online love...
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aaa i m 16 this year...
playing a online game Conqueronline where i met a sweet ger. she is 17. treats me very well... after being together for 2 weeks we fell in love, at least i noe i did. the only problem is tat i from singapore she from holland(country) . wat do i do? i really love her but the time zone is different by 7 hrs. she 7hrs behind me. well...i liked other gers b4 but never had a stead , but this ger kinda like my 1st love or something damn ke ku ming xing. wat do u guys think of this online relationship... will it last or is it juz a fantasy for me. BTW if u think i m joking pls don post. this is serious matter , a few of my online frens tell me i taking this too seriously liao. ask me enjoy the time now and get on with life. -
haha...well, i think its better not to be too serious abt this...wats more, u both see each other already??? if too serious end up getting urself hurt only. juz take things one step at a time
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agree with the earlier post.. besides, it's only 2 weeks that you guys get to know each other.. no doubt I don't deny the fact that there's such things as love at first sight etc etc, but for a commitment to go on, there's still lots of things to iron out. The culture differences, the communication, the interests and the mentality are just some of the things that would need to be resolved.
Personally, I'm undergoing something similar, though I met her in person, but because of cultural differences, mentality thinking, and communication barriers, there will need to have a lot of work to do before can really settle down/ -
we have not met...n we known each other for 1mth + its impossible for us to meet now... 1 is 16 other is 17. might b possible next yr or when i 18 if we still last tat long...
bear care to tell me your story? -
u got her pix?
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This look like those in irc where people can flirt ard cause it's impossible to meet the other party. I played online game too but i think they care for u just as a friend and might sometime call u dear or something. Try to keep mind open abt it lor and dont get too serious or u might just get hurt in the end.
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I mean my gf now is a girl who's of a different culture, but we met each other in the uni over here in the U.S.. We're facing a problem in a year's time too, when we graduate.. She may be going back, while I want to stay longer to pursue a higher education.
It's really the how much trust and faith both of you have in the r/s, and want to be with each other. For my case, for months at a time we don't see each other due to the semester breaks. For you, it's going to be a lot of work, especially a lot of obstacles like handling sch work and NS, whereby you don't have the time to go online to meet her all the time.
On the other hand neither of you are knows about what each other is really doing.. But one thing that's working for you is that both of you are new to each other, so there's a lot of interesting stuff to find out about each other that you guys can work your ways out.Originally posted by bladez87:we have not met...n we known each other for 1mth + its impossible for us to meet now... 1 is 16 other is 17. might b possible next yr or when i 18 if we still last tat long...
bear care to tell me your story? -
Originally posted by InVaa:u got her pix?
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buaya alert! buaya alert!!!Originally posted by InVaa:u got her pix? -
haha
online relationship...
hmmm to think of tat, i thought of my frenz playing oz world,
which he is a boy and he like a gals in the oz world.
i dunno noe how many of u noe oz world but the game had been around 1-1/2yrs ithink so.
and when i realise tat the gals in the ozworld is someone i knew in real life which stay near me(neighbour). IS A GUY
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hey sry if my eng S**. i juz pass my english
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aaa i m 16 this year...
Online relationships are very hard to keep up. Relationships need presence which modern technology simply cannot provide; unless you fly there every 7 hours ha!
playing a online game Conqueronline where i met a sweet ger. she is 17. treats me very well... after being together for 2 weeks we fell in love, at least i noe i did. the only problem is tat i from singapore she from holland(country) . wat do i do? i really love her but the time zone is different by 7 hrs. she 7hrs behind me. well...i liked other gers b4 but never had a stead , but this ger kinda like my 1st love or something damn ke ku ming xing. wat do u guys think of this online relationship... will it last or is it juz a fantasy for me. BTW if u think i m joking pls don post. this is serious matter , a few of my online frens tell me i taking this too seriously liao. ask me enjoy the time now and get on with life.
Furthermore, both of you are of different cultures, she is dutch and you are local Singaporeans. The races and the blood simply does not mix mate, not without repurcussions/consequences/loud noise. So I wouldn't hope too much
Lastly, you claimed you fell in love, do you even know what love is? From what you describe, meeting someone from an online computer game? 2 weeks only? That is not love, that is infetuation. I believe in fellowship and friendship in online stuff, I do not believe in love, perhaps some romantic fantasy, but definitely NOT SERIOUS LOVE. You don't even know her, what she looks like, what she is like, or even if she is a she. Neither does she know you.
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This is puppy
luv la.
First thing, u sure she felt the same (having the hots) about u or not ?
Second thing, u sure this relationship (if it gets started) will last or not ?
Third thing, this also involves LONG distance relationship. Maybe when you meet eachother will not feel the same already ...
