Problem

• tsubasas2plus8

  9 Dec 03, 19:29

  I got to know X when 3 years ago and fall for her not long after that but the fear of rejection stopped me from tellin her how i felt bout her. In the 3rd year, i met another girl Y whom i went out with after knowin her for some time. Things went pretty smoothly between me and Y until recently when i saw X again that i realised i have not gotten over her. What should i do?
• sgboy2004

  9 Dec 03, 19:32

  Stick with Y, dun be fickle-minded.
  
  Be content wif wat u have, ok.
  
  
• boy in blues

  9 Dec 03, 19:33

  Originally posted by tsubasas2plus8:

  I got to know X when 3 years ago and fall for her not long after that but the fear of rejection stopped me from tellin her how i felt bout her. In the 3rd year, i met another girl Y whom i went out with after knowin her for some time. Things went pretty smoothly between me and Y until recently when i saw X again that i realised i have not gotten over her. What should i do?

  tell X how you feel about her and hear what she has to say. otherwise you will forever be haunted by regrets of 'what ifs' and all that.
• tsubasas2plus8

  9 Dec 03, 19:39

  Thanks you both for the advise.
  
  I left out a point. I saw her with another guy.
• sgboy2004

  9 Dec 03, 19:41

  Originally posted by tsubasas2plus8:

  Thanks you both for the advise.
  
  I left out a point. I saw her with another guy.

  it does not matter he with Guy A or Guy B, it is more of your relationship with Y first. Unless u hav broken off with Y, else pls be fair to Y.
  
  Dun think too much, be happy with Y, ok
  
  
• Xcert

  9 Dec 03, 21:00

  Originally posted by tsubasas2plus8:

  Thanks you both for the advise.
  
  I left out a point. I saw her with another guy.

  if U are sure that this other guy is her bf...let it go...U had your chances years ago and U didnt go for it...some things cannot be retrieved once U lost it...
• Coco_Coco

  9 Dec 03, 22:02

  leave X behind. forget it. stick with Y. treasure wad u have now.
• winnerss

  12 Dec 03, 17:01

  since u r with Y and everything is good and smooth, why bother with thinking of finding out whether X has ever like u etc.
  
  It does not necessarily mean that you do feel for ; then u need to find out whether the chance to be together or not ...
  
  like that, how busy will one be man ... i.e. I need to find out Fann Wong got feeling for me too...
  
  Oops, i think i better stop imagining things ...