love can it be?

• Lonelyboi5

  2 Dec 03, 20:27

  I'm a 18 year old boy and at this age I've never had a gf b4. Pri and sec school for me was a all boy's school.
  
  To be frank i grew up hating girls cause from a young age I was always bullied by them and i never hit back.
  
  Now well in my school theres this one girl younger than me by 1 year and i start well having feelings for her. Now i dont know what to do since my experience with girls are very limited.
  
  I know her as a friend but i would really like it to be more...
  
  anyone will suggestions on how do i do this?
• the Bear

  2 Dec 03, 20:29

  just be friends with her
  
  if you feel you're not ready, you really aren't..
  
  so, be good friends
  
  who know what happens later? mayhap both of you grow together and grow as friends into a couple and more in the future?
  
  looking for suggestions? be her great friend in life... the best partners are the best friends
  
  

  Originally posted by Lonelyboi5:

  I'm a 18 year old boy and at this age I've never had a gf b4. Pri and sec school for me was a all boy's school.
  
  To be frank i grew up hating girls cause from a young age I was always bullied by them and i never hit back.
  
  Now well in my school theres this one girl younger than me by 1 year and i start well having feelings for her. Now i dont know what to do since my experience with girls are very limited.
  
  I know her as a friend but i would really like it to be more...
  
  anyone will suggestions on how do i do this?

• BrUtUs

  2 Dec 03, 23:34

  Originally posted by Lonelyboi5:

  I'm a 18 year old boy and at this age I've never had a gf b4. Pri and sec school for me was a all boy's school.
  
  To be frank i grew up hating girls cause from a young age I was always bullied by them and i never hit back.
  
  Now well in my school theres this one girl younger than me by 1 year and i start well having feelings for her. Now i dont know what to do since my experience with girls are very limited.
  
  I know her as a friend but i would really like it to be more...
  
  anyone will suggestions on how do i do this?

  jz be frens wif her lor, ask her out sometimes... then c how lor...
• bjork

  2 Dec 03, 23:37

  Originally posted by Lonelyboi5:

  I'm a 18 year old boy and at this age I've never had a gf b4. Pri and sec school for me was a all boy's school.
  
  To be frank i grew up hating girls cause from a young age I was always bullied by them and i never hit back.
  
  Now well in my school theres this one girl younger than me by 1 year and i start well having feelings for her. Now i dont know what to do since my experience with girls are very limited.
  
  I know her as a friend but i would really like it to be more...
  
  anyone will suggestions on how do i do this?

  ask her out for some casual movie or ask her out together as a group to know her better & let her know u better too...
  Love takes time to grow..
• Lonelyboi5

  3 Dec 03, 01:05

  Thanks for those advice guys there are totally different and they sound better than the option my friends gave me.
  
  Thanks alot i mean it.
• Yunhaier

  3 Dec 03, 02:18

  Originally posted by Lonelyboi5:

  I'm a 18 year old boy and at this age I've never had a gf b4. Pri and sec school for me was a all boy's school.
  
  To be frank i grew up hating girls cause from a young age I was always bullied by them and i never hit back.
  
  Now well in my school theres this one girl younger than me by 1 year and i start well having feelings for her. Now i dont know what to do since my experience with girls are very limited.
  
  I know her as a friend but i would really like it to be more...
  
  anyone will suggestions on how do i do this?

  Before you can learn how to love, you need to love yourself. Then when you do realise the importance of self-love, could you extend this feeling to another person in a form of a friendship. Only if you planted seeds of friendship into her and lead them, before an option of a love relationship could sprout.
  
  Don't talk about love - talk about how much you understand her as a friend because if you don't, then how far do you think you can go? Train yourself and treat her like anyone you would normally treat. This reduce psychological barrier between you and her. Chat normally, avoid acting weird and drop all motes of uncomfortability around her. Learn to project good self image and posture.
  
  P.S: Your first task is to understand her. She doesn't need love from you - at least not at this stage. Your flaws isn't because you came from a boy's school (I was once from one as well), because you lack the confidence and feared to experiment. Don't worry, things will pick up. Work on your personalilty - Everybody and everywhere welcomes a good personality and a good heart.
  Cheers
• WrX_STi

  3 Dec 03, 13:50

  ask the gal out. like most pple say, loves grow... u will noe when its the right time to jio a gal...
• tibirg

  3 Dec 03, 13:53

  continue being frnz....then see how it goes....
• huy

  3 Dec 03, 17:08

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  just be friends with her
  
  if you feel you're not ready, you really aren't..
  
  so, be good friends
  
  who know what happens later? mayhap both of you grow together and grow as friends into a couple and more in the future?
  
  looking for suggestions? be her great friend in life... the best partners are the best friends
  
  

  yea.. i agree.. start by being a gd fres with her first... good luck to you!
• noahark

  7 Dec 03, 13:16

  Be a good friend to her, try to get to know her well, to see if she's the one for you and if you suit her..
  Have confidence, maybe let her directly that you like her, or drop subtle hints about it. So if she rejects you, then be friends with her, and you'll probably succeed with the next girl.