Honestly...what's wrong with being good to others???
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when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!!
why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong??? 
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be good can...
cannot be too good....
there is a limit to how much and how far u can help others......
mus learn how to protect urself oso -
people will take advantage of your goodness... so what?
in the end, it's the bastards who will lose.. they lose in terms of dignity and honour...
all they gain is material things...
just because others are terrible, why become jaded and change for fu(kheads like them? become worse for them??
be good.. even when the world is terrible, be good
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being good is nothing wrong.... but don over do it.....
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im just very sad that they say its my fault.it's me who cause them to take me for granted or take advantage of me.and these words come from the one that i love.what a joke!!!???i really like the Pet Shop boys song "what i have done to deserve this"......
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can quote example????Originally posted by thhong22:being good is nothing wrong.... but don over do it.....
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it's not ur fault lah.... u like her of cos u will b nicer to her....Originally posted by birdbird:im just very sad that they say its my fault.it's me who cause them to take me for granted or take advantage of me.and these words come from the one that i love.what a joke!!!???i really like the Pet Shop boys song "what i have done to deserve this"......
if she takes u for granted..... i felt tat it's her being unfair to u loh
u not wrong in anyway -
don't take it to heart... hopefully he'll change... those who are good need not change, although you should look around, see if people are trying to take advantage...
there is nothing, absolutely nothing wrong with being goodOriginally posted by birdbird:im just very sad that they say its my fault.it's me who cause them to take me for granted or take advantage of me.and these words come from the one that i love.what a joke!!!???i really like the Pet Shop boys song "what i have done to deserve this"...... -
hmm.... if u r equally good to everyone.... i think nobody will say anything.... but if u r specially nice to this gal u like (of cos it's very normal) but if she takes u for granted.....like very bad lohOriginally posted by birdbird:can quote example????
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nothing wrong wif being good lah...just that some people think can always get your help so they keep using u lor. Like in my case, I always help my ex when she need $$ for paying bills and debts that till now she still msg me that she need $$ from me till I fed up and ignore her. It's time like this that you should stop helping cause you know that they are making use of you thinking that they dont have to pay back at all.
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Originally posted by birdbird:when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!! why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong???
Being good to others is a virtue, though I rather be evil and when I am good, people appreciate that side of me.
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Good one!Originally posted by Yunhaier: Being good to others is a virtue, though I rather be evil and when I am good, people appreciate that side of me.
Cheers
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Parka's equation of life: Do it if you're happy
If you're happy being good to others, do it.
If you're unhappy that people are taking advantage of you, then just stop being good. -
Originally posted by birdbird:when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!! why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong???
there's nothing wrong with being good to others. it takes guts and courage. most people don't have. -
as long as u feel tat it is alright... y nt... no point always listening to others...
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as a hokkien saying goes "zho lang chin chai buey hiao kin, but zho lang buey sai chin chin chai chai"Originally posted by birdbird:when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!! why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong???
gd to others can.. dun try to be too gd den let pple tk advantage. -
as long as u do wat u feel is rite...if pple take adv of u, tt is their choice...then it shld be up to u to c if u 1 to continue being nice to tt person liao lor...
u can't always pls the whole world...do things w/in ur means ba..'yi zong mi yang bai zong ren' so its perfectly normal tt diff pple hv diff views n thinking...if not pple will not be still wishing for 'world peace' liao lor
cheer up k
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Theres nothing especially if you like getting dirt all over yourself being a walking carpet and all.
I think you shouldn't be good to every single person because well, some people don't deserve it. -
X 2....Originally posted by FireIce:be good can...
cannot be too good....
there is a limit to how much and how far u can help others......
mus learn how to protect urself oso -
sounds like waht my fren always tell me... that i'm being too good for someone... even thou i ended up getting hurt... hehehe... and it seems like my frens got more worked up than me...Originally posted by FireIce:be good can...
cannot be too good....
there is a limit to how much and how far u can help others......
mus learn how to protect urself oso
but i dun mind lor... cos i like, that's why i willingly do it...
as long as u r happy with what u r doing, why bother? but like what FI say, must learn to protect urself.... -
There is nth wrong wif being too good. Yes wat yr fren sae is true to a certain degree. But its a virtue u have dat many envy. dats y they take advantage of u.Originally posted by birdbird:when u are taken for granted or taken advantage,ppl wil say it's your own fault??!! why am i saying so???my lady friends are telling me that.they told me i shld not be too good others.i simply cant understand this logic....the other party is more at fault than anybody else for taking ppl for granted or taking advantage of others.Am i wrong???
As long as u have a clear conscious, I dun see wats wrong wif u being "too" nice?
I oso listen to many ppl saying I too nice liao... kena taken advantage by many ppl. I dun care... as long as I m wat I m, I do wat I do. I like it, nth can stop mee~~~~~~
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thks everyone,really appreciate it.
honestly,i would not be so disturb and upset if it's not the one i love that did this to me.it's so demoralising.makes everything so meaningless.being good to the person u love is so natural yet it backfires on u.sigh....for me,i would be grateful if anyone treat me well.taking advantage or taking for granted will neber cross my mind.this is a priviledge,not an entitlement.why others just dun understand n instead make u the guilty party?? -
Originally posted by birdbird:thks everyone,really appreciate it. honestly,i would not be so disturb and upset if it's not the one i love that did this to me.it's so demoralising.makes everything so meaningless.being good to the person u love is so natural yet it backfires on u.sigh....for me,i would be grateful if anyone treat me well.taking advantage or taking for granted will neber cross my mind.this is a priviledge,not an entitlement.why others just dun understand n instead make u the guilty party??
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Being good to others is not wrong....
But it just feels terribly bad deep down when such gestures are not reciprocated....
Being taken for granted??
Some pple usually do not treasure those ard them until they lose them....well....its their loss not yours.... -
haha..i dunno if shld be gd to gals ornot cos they knight get wrong ideas..then they oso like think so much, its hard to cover up ur purposes for doing things...sianz