What do u think?
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Hi all, dis is a repetitve topic..but hope to get some opinions on this...
I have know this girl from school who has already got a bf. She has been with her boyfriend for many years already. Somehow we just clicked and there was a period when we would go out quite frequently. Something like IAmGoingCrazy's post, there were times when I am confused with the way she treats you. We can just have dinner, hang out in the middle of nowhere till wee hours of the morning...its just gut feeling dat she does treat me more than a fren sometimes....
I think she would have known that I liked her, though I never told her so...but somehow these days her attitude seems to have changed a little...she some hows seems more distant...this is briefly what happened of late..
1> She might have broken off with the bf or gg thru a period of cooling off...(from some sources, though cannot be confirmed)
2) I told her my ex is seeing someone new and somehow I wasnt tht comfortable with the thot...
Could her attitude towards me due to 1> or 2> or a combination of other factors? Appreciate any opinion on this. -
wat a nick!
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if she long ago noe u haf feelings for her.. y now den she distance from u.. mayb she realise tt she love her bf more?
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Maybe she just don't want to lead you on, it's as simple as that.
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If you wanna chase a girl who is attached - you unofficially 'sign' a contract that already spelled out the risk and possible hurt. Hanging out in middle of nowhere, having dinner, blar blar blar, doesn't says ANYTHING at all. Really. Don't think too much into the events. However, I am not saying that she doesn't like you or whatsoever because its difficult to judge on my side. However. the bottomline is: you could be generating pure company and certain qualities that her bf may not have. This doesn't equate to love.Originally posted by sgforums.com:Hi all, dis is a repetitve topic..but hope to get some opinions on this...
I have know this girl from school who has already got a bf. She has been with her boyfriend for many years already. Somehow we just clicked and there was a period when we would go out quite frequently. Something like IAmGoingCrazy's post, there were times when I am confused with the way she treats you. We can just have dinner, hang out in the middle of nowhere till wee hours of the morning...its just gut feeling dat she does treat me more than a fren sometimes....
I think she would have known that I liked her, though I never told her so...but somehow these days her attitude seems to have changed a little...she some hows seems more distant...this is briefly what happened of late..
1> She might have broken off with the bf or gg thru a period of cooling off...(from some sources, though cannot be confirmed)
2) I told her my ex is seeing someone new and somehow I wasnt tht comfortable with the thot...
Could her attitude towards me due to 1> or 2> or a combination of other factors? Appreciate any opinion on this.
Seriously, since she is already attached - by right, she shouldn't and couldn't remain emotionally/physically close to you all the time. BY RIGHT, she will have a small little distance, regardless of how comfortable she is with you. Previous times, she didn't do that - doesn't mean she has to behave in such intimate terms with you all the time for you ain't her bf ya?
P.S: I do not disagree nor support chasing attached girls; however, please understand the package you are dealing with. By the way, before you do anything, please please please - always consider your status and position you are at to prevent foolish acts - You are just a friend. Therefore many pleasurable events that have took place, is merely a bonus, not a must.
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I'm sorry, i think i'm having some language problem nowadays.
Can't get what you're trying to drive at....and Yun could understand?!!! I think i'm losing 'it'.....
What exactly are you confused about?
Confused about her distanting away from you?
So you want to know if she likes you?
OR are you confused about what you should do next?
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Just ask her frankly and tell her how u felt.
Be mature abt the whole thing
Hope the best for u
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Its been sometime now..and I think I have kinda of accepted the situation..but there is a nagging thot..wat if I did tell her I liked her..would things have been different? Hmm...I think maybe to have a closure to the issue I will probably let her know in one way or another that I like her....Originally posted by sgboy2004:Just ask her frankly and tell her how u felt.
Be mature abt the whole thing
Hope the best for u -
Let sleeping dog lie.... u know why ?Originally posted by sgforums.com:Its been sometime now..and I think I have kinda of accepted the situation..but there is a nagging thot..wat if I did tell her I liked her..would things have been different? Hmm...I think maybe to have a closure to the issue I will probably let her know in one way or another that I like her....
else the dog wakes up and bite u ....
Kwa-kwoi la, sgforums.com
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1stly, if she was going out with u frequently while she was still with her b.f., it only means that she's only seeking for something new. Chances are, she'll do the same once she's done with u & youre gonna ger hurt & u told her that u were not comfortable seeing your ex with someone new. Did u tell her that just to see her reaction to it? Dn't play games. Unless u can show her that youre a man's man, I suggest u get out b4 u get hurt even more. Think that's what she's looking for in a person. Get out more, meet more ppl, you'll feel better. Take care.
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1stly, if she was going out with u frequently while she was still with her b.f., it only means that she's only seeking for something new. Chances are, she'll do the same once she's done with u & youre gonna ger hurt & u told her that u were not comfortable seeing your ex with someone new. Did u tell her that just to see her reaction to it? Dn't play games. Unless u can show her that youre a man's man, I suggest u get out b4 u get hurt even more. Think that's what she's looking for in a person. Get out more, meet more ppl, you'll feel better. Take care.
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"seeing "YOUR" ex with some new............" LOL. Type eror.
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"seeing "YOUR" ex with someone new....." lol
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Originally posted by sgforums.com:Hi all, dis is a repetitve topic..but hope to get some opinions on this...
I have know this girl from school who has already got a bf. She has been with her boyfriend for many years already. Somehow we just clicked and there was a period when we would go out quite frequently. Something like IAmGoingCrazy's post, there were times when I am confused with the way she treats you. We can just have dinner, hang out in the middle of nowhere till wee hours of the morning...its just gut feeling dat she does treat me more than a fren sometimes....
I think she would have known that I liked her, though I never told her so...but somehow these days her attitude seems to have changed a little...she some hows seems more distant...this is briefly what happened of late..
1> She might have broken off with the bf or gg thru a period of cooling off...(from some sources, though cannot be confirmed)
2) I told her my ex is seeing someone new and somehow I wasnt tht comfortable with the thot...
Could her attitude towards me due to 1> or 2> or a combination of other factors? Appreciate any opinion on this.
the answer to your doubts can be found after you find out how's her boy-girl-relationship progressing. the better it is, the worst it is for you. and the converse is also true.