriend who dump you because of work 2 years ago and you have spent 2 years to v hard forgt her. This ex girlfriend has then become your colleague & mostly u 2 spend alot of time working together nwadays & one day she confess that still likes you & jio you.
You know that you already have your girlfriend & have been telling yourself to be with your present girlfriend and forgt about your ex girlfriend by ignoring her but you just canot stop caring about her. Then realised that you still canot forgt her & still loves her.
If you are that guy, will you continue with your present girlfriend, or will you break with her & be with your ex girlfriend? -
continue with the present one...
she can dumped u once, y cant she dump u another time ? haf u tot of dat ? -
i'd quit and look for another job...
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Th best is to try and get both to be with you.. U should let both of them meet and discuss this together because it concerns all 3 of you.
Try your best to say u wanna to be with the two of them..... surely one of them will be pissed and leave .... if not, then u will end up with 2 girls......
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wah... tough question. heng my ex married liao...
Most likely I will continue with my present gf and treats my ex-gf as a colleague, as a friend but then if the bond between my ex is strong than the current one.... I dare not said I will 100% not go back to my ex. In this situation it was due to work not the person so chances are higher. -
but that ex-girlfriend really regrets what she has done & she has chosen work becos of earning more money for her family.
then the present girlfriend is a v sweet girl but she gets v heat up when she sees the boyfriend & the ex-girlfriend together working (all 3 work in same company). She is losing her confidence. she knows that the boyfriend still likes his ex girlfriend but still she willing to be with him. -
think quit and find another job
it makes intentions clear for both women.. -
both also don wan? zun boOriginally posted by the Bear:think quit and find another job
it makes intentions clear for both women.. -
but u continue with ur present gf, ur heart keep tinkin abt ur ex girlfriend lehOriginally posted by X-men:wah... tough question. heng my ex married liao...
Most likely I will continue with my present gf and treats my ex-gf as a colleague, as a friend but then if the bond between my ex is strong than the current one.... I dare not said I will 100% not go back to my ex. In this situation it was due to work not the person so chances are higher. -
the ex has left.. she's in the past...
duties, responsibility and love for the present girl is paramount..
work can be found elsewhere... elsewhere where the ex isn't around..
gives a message to the ex that she is the past, and that he would do that for his present girl..
it would reassure his present girl that he will not have anything or anyone between them... and would walk away from his job if he has to.. and has done..Originally posted by Ah Ma:both also don wan? zun bo -
if me i continue with present then try to get sneaky with EX
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actualy this kinda ting happens alot in real life, when u realy need to make a decision. is really tough esp after u make a decision n u still canot let go off the other.Originally posted by the Bear:the ex has left.. she's in the past...
duties, responsibility and love for the present girl is paramount..
work can be found elsewhere... elsewhere where the ex isn't around..
gives a message to the ex that she is the past, and that he would do that for his present girl..
it would reassure his present girl that he will not have anything or anyone between them... and would walk away from his job if he has to.. and has done.. -
\Originally posted by Yakuza:if me i continue with present then try to get sneaky with EX
i consider u as normal ...cos i c many lidat.
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maybe.. tough decisions still need to be made..
a serious girlfriend would have my promises which i keep...Originally posted by Ah Ma:actualy this kinda ting happens alot in real life, when u realy need to make a decision. is really tough esp after u make a decision n u still canot let go off the other. -
I always believe that no one can luv 2 person at 1 time. Ask urself who do u luv most lor.
To be fair, i tink u shld 4get the past and get on wif ur life. -
continue life wif current gf... since the ex wanted to end it, tats too bad...
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If I choose my current over my ex then I will be fair and not think of my ex anymore. She will just be a passed memory in my heart.Originally posted by Ah Ma:but u continue with ur present gf, ur heart keep tinkin abt ur ex girlfriend leh -
no leh...considering that u tink u can do it?hw u dn tink of ur ex?cos she is the one u loved most in ur life... & hw much time u take to forgt her....thru the pains.then sudenly nw she appear n tell u this...Originally posted by X-men:If I choose my current over my ex then I will be fair and not think of my ex anymore. She will just be a passed memory in my heart. -
Depends on the guy loh.... see who he wans to be with... nothing right or wrong in this case... juz follow his heart....
but he must not mix up work and love... if 1 day he and the ex r not working together, will they continue to be wat they r now.. must see the gals character also.. for me i will choose the one with the better character... -
I would like to tell you the past is the past already... And I would just care for her as a FRIEND... But then again, if the situation really happens to me.. Guess I won't know it happens to me...?
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like I mentioned... this is a tough issue.Originally posted by Ah Ma:no leh...considering that u tink u can do it?hw u dn tink of ur ex?cos she is the one u loved most in ur life... & hw much time u take to forgt her....thru the pains.then sudenly nw she appear n tell u this...
but I think I will still make a sensible choice I guess. What if you broke off with your current gf and go back to yr ex and ended up the ex broke yr heart again? -
if u were 2 quit & siam ur ex, i think u're a wimp. r u not disciplined enuff 2 b responsible 2 ur current gf? wat has she done 2 deserve thiz? iz she there juz 2 take over ur ex'z place in ur heart? dun hurt ur current 1 so tt u can b happy with ur ex...
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Originally posted by Devil1976:I would like to tell you the past is the past already... And I would just care for her as a FRIEND... But then again, if the situation really happens to me.. Guess I won't know it happens to me...?
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i think i will stick with my present gf.it depend lor on individual.somehow hard to forget my ex .the feeling will somehow come back.i willl tell her clearly what is the past will be in the past.i should look forward to present.
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but have u ever considered ....
Both girls are v gd n nice. bt if he choose to be wit his present gf, arent he nt true to his heart? nt true to himself? this nt oni hurt the gf(imagine if u r the girl, u can tahan so long meh?i tink if u realy like tat guy shld let him go) aso will make everyone sad cos is like v mian qiang to be with the present gf due to responsibility?& nt love?
say is easy that you wont choose the ex girlfriend for most of you but realy i tink if real life happens to you, will u really do so........i doubt....so....