Three nice guys

• jOhO

  16 May 04, 11:55

  Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:

  forgive me father for i have sinned?

  don't ask me.. i'm not worthy.
• Princesscutie

  29 Jun 04, 00:10

  Originally posted by Thailand_Hero:

  God give u three holes....
  
  wanna be single for fug?

  because of such bastards
• SunRisE

  29 Jun 04, 00:16

  Originally posted by jOhO:

  hmm not really lar, being a guy, i don't really get many girls expressively chasing me. during my days girls also not that daring?
  
  and knowing me, i'm the type of guy that needs to do the chasing. all of my past relns were from me chasing them, and those that chased me (if any!!), never really got to me. *shrug*
  
  unless of course, u are talking about me, together with other guys chasing the same girl, then yes. during army days, 4 of us from the same coy was chasing my ex gf. guess who managed to touch her heart?
  
  bear: for once i can answer in AA b4 u do.

  jOhO.. you said your ex liao... of cos you did lah..
• egotist

  22 Jul 04, 12:19

  Originally posted by Ah Gong:

  Choose wisely as there is a saying, guys fear entering the wrong career path and girls fear marrying a bastard and entering the wrong career path.
  
  Open eyes big big like this

  Love is selfish... as always. Period. But juz take care to check out da character of da guy u like.
  
  Aiya... i dun really see e dilemmna abt it. Prolly u shld realise tt love is no charity (as in tis type of love). If ur nt interested in other guys, juz throw the fact rite into their face asap, rather than drag on and do more dmg. Cruelty is necessary in tis case.
  
  Err... but dun over-pulverize them lor. Guys' heart ain't entirely coated wif steel either.
• LittleTiger

  23 Jul 04, 16:16

  What i can say is not chose C. Chose a guy which is real nice.... not just nice to you (as this could be pretended).
  
  I would prefer a quiet honest real silly nice guy.
  Those who talk lots are flicker. Lots of guys are clever at pretending..... they treat you nice but at the real side of him.... he is a jerk and does all those bad thing.
  
  I remember i heard a words from my friend, she said she rather her bf treat her more bad than other ppl. Cos this will only mean that her bf is a real integrity man and what u saw him was his own self.
  
  I know a guy who treat his wife and daughter good(talk softly and soft) but at the real self..... he is a jerk..... cheat ppl $$ and other things, talk arrogant and loudly and always bully girls in the office. walau....
  
  but anyhow... girls like to be sweet talk.... and this is girls weakest point... There are lots of girls willing to self themself(prostitxxx) bcos of their so call all "man" giving empty promise and sweet talk.
  
  hope u get what i mean...... and hope u fortunate....
  
  and nice guys are always the most pity one as they dont know how to express themself to wins girls heart and always lose out in this world of despicable and heat competition.
• chunyong

  23 Jul 04, 16:18

  Originally posted by Princesscutie:

  I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
  
  Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
  
  Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
  
  what should i do
  
  I think i shall remain single.......................
  
  

  no...dun remain single, goh wu wa.....i give u 'xing' fu...promise
• Tragic Clown

  25 Jul 04, 01:35

  Originally posted by chunyong:

  no...dun remain single, goh wu wa.....i give u 'xing' fu...promise

  Huh?
• jasmine17

  29 Jul 04, 21:24

  
• SibeiSuayKia

  30 Jul 04, 16:02

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:

  What i can say is not chose C. Chose a guy which is real nice.... not just nice to you (as this could be pretended).
  
  I would prefer a quiet honest real silly nice guy.
  Those who talk lots are flicker. Lots of guys are clever at pretending..... they treat you nice but at the real side of him.... he is a jerk and does all those bad thing.
  
  I remember i heard a words from my friend, she said she rather her bf treat her more bad than other ppl. Cos this will only mean that her bf is a real integrity man and what u saw him was his own self.
  
  I know a guy who treat his wife and daughter good(talk softly and soft) but at the real self..... he is a jerk..... cheat ppl $$ and other things, talk arrogant and loudly and always bully girls in the office. walau....
  
  but anyhow... girls like to be sweet talk.... and this is girls weakest point... There are lots of girls willing to self themself(prostitxxx) bcos of their so call all "man" giving empty promise and sweet talk.
  
  hope u get what i mean...... and hope u fortunate....
  
  and nice guys are always the most pity one as they dont know how to express themself to wins girls heart and always lose out in this world of despicable and heat competition.

  AGREE , my school got some good examples of this kind..
• M©+square

  31 Jul 04, 04:09

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:

  What i can say is not chose C. Chose a guy which is real nice.... not just nice to you (as this could be pretended). [/quote]
  
  

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I would prefer a quiet honest real silly nice guy.
  Those who talk lots are flicker. Lots of guys are clever at pretending..... they treat you nice but at the real side of him.... he is a jerk and does all those bad thing.

  This could be a interesting study on guys.
  Anyway, like you've posted. Your preference is quiet honest guy, i could safely predict that these guys rarely attracts you to them in their first or numerous impression.
  
  Ideals are only when you wish to settle down and have a family. Age and mentality plays huge factor here.
  
  In your case - Preference, Ideal guy does not equate to Attraction and Relationship.
  
  You may have negetive notions on clever, witty guys.
  They have learnt certain lessons in life so to keep up with women.
  Don't discredit them too soon. Until you meet one, maybe you'll realise all that you thought about them were just protective shield.
  
  

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I remember i heard a words from my friend, she said she rather her bf treat her more bad than other ppl. Cos this will only mean that her bf is a real integrity man and what u saw him was his own self.

  I really pity your friend's boyfriend(present or future) to suffer being delibrately being shortchanged of his feelings and effort he placed in the relationship. Such methodology of finding out a good bf should be ceased.
  
  He is likely staying on because
  
  - He really loves her. But it'll run out if she's keeping him emtionally starved.
  - She has got great physical and facial attributes
  - She knows how to play the game.
  - He's emotionally weak
  
  

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I know a guy who treat his wife and daughter good(talk softly and soft) but at the real self..... he is a jerk..... cheat ppl $$ and other things, talk arrogant and loudly and always bully girls in the office. walau....

  Lemme ask you a question. If you don't know what your husband does outside. But only knows he really loves the family and ultimately you.
  What if the reason she marries him was because - he's quiet, honest, silly nice guy?
  
  Does it make him a jerk or you a dumb wife?
  
  [quote]Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  but anyhow... girls like to be sweet talk.... and this is girls weakest point... There are lots of girls willing to self themself(prostitxxx) bcos of their so call all "man" giving empty promise and sweet talk
  hope u get what i mean...... and hope u fortunate.... .Does it make him a jerk or her a dumb gf?
  
  

  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  and nice guys are always the most pity one as they dont know how to express themself to wins girls heart and always lose out in this world of [color=red]despicable and heat competition.[/b]

  Hmmm....i like this part the most.
  
  Usually i would tell my galfriends not to rant over their failed relationships and regret over the choice of the nice guy.
  When ideals and DESIRE were compared.
  Desires will always call for immediate satisfaction.
  
  P.S i hope despicable and heated competition wasn't meant only for the guys.
  
  Cheers
  
  
• LittleTiger

  31 Jul 04, 20:46

  What i can say is tat u been acting tat you were smart.
  Please understand the topic and scenario. I am posting here to help Princesscutie to understand more about guys, give more ideas and more clearly know about the situation by giving some example so that her herself know which one to chose. We are not here to debate who is who.
  I reply this to counter you smartness
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  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I would prefer a quiet honest real silly nice guy.
  Those who talk lots are flicker. Lots of guys are clever at pretending..... they treat you nice but at the real side of him.... he is a jerk and does all those bad thing.
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  This could be a interesting study on guys.
  Anyway, like you've posted. Your preference is quiet honest guy, i could safely predict that these guys rarely attracts you to them in their first or numerous impression.
  
  Ideals are only when you wish to settle down and have a family. Age and mentality plays huge factor here.
  
  I agree about age and mentality that why i am giving advise to her so that she or young girl out there wont regret what they did now when they are old.
  
  In your case - Preference, Ideal guy does not equate to Attraction and Relationship.
  
  [b]But there are nice guy out there with preference, ideal guys at the same time equals to that you/she have attraction and relationship. So dont just give ur assumption....
  
  
  You may have negetive notions on clever, witty guys.
  They have learnt certain lessons in life so to keep up with women.
  Don't discredit them too soon. Until you meet one, maybe you'll realise all that you thought about them were just protective shield.
  
  Nope, What if i say i am a guy instead of girls? Then my words will be more true. You sounded dislike girls which are over protective and end up losing a clever and witty guys? Or end up unable to cheat by a clever or witty guys? Human are smart, only that we use it on the right or at the wrong way.
  
  If i am a guy, then the words from me saying the possiblilities of the very bad side of a guy is the most true words right? Cause no one understand what guys are thinking more that a guy himself
  
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  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I remember i heard a words from my friend, she said she rather her bf treat her more bad than other ppl. Cos this will only mean that her bf is a real integrity man and what u saw him was his own self.
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  I really pity your friend's boyfriend(present or future) to suffer being delibrately being shortchanged of his feelings and effort he placed in the relationship. Such methodology of finding out a good bf should be ceased.
  
  Im so sorry to answer that her bf is most fortunate as her gf really understand him and appreaciate him as himself a trully nice guy... u sounded like an attack.
  
  He is likely staying on because
  
  - He really loves her. But it'll run out if she's keeping him emtionally starved.
  - She has got great physical and facial attributes
  - She knows how to play the game.
  - He's emotionally weak
  
  Dont act smart and give abrupt assume
  1. both of them loving each other and their relationship was good cause they are not attach because of look and sweet talk.
  2. I would say u sounded more like a attack. She is normal looking not as u said have great physical and facial attributes. Why cant u say it short like nice figure and pretty? It seems like u belong to those who like to use "flower flower" de words a flirt.
  3. She are not as what u. They are sincere ppl and no hiding in them.
  4. He is much stronger than you do.... kekeke
  
  quote:
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  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  I know a guy who treat his wife and daughter good(talk softly and soft) but at the real self..... he is a jerk..... cheat ppl $$ and other things, talk arrogant and loudly and always bully girls in the office. walau....
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  Lemme ask you a question. If you don't know what your husband does outside. But only knows he really loves the family and ultimately you.
  What if the reason she marries him was because - he's quiet, honest, silly nice guy?
  Does it make him a jerk or you a dumb wife?
  
  Lemme me ask u back a question imagine what would it like sleeping with a enemy or stranger and gave him everything without knowing his true face/self. Since that stranger/enemy which could pretend outside, then one fine day he dont want u(maybe bcos of as what u mention no more great physical and facial attributes) and chose not to pretend anymore to you?.... then he would bully and cheat u like what he did outside, right?
  
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  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  but anyhow... girls like to be sweet talk.... and this is girls weakest point... There are lots of girls willing to self themself(prostitxxx) bcos of their so call all "man" giving empty promise and sweet talk
  hope u get what i mean...... and hope u fortunate.... .
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  Does it make him a jerk or her a dumb gf?
  
  ??? ComeOn what has my above wording has to do with him a jerk or her a dumb gf.....
  Are u ignorant too fortnate or u dont know thing happening around u, watch some news. There are many cases or similiarities like this and i merely put in an example so that ppl would avoid if they meet similiar cases. The best way to teach ppl to avoid or handle situation is by giving example.
  If a guys really like you and sayang u he wont not let you do those things. And as i said girl weakest point are sweet talk and its TRUE. Girls agree to it.
  quote:
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  Originally posted by LittleTiger:
  and nice guys are always the most pity one as they dont know how to express themself to wins girls heart and always lose out in this world of despicable and heat competition.[/b]
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  Hmmm....i like this part the most.
  Usually i would tell my galfriends not to rant over their failed relationships and regret over the choice of the nice guy.
  When ideals and DESIRE were compared.
  Desires will always call for immediate satisfaction.
  
  P.S i hope despicable and heated competition wasn't meant only for the guys.
  Cheers
  
  
  Yeah desire, that why there are some many cases where men has to satisfies their desire and do whatever they like. So from your words, we can know that u are a person who care most about immedaite satisfaction and desire.
  We are human, we gotta to answer for the things that we do and not to make this society a messy place. If everyone takes things to their hands then how will this world be able to live with.
  Human has desire but we sometimes must give some endure right, freedom is needed but a little discipline also needed and wont hurt right?
  
  P.S. I am posting here not to boast how good i am so that i can find a partner here.... i never mention a words about that.
  And i am not prejudice with any of my previous post. All are life fact example for princesscutie to go through and more understand. I never force her to abide anything.
  
• M©+square

  1 Aug 04, 07:34

  Okie, i'm not trying to start a personal attack here.
  
  So don't have to be defensive.
  Assumptions most seen from your first post about guys.
  
  Cheers.
  
• Princesscutie

  5 Aug 04, 16:55

  thanks litte tiger and M©+square
  
  Please don't fight because of me
  
• Ito_^

  5 Aug 04, 16:59

  Originally posted by Princesscutie:

  I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
  
  Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
  
  Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
  
  what should i do
  
  I think i shall remain single.......................
  
  

  follow your heart, follow your mind (really lar), think far. juz something to add, love can withstand the test of time, those with patience are the can marry de liao.
• M©+square

  5 Aug 04, 17:00

  Originally posted by Princesscutie:

  thanks litte tiger and M©+square
  
  Please don't fight because of me
  

  No fight. Cool. Just an exchange of thoughts.
• LittleTiger

  7 Aug 04, 17:36

  Originally posted by Princesscutie:

  thanks litte tiger and M©+square
  
  Please don't fight because of me
  

  sure, just giving view and experience.
  
  Hope you made the right choice, anyway you are still very young. Do not need to commit or give out everything yet, OK. Understand.
  
• Ah Gong

  10 Aug 04, 22:34

  solved?
• Killer Tomatoes

  28 Jan 05, 14:05

  
• aH_v

  29 Jan 05, 00:39

  Originally posted by Princesscutie:

  I have two friends that treat me very well. Guy A and guy B know each other. Guy A said that he likes me and want me to be his girlfriend. I did not agree then as i don't know if i like him that much to commit myself to a relationship.
  
  Guy B did sms me that he likes me too and i am attracted to him too. But i am afraid if i accept guy B, guy A will be broken hearted as i know guy A first.
  
  Then another guy who is my brother's friend, has always express his liking for me by showering me with presents etc...........
  
  what should i do
  
  I think i shall remain single.......................
  
  

  Actually, do you really need a boyfriend now???
  
  Hmm.. I don't think you will enjoy their little competition over you but whoever you choose, the other is going to get hurt. Moreover, will there be any friendship left should the one you accepted breaks up with you later or vice versa??
  
  Whatever it is, if you don't have the answer on who you are going to accept, it simply means that you do not love any of them at all yet. More like wanting a companionship and someone to dopt you.
  
  Anyhow, whatever the outcome is, hope you don't lost your focus on the more important things in your life now. ie. Career, academics...
• tripudio_mutatio

  30 Jan 05, 02:05

  a TWO year old thread...getting digged up...
• Killer Tomatoes

  31 Jan 05, 21:13

  choose me
• dcx

  17 Feb 05, 11:59

  Take me with you....i also got the same case as you...