do u realli hate them?Originally posted by icedworld:I hate my family a lot..hate my dad...hate my sis..hate my mom..i always have to rush back home after sch to do the hsework...n when i never do anything proprely...mom wills cold me stupid..useless.hurts me lots..mu sis often againist me..coz of their jeaoulsy...i can't get a hp... always telling my mom things n i ended up being scolded everytime..dad always cum home from work..sit at the sofa, watch tv..never even help mom cook dinner..he think he is the onli on who is tired.. my mom also cum back from work n cook mahz...i always help the family do hsework every single day! They never even say a thank u..i have to pack the hse too...when they lose their things or can't find, they pushes the blame to me...worst still, they dun allow me go out...wad is this man...juz dun get it...even if go out, onli can go tm...the rest of the place..forget it...real sad...always cope up at home..now..lonliess has becum a frenz of mine...i live in a world of my own...
She said i nvr did my job at hme.....always wanted to stay n use my computer.....Originally posted by the Bear:slowly, she has to let go... but she does not want to?
so she pick a fight with you?
or the other way around? you're cutting the apronstrings.. she's resisting, so you pick a fight with her?
i believe tat alot of us goes through this phrase too...Originally posted by jolin80:just dun bother so much
i experience it b4
i hate my families so much tt
i dun communicate wif them
alway stay in my room.....![]()
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no choice .. this is what my mum complains. but something son has to do. try to listen to her whenever you can.Originally posted by duotiga83:She said i nvr did my job at hme.....always wanted to stay n use my computer.....
i told my mom i go myself to look for the unit i posted to but she iniststed that she wants to go wif mi....
in th eend, her leg pain push all blame to mi.....
try not to be forced into her quarrels e.g. when its coming, go away, or refuse to respond?Originally posted by duotiga83:You all are right in some sense....but my mom got the habit of creating small quarrel and even though i explain to her, she always thought that everything she says is right all the time......![]()
1 thing she like to complain to is i always listen to my friends and not her......Originally posted by wuming78:try not to be forced into her quarrels e.g. when its coming, go away, or refuse to respond?
i wonder if its her character.. but i do think she shudnt be so domineering over u at ur age. perhaps she lacked security, and wants to retain tt sense of control over wat she can?
i think u will be able to decide the best course of action, but i do think there is a need for communication betw the 2 of u - to tell her wat u feel, to listen to wat she feels.Originally posted by duotiga83:1 thing she like to complain to is i always listen to my friends and not her......
so sad ar u...Originally posted by icedworld:I hate my family a lot..hate my dad...hate my sis..hate my mom..i always have to rush back home after sch to do the hsework...n when i never do anything proprely...mom wills cold me stupid..useless.hurts me lots..mu sis often againist me..coz of their jeaoulsy...i can't get a hp... always telling my mom things n i ended up being scolded everytime..dad always cum home from work..sit at the sofa, watch tv..never even help mom cook dinner..he think he is the onli on who is tired.. my mom also cum back from work n cook mahz...i always help the family do hsework every single day! They never even say a thank u..i have to pack the hse too...when they lose their things or can't find, they pushes the blame to me...worst still, they dun allow me go out...wad is this man...juz dun get it...even if go out, onli can go tm...the rest of the place..forget it...real sad...always cope up at home..now..lonliess has becum a frenz of mine...i live in a world of my own...
Wow... can feel yr hatred... U r now entering teenage life rite...? Coz very seldom parents will "confine" their kid when da kids r "old" enuf...Originally posted by icedworld:I hate my family a lot..hate my dad...hate my sis..hate my mom..i always have to rush back home after sch to do the hsework...n when i never do anything proprely...mom wills cold me stupid..useless.hurts me lots..mu sis often againist me..coz of their jeaoulsy...i can't get a hp... always telling my mom things n i ended up being scolded everytime..dad always cum home from work..sit at the sofa, watch tv..never even help mom cook dinner..he think he is the onli on who is tired.. my mom also cum back from work n cook mahz...i always help the family do hsework every single day! They never even say a thank u..i have to pack the hse too...when they lose their things or can't find, they pushes the blame to me...worst still, they dun allow me go out...wad is this man...juz dun get it...even if go out, onli can go tm...the rest of the place..forget it...real sad...always cope up at home..now..lonliess has becum a frenz of mine...i live in a world of my own...
hm.. dunno.. in tt case, settle ur own stress sources first. den try to talk to her?Originally posted by duotiga83:nw is like i am so stress out that sometimes she ask mi do things i nvr do properly and kanna scolded nw and then....juz nw also...just bcos i keep my stuffs and i didn't keep her stuffs outside the window....
nw she was so pissed off that she don't want mi as her son......2dae i am not really myself 2dae.......Originally posted by wuming78:hm.. dunno.. in tt case, settle ur own stress sources first. den try to talk to her?
Originally posted by duotiga83:nw she was so pissed off that she don't want mi as her son......2dae i am not really myself 2dae.......