hw to forget yr ex ...
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i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face
and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then
he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u. -
Dun take it too hard...
Wound wil heal wif time... -
don't worry... u will find your happiness again one day...
just try to do something more meaningful and slowly u will get to forget bout him...
time will change your mind...
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slowly, slowly...
do stuff.. learn to love and live for yourself..
go out with friends, participate in activities, go out in the outings.. let time wear away the jagged edges..
most of us have been there.. but we're still alive!
that's the wonder of it all.. we're still alive!!
i lost someone i love more than life itself.. i will always love her, even if we're not together anymore.. and will never see each other again.. but i love her.. always will...
still, i will lead my life, and maybe one day, i'll be able to find someone to offer my love, honour, respect and admiration to.. someone for me to watch over.. someone to love and will love me back...
life goes on..
i will never forget her
some of us never will forget our lost love... but we'll be happy again
i know it.. just put your mind and heart into it
be well, yah?
life has its ups and downs.. stand up and be strong for no one else but yourself -
yeah i agree with mr intelligent bear....i also have a girl in my mind and she will be forever in my heart though we are not together already...
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I took 1 yr 4 mths plus to really let it go...Time will make things so much clearer..realize how cruel is he these 1 yr 4 mths..not a single call etc..you will realize that it is not worth it waiting for him. I do hope he will live happily..coz I never hated him..though he hurt me And well, I'm into a new relationship now...Originally posted by jolin80:i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face
and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then
he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u. -
u can never forget someone who u fall in love with...what u can do is cherish the memories, happy moments u had with tt person, n let go of the unhappy stuff...
once,i spent 2 years trying to get over a guy, but ended up i realised tt it is impossible.. but still life need to move on..... the earth won't stop rotating be'coz of 1 person lo....
must be willing to let go, willing to forgive and willing to start all over again.....
ur ex is probably a just passer-by in ur life, juz tt fate happened to bring u 2gether.... n i believe in every relationship, u learnt something new.....
i know tt things are easier said than done, but i hope u will recover from this setback soon.......
all the best!!!!! -
Originally posted by the Bear:slowly, slowly...
do stuff.. learn to love and live for yourself..
go out with friends, participate in activities, go out in the outings.. let time wear away the jagged edges..
most of us have been there.. but we're still alive!
that's the wonder of it all.. we're still alive!!
i lost someone i love more than life itself.. i will always love her, even if we're not together anymore.. and will never see each other again.. but i love her.. always will...
still, i will lead my life, and maybe one day, i'll be able to find someone to offer my love, honour, respect and admiration to.. someone for me to watch over.. someone to love and will love me back...
life goes on..
i will never forget her
some of us never will forget our lost love... but we'll be happy again
i know it.. just put your mind and heart into it
be well, yah?
life has its ups and downs.. stand up and be strong for no one else but yourself 
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hang in there...u r not alone...Originally posted by jolin80:i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face
and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then
he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u. -
it's been 2 1/2 yrs 4 me... though it sort of faded away somehow but i sometimes still break down n cry.. mayb i owe him in my last life? ha.. sux..Originally posted by jolin80:i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face
and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then
he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u. -
the hardest part about a failed relationship is not so much about forgiving the other party....
it's toughest to forgive yourself.... -
Give you a chance to prove to him that you love him? Problem is, are you loving him the way he wants it or it is just merely something purely on your side?Originally posted by jolin80:i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face
and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then
he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u.
Love must be mutual; either of the extreme end will affect the relationship negatively.
You had already answer yourself to your own question: to let him go.
Learn to get used; beautiful memories are meant to be kept and not to cry over with. We live because of yesterday's dreams and awaits for tomorrow's hope.
P.S: Are you a Libra?
Cheers -
Wow! I almost wanted to say exactly the same thing.Originally posted by Yunhaier:Give you a chance to prove to him that you love him? Problem is, are you loving him the way he wants it or it is just merely something purely on your side?
Love must be mutual; either of the extreme end will affect the relationship negatively.
You had already answer yourself to your own question: to let him go.
Learn to get used; beautiful memories are meant to be kept and not to cry over with. We live because of yesterday's dreams and awaits for tomorrow's hope.
P.S: Are you a Libra?
Cheers
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Donno what's the reason behind your breakup but i feel that when it's gone, it's gone lor. Maybe it's just fated that you are not supposed to be wif him or him wif you. I too still miss my ex for the past 6 years but I'm glad that we broke off cause she's now happily married with 2 kids. Sometime it's better to let go than trying to hold it forever.Originally posted by jolin80:i had been trying my best to forget him .. but i cant make it
i will alway break down and cry .. whenever i close my eyes i can see his face and al those happy times and memories.It had since 1 1/2 since then he left mi behind jus like tt . til today i still hope tt he will come back to mi if i'm given another chance to turn the clock backward i wil try my very best to prove to him hw much i love him. but i do believe tt if u love someone u should let him,i live happier than u do ..love doesnt mean to have tt person forever with u. -
As they have all said ealier, you don't have to forget....
but i do know its not as easy...
Maybe you can try to have a new aim in life where you will spend time on... -
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x2!Originally posted by KittynMeow:the hardest part about a failed relationship is not so much about forgiving the other party....
it's toughest to forgive yourself....
i agree.... -
still healing...Originally posted by shan_cai:Dun take it too hard...
Wound wil heal wif time...
but there will be a scar...
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i guess one can never 4get...
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True loves are always hardest to forget...
emotions will well up from time to time...
you will never really forget them...you can only get use to them.
The more u try to forget, the more it cling to u...
how can you let it rest if u kept reminding urself to forget?
Give yourself and others chance to get together...
amuse/occupy yourself with some hobbies...
Give urself some time to rest as well...
time will fade it slowly...
Take care -
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