
i pity ur mum. poor lady.. i tik this kind of thing leave it to ur mum decide.. maybe ur mum love ur dad a lot and don intend to divorce him.. but whatever it is, hope u will take care of ur mum well as i tik she really suffer a lot..Originally posted by Sliderwkw:Hi guys, I hope you guys could give a advice or something about this....
It actually began like this. My mother took care of my fathe's mother for 10 years already. she was paralysed and my mother took the pain to take care of her. After my grandma died, my father suddenly change. When his sons are sick, he bo chap, pretending by acting blur or just walk away. My mother took the pain of working full time and bring me to see the doctor. My father now keep blaming everyone in the house and keep scolding my poor mother "You BITCH!"
Like yesterday incident, my mother is going to make some prayers for me. she is unsure which direction is north and I can't go down due to religious practice. I approached my father and seek his help to go down with my mother. My father scolded my mother "You Stupid Fool!!! You BITCH!!!" My mother was so angry and in the end my brother went down with her. My father keep saying everyone in the house dun like him and want to sabo him, make "Kong KAo" on him. He say my mother due to religious supertitions caused my father to have trouble paying the house rent.
My father last time earn 2.63K plus and never give a single cent to my poor mother. Only give her bloody hell $600 to feed 4 people in the house and still her "BITCH!" .My mother suspect my father is having an affair outside because he always bo chap about family isuses. My mother married my father for 30 years plus already and my father never bought my mother even a single candy or clothing. There was one time my mother told me that there was a very fierce woman who called and said "You want to sell the house??? Want to sell? " in an angry tone like ah long type of tone.
Guys plkease give me dvice on wat to do? Should my mother just divorce him and just leave for good?
i think ur father is not a manOriginally posted by Sliderwkw:Now my mother is currently part time and my elder brother every month give her extra money for any daily necessities. Also new year is coming soon and my mother haven't receive any money from my father yet.
Then something weird is that, he kept saying "Own people sabo own people" . And then, always say "My friend say" "My friend say". I am wondering who is his bloody friend. My father wanted my brother to fully support the housing loan so he can bo chap liao. But my brother have his own career, his own plans. Also due to my father action in spending the $10K from the sale of house. The housing loan interest rose too much. He wan my brother to take over the debt. Now it is useless to talk to him nicely, he seems like ahving a mental block or something, nothing goes in only his own bloody belief.
be strong and hang in there. do share ur problems with ur close friends and allow them to help you.Originally posted by Sliderwkw:Chebye, tonight my mum just ask him to buy some satay for us. He came back and my mum already open the door lock already. He just need to open the door. New Year day is coming, he refuses to give any money and even spit my mother and say that he spit at her to give her bad luck.
I dunno what to do, pls advise. I am really hated this family. I had enough problems in camp and yet I have such stupid problems at home.![]()
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dun say liddat... i am sure there are friends out there who undersatnd your plight and understand u too... just take a bit of time to find them.Originally posted by Sliderwkw:I dun have much close friends, all my friends all making use of me. They probably will be smiling away at my present situation.

don't be so stressed up... keep cool... observe...Originally posted by Sliderwkw:I dun have much close friends, all my friends all making use of me. They probably will be smiling away at my present situation.
Get new friends, expand your life style... You're not a turtle. Don't have to remain in a shell.Originally posted by Sliderwkw:I dun have much close friends, all my friends all making use of me. They probably will be smiling away at my present situation.