What should i do?
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Hi people!
I am very confuse now!
I am in love with a gal,but i never show it to anyone cause i am scared that people will start making fun and irritate her.
We started good, and chatted alot,untill one day when i told her i love her.
She told me its impossible....
Now she dont respond much when i msg her.....
I dont noe if i should go open and show her my love or should i continue hide it from public eyes to protect her ? -
Do wat U tink is right. U can try to protect her, BUT let me tell U, she may NOT appreciate wat U did for her. There r diff possible results. Da best thing is to remain as who or wat U r. Dun act like some1 else, dun EVEN try to be a wuss. Treat her as a fren. Nth more, nth less. Some dae she WILL appreciate U.
It may be hard to suppress yr feelings, but seriously... rushing it wun help either... & normally rushing it may have drastic effects.
My comments here will be enuf for U to tink abt till reinforcements arrive to help U.
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You shouldn't have told her you love. In love matters, always wait for the girl to say/show that to you.
Now you ruin it!.
All you can do now is to move on and live life per normal and pray for her to change her mind. Nothing much you can do! -
Yeah you never EVER EVER tell girls you like them or love them, you lose a friendship. Well sometimes you can, if the feeling is mutual which is only a mere 1% of the time... so DON"T DO IT MATE!.
*Billy Madison;s voice: YOU BLEW IT! -
the last quote in billy's madison's voice was harsh AHAHAHAHAHAHA cause i seen the movieOriginally posted by men_@_arms:Yeah you never EVER EVER tell girls you like them or love them, you lose a friendship. Well sometimes you can, if the feeling is mutual which is only a mere 1% of the time... so DON"T DO IT MATE!.
*Billy Madison;s voice: YOU BLEW IT! -
suck it up... take it on the chin... be her friend...
btw, how old are you? -
So u wait for the gal to tell the guy???Originally posted by men_@_arms:Yeah you never EVER EVER tell girls you like them or love them, you lose a friendship. Well sometimes you can, if the feeling is mutual which is only a mere 1% of the time... so DON"T DO IT MATE!.
*Billy Madison;s voice: YOU BLEW IT!
Hmmm...actually i feel it depends on individual...some gals can still be frenz with a guy who likes her but she dun like him...
Some guys might avoid a gal if she tells him she likes him....
Anyway, if a person really treasure a friendship, he/she wont give it up so easily...
Now the only thing u can do is give the whole matter some time to cool down before you try and approach her as a friend again...but DUN be overly enthusiatics cos u might scare her off again.... -
you can never tell a ger that " I Love you" unless you are kok sure that she feels the same otherwise you are just going to kok everything up.
The trick to getting gers is to get close to them and yet show them the bo chap attitude.... (ie something like playing hard to get) From experience, gers also have this ego thing inside them.. (ie the harder to get the more they interessted) so you have to pretend that you are only interestred in being a friend and then let her do the advancement instead. the moment she choot her stunt then u can choot your pattern.... (ie get her to bed with you ) to confirm your position in her eyes,, ... ( but I willl not recommend you to do the sex thingie unless you are like 20 + !
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no chance liao... jz try b frens wif her lor...Originally posted by school boy2:Hi people!
I am very confuse now!
I am in love with a gal,but i never show it to anyone cause i am scared that people will start making fun and irritate her.
We started good, and chatted alot,untill one day when i told her i love her.
She told me its impossible....
Now she dont respond much when i msg her.....
I dont noe if i should go open and show her my love or should i continue hide it from public eyes to protect her ? -
its puppy love..get over it...u love her cause u wanna bed her or do u really really love her..Originally posted by school boy2:Hi people!
I am very confuse now!
I am in love with a gal,but i never show it to anyone cause i am scared that people will start making fun and irritate her.
We started good, and chatted alot,untill one day when i told her i love her.
She told me its impossible....
Now she dont respond much when i msg her.....
I dont noe if i should go open and show her my love or should i continue hide it from public eyes to protect her ?
u love her cause she is very gd at something, or u love her even she is one dumb arse.
you should not tell her u love her in the 1st place...without going through the steps, call woooooing.
and u got money to love her meh....nowadays ger all like tat one.
i haf an ex want to buy this and tat...dont buy say not romentic..not caring..
i tell her straight in the face..i no money to lomentic with you. -
Just accept the fact lah, love cannot be forced one. If its forced, it ain't love. Simple as that.
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So u wait for the gal to tell the guy???
Well over here... you could do that. But the main thing is... never ever tell the girl you like her...economically speaking... you get a lot more utility if you do not tell her. -
dude...move on in life lah....she made herself clear enuff liao....no point crying over her.... live ur life to e fullest n if things r to be,she will one day be urs.
no need to try so hard one....leave it ti fate lor....
in e mean time,continue caring for her as a fren.