SMS from Girlfriend....
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she dun want to meet me lehOriginally posted by FireIce:perhaps u were a bit harsh on the above line.......
if u wanna salvage the situation, u shd have a nice talk...and i mean NICE talk with her........
i call also dun wan to pick up.. she only sms.. haiz..
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u sonofabeetchOriginally posted by Master -_-:
i also got another girl in mind -
haahahahahah power lah!Originally posted by Master -_-:
i also got another girl in mind 
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Originally posted by Master -_-:
This is me... and ive been thinking.... maybe I dont want to fit in.. Most guys spend all of their time trying to get the perfect look to fit in... well Im over it... This is who I am... and I can be your friend really fast, but also become your enemy quickly
maybe you could have tried to be more accomodating. that's the job of a boyfriend. -
U mention there is another.,..... go for the new one lar.. the old and stale one ..throw away lar...... smelly liao !!!Originally posted by Master -_-:she dun want to meet me leh
i call also dun wan to pick up.. she only sms.. haiz..
Good for you.... A guy must always have spare tyres ......
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Originally posted by FireIce:u sonofabeetch
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gong xi gong xi..
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i never seen people happy about a breakup before leh.. haiz...
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Originally posted by Master -_-:i never seen people happy about a breakup before leh.. haiz...
seems like u are.Originally posted by Master -_-:
i also got another girl in mind -
welcome to the Singles ClubOriginally posted by Master -_-:i never seen people happy about a breakup before leh.. haiz... -
u happy for urself?Originally posted by Master -_-:i never seen people happy about a breakup before leh.. haiz...
then why u complaining? -
i'm just making myself feel better wat...Originally posted by FireIce:u happy for urself?
then why u complaining?
Forcing a smile on my murky face..
Fixing a bridge across the gaping wound..
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oi don't call her anymore wait for her to call... u behave like this the more she treat u like a loser, the more u come near the more she will run.... if u behave like u r fine with the break up she will start feeling more for u in the sense that wah we we spend so much time together than u forget me and everything just like that.. u should also make her a bit jealous but don't overdo it... sometimes over time u both may realise that u r meant for each other and things have a way of getting u guys back...Originally posted by Master -_-:she dun want to meet me leh
i call also dun wan to pick up.. she only sms.. haiz..
trust me on this on calling bec i have frens whose ex keep calling at times and the crude remarks and jokes they make of their ex is not that nice.... anyway u must act cool and put a good upfront never let ur guard down by calling constantly u may scare her away... and when u meet her dress ur best look good flirt with other gals at that enagement party and don't realli pay too much attention to her, jealously will boil and it may work for u.... -
Hey~ Don't think too much dude~
/me slap a pat onto Master
Cheers -
what is yours will be yours. <= the old adage
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National service and Internship attachments are major periods when couples break up...Originally posted by Master -_-:As at 10:10am
"Dear, thank you for being a wonderful bf but things have not reach my expectations. As much as i do not want to let you go, i have to. You will still be a good friend of mine. Luv Always, XXXX"
My Reply : "You're breaking up? Whats the reason?!?!"
Her Reply : "I am not spending enough time with you now that you are undergoing NS. I am sorry and i hope you will forgive me"
My Reply : "Wah kaoz! Like that also you want to break up. Never mind lah. Break up, break up la! You happy wat"
Her Reply : "Dun react so strongly ah.. Please!"
Pengz!~ 
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hmmm... firstly, it is very very insincere that she broke up with you thru sms and refused to meet. shows that she was never committed to you and just wanna brush you off at the 1st opportunity. to put it bluntly, you never meant much to her. else she wun hurt you like this. secondly it's quire obvious she has another guy already. CHEATER! she's not worth it.
anyway some couples do make it through NS. it takes alot of commitment and effort from both sides to make it work. guy should constantly make effort to keep in touch with the gal's life and the gal should be understanding towards the guy's army commitment.
however, the guy should NEVER use the army as an excuse to neglect the gal. no matter how busy or tired you are, there's always time and strength to call and/or sms. come on, she's ur gf! dun u wanna talk to her? all in all, it takes EFFORT. and what propels this effort is ur LOVE for each other.
so instead of keep blaming the gal or thinking of revenge ways or another gal
, you should also reflect on urself too. wad did you do or attempt to do to keep the r/p going? or did u just sit back, relax and let the gal do all the work? that's not the way it is, pal.
if you are not planning to reflect on urself and change for the better, no matter how many gals u have in mind, it is not going to work at all.
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and also, have you ever talked to her about her 'expectations'? talk to her to see how she feel about u in NS and whether u r giving her enough attention?
it's also about COMMUNICATION.
a r/p is not simple as 'u love me, i love you' then can already. both of you need to put in effort to make things work and iron differences out.
anyway seems that the whole r/p is not exactly very stable to start with. she breaking up with u over sms and u having another gal in mind already....
so it's time to move on....... -
look for other girl lor. maybe army girl also can..
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Originally posted by taal_dancer:oi don't call her anymore wait for her to call... u behave like this the more she treat u like a loser, the more u come near the more she will run.... if u behave like u r fine with the break up she will start feeling more for u in the sense that wah we we spend so much time together than u forget me and everything just like that.. u should also make her a bit jealous but don't overdo it... sometimes over time u both may realise that u r meant for each other and things have a way of getting u guys back...
trust me on this on calling bec i have frens whose ex keep calling at times and the crude remarks and jokes they make of their ex is not that nice.... anyway u must act cool and put a good upfront never let ur guard down by calling constantly u may scare her away... and when u meet her dress ur best look good flirt with other gals at that enagement party and don't realli pay too much attention to her, jealously will boil and it may work for u....
Actually i find that there's no need to go to such extend - To act like someone you don't, to do something just to get the attention of another or prove that you're somebody when you aint. All the trouble just to get her back.
Master is himself, there's no need to prove anything cos there's nothing to prove.
To Master: But if you think she's worth it. Then By all means...Get her back!
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You two how long together liao?Originally posted by Master -_-:As at 10:10am
"Dear, thank you for being a wonderful bf but things have not reach my expectations. As much as i do not want to let you go, i have to. You will still be a good friend of mine. Luv Always, XXXX"
My Reply : "You're breaking up? Whats the reason?!?!"
Her Reply : "I am not spending enough time with you now that you are undergoing NS. I am sorry and i hope you will forgive me"
My Reply : "Wah kaoz! Like that also you want to break up. Never mind lah. Break up, break up la! You happy wat"
Her Reply : "Dun react so strongly ah.. Please!"
Pengz!~
when one can break thru' sms, and the other can feel glad about it, seems that the bonding not very strong lei....
my two-cents worth -
Friend
Just wanna say something..no other meaning though.
At least both of u were once together...u had her love b4.
Maybe u guys even had happy memories together.
If u could just let it go...wish her the best...forget abt the unhappy moments and keep the loving memories in ur heart.
This way, ur heart will not be crying just as my heart is now. -
gong xi gong xi....Originally posted by Master -_-:
i also got another girl in mind -
a gal who uses NS as an excuse to break up is better off without you.
a gal who leans on you all the time is better off without you.
a gal who uses the phrase "let's break up" to solve internal disagreements is better off without you.
a gal who gets tempted by looks too easily and flirts ard is undeserving of your attention and love.
a gal incapable of independent actions needs serious coaching. just some thoughts -
Well she got her excuses... but I dun tink U can satisfly her anymore... U did yr best as she did too, but things is not wat U expected. Da higher da expectations, da more disappointing it gets too. So... dis only means 1 thing: U R FREE!!! Wanna hold a "Bachelor" contest?Originally posted by Master -_-:As at 10:10am
"Dear, thank you for being a wonderful bf but things have not reach my expectations. As much as i do not want to let you go, i have to. You will still be a good friend of mine. Luv Always, XXXX"
My Reply : "You're breaking up? Whats the reason?!?!"
Her Reply : "I am not spending enough time with you now that you are undergoing NS. I am sorry and i hope you will forgive me"
My Reply : "Wah kaoz! Like that also you want to break up. Never mind lah. Break up, break up la! You happy wat"
Her Reply : "Dun react so strongly ah.. Please!"
Pengz!~