Absence Makes The Heart Grow Fonder?
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It simply means that the time you spend away from one you love, makes you love that person even more.
Persons, places, or things become dearer to us when they are absent.
I knew this couple who actually do need to see each other everyday. On the days which they don't, they will call each other up and quarrel on the phone. Meeting means peace to them. So, i guess absence makes their heart grow worse.
But if you were to meet up everyday, will u find that person bored and take him/her for granted?
Or you prefer the MIA mode just for the sake of the topic mentioned? -
meeting up everyday will not be boring if there is love involved. As for taking for granted, there willl be inevitably.Originally posted by Churra:It simply means that the time you spend away from one you love, makes you love that person even more.
Persons, places, or things become dearer to us when they are absent.
I knew this couple who actually do need to see each other everyday. On the days which they don't, they will call each other up and quarrel on the phone. Meeting means peace to them. So, i guess absence makes their heart grow worse.
But if you were to meet up everyday, will u find that person bored and take him/her for granted?
Or you prefer the MIA mode just for the sake of the topic mentioned? -
if can i also want to stay wit my partner everyday..but to0oo bad i have to work,work & work....
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a wondering heart makes a person wander..........
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Some people are very dependent on their partners while some are very independent. so the dependent ones will meet up at every opportunity to bond even closer. Absence will make the heart grow fonder for independent couples.
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living together in a reln is something we handled well together. we saw each other daily, and on the rare occasions where one wasn't around for the night, it felt weird.
i dun believe in absence/distance to keep the relationship strong and exciting. -
trust. Trust must be present for relationship to work outOriginally posted by xiao chui:a wondering heart makes a person wander.......... -
yup yup...i agree with u...Originally posted by jasmine17:trust. Trust must be present for relationship to work out
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trust is too vulnerable a thing to keep strong under bad weather conditions.....Originally posted by jasmine17:trust. Trust must be present for relationship to work out -
someone must have betrayed your trust in him/her..Originally posted by xiao chui:trust is too vulnerable a thing to keep strong under bad weather conditions.....
but trust is a rudiment element in all relationships. Be it friendship, kinship......no trust there will not be happiness nor fulfilment from that relationship -
well i guess...betrayal act happen everyday n alot of ppl exp it...Originally posted by jasmine17:someone must have betrayed your trust..
but trust is a rudiment element in all relationships. Be it friendship, kinship......
true trust like wat u say is a rudiment element..but...its so basic till its always being forsake..so dun depend too much on it... -
i don need to meet up everyday la... but we will contact each other every night if we do nt meet on tat day... okay... we contact each other every night even if we do meet on tat day too... but tat's not the point... no... we do not meet everyday... for us... absence makes the heart grow fonder...
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Wah... sound so familar.. like I JUST heard it.
Actually not always true that absence makes the heart grown fonder... different ppl have different effects. -
x 2~~ muahahahhaOriginally posted by X-men:Wah... sound so familar.. like I JUST heard it.
Actually not always true that absence makes the heart grown fonder... different ppl have different effects. -
i guess if both r so used to c each other everyday..... once u nv mt for sometimes u will miss the person like mad.....
'yi ri bu jian ru ge san qiu' mah... hehhe
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i know of this couple who are peaceful when they dun meet......meet liao then quarrel come.........Originally posted by Churra:I knew this couple who actually do need to see each other everyday. On the days which they don't, they will call each other up and quarrel on the phone. Meeting means peace to them. So, i guess absence makes their heart grow worse. -
Absence? depends on da period. Sometimes it goes 2 waes, like a double edged sword (pronounced sord). Either will miss each other OR wander ard.Originally posted by Churra:It simply means that the time you spend away from one you love, makes you love that person even more.
Persons, places, or things become dearer to us when they are absent.
I knew this couple who actually do need to see each other everyday. On the days which they don't, they will call each other up and quarrel on the phone. Meeting means peace to them. So, i guess absence makes their heart grow worse.
But if you were to meet up everyday, will u find that person bored and take him/her for granted?
Or you prefer the MIA mode just for the sake of the topic mentioned?
Every1 have their own preference. as long as can keep balance of meeting often & MIA at times. Things will go da wae U 2 want. -
absence does in a way make the heart grow fonder. you'll naturally miss a person that you care/enjoy being with.
but, too long of an absence weakens the r/s. just my opinion .... -
Agree!!!Originally posted by jasmine17:Some people are very dependent on their partners while some are very independent. so the dependent ones will meet up at every opportunity to bond even closer. Absence will make the heart grow fonder for independent couples. -
yah lor! this thread is dedicate to her. kekeke...Originally posted by X-men:Wah... sound so familar.. like I JUST heard it.
Actually not always true that absence makes the heart grown fonder... different ppl have different effects. -
yeah.......
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and she MIA from this thread?Originally posted by Churra:yah lor! this thread is dedicate to her. kekeke... -
Well I guess that's provided that 'love' is there in the first place. Of course sometimes you do find out that you actually love someone or something during their absence.
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can i ask who ?Originally posted by X-men:and she MIA from this thread? -
i als wana noe....Originally posted by jasmine17:can i ask who ?