if u like a girl, will u ask her to celebrate your bday.....
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with u??
this is my friend's question....askin 4 my friend. i told him i won't but he wanna see responses from guys and girls, especially what girls will think abt it if they r the party invited to do so..... -
Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:with u??
this is my friend's question....askin 4 my friend. i told him i won't but he wanna see responses from guys and girls, especially what girls will think abt it if they r the party invited to do so.....
why not? i think your friend might wanna rephrase that question to "if u like a girl, will u let her know?" -
i think i will be on good terms with the guy friend if i were asked to attend a birthday party....
unless it is a 1-1 type
that will be obvious...coz u only want to share this golden moment with her. -
yes, i would
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So... da question is targeted at gals or guys? I tot is more of guys ans coz "see topic". But yr fren said especially wat gals tink?Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:with u??
this is my friend's question....askin 4 my friend. i told him i won't but he wanna see responses from guys and girls, especially what girls will think abt it if they r the party invited to do so.....
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Depends on situation
Situation 1
You 2 are very good friends and have known each other for a [color=redlong time[/color].
It is more likely she will accept your invitation to celebrate your b'day. Since she will definitely feel more comfortable gg out with u. Another point to note is, if you 2 are really good friends, she would most prob remember your b'day. Thus giving u a chance to invite her out. Maybe you can just ask her out for a meal when she calls to wish you or pass you your present.
Situation 2
You 2 are only so-so friends, but have known each other for sometime. Maybe she might get suspicious about ur motives. Well....u still stand a chance.
Situation 3
You have only known each other for awhile. Maybe can try getting a few friends along too. So that she wont feel so awakward. Or u might risk her avoiding u in future if u come on as too strong and pushy or maybe she will feel bad for rejecting ur invitation. Since you 2 dun know each other well enof...it would be hard for either of u to try and clear up any misunderstanding under such circumstances, or, rather hard to make the other party accept your explaination readily.
** For all situation, Versatility is the word. Change according to how the situation changes. -
targetted at both. any person from either gender also can answer. best if u can give viewpoints from both sides of the gender. i seriously think my friend think too much liao....but he needs some confidence, hope i can find some 4 him thru hereOriginally posted by loneryu00:So... da question is targeted at gals or guys? I tot is more of guys ans coz "see topic". But yr fren said especially wat gals tink? -
Well... every1 here has their own comments... My case is I "may" ask her... but seriously... I dun LIKE celebwate bdae... I even "reprimanded" my mum for "secretly" holding a bdae steamboat... on my 21st Bdae some more... (I wanted to be in peace...)Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:targetted at both. any person from either gender also can answer. best if u can give viewpoints from both sides of the gender. i seriously think my friend think too much liao....but he needs some confidence, hope i can find some 4 him thru here
If asking her to come to yr bdae party (if got 1 lah...) a good chance to noe more abt her & may get chances as well... BUT not my style...
IF I a gal har... I have to see wat kinda gal I m... sociable or quiet type... I most likely will go coz fun mah... can disturb bdae boi.
frankly speaking VERY hard coz many factors regarding da gal side... May OR may not go... depending. (cant understand gals much, so its a MOOT point)
If yr fren noe wat TYPE da gal is then its MORE appropriate whether to ask her or not loh... If she out goin or sociable or open minded or watever, can ask her... If quiet or aloof or watever... have to see how loh...
In any case... noe da gal more then decide wat to do. dats all I can offer as a COMMENT.
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if I like a girl, I'll make all sorts of excuses, all kinds of occasions/festival to ask her out ... not to mention just my bday
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if I like a girl, I'll make all sorts of excuses, all kinds of occasions/festival to ask her out ... not to mention just my bday
same but they usually never work -
i once like a ger and asked her out on her birthday.....surprisingly she never reject ame and I brought her out to celebrate.
We had a good meal and some coffe... and she mentioned that she would too celebrate my birthday when the time comes.....
This wonderful ger is attached then but she did not reject my advancement too.... what is she trying to do???
BTW that was only 1 week after I got to know her.... after that we went out a couple of more times then I realised that I should not be doing that..... so I stopped .. it has been two years now ... and recently ......