flirting

yi xun

11 Jan 04, 23:19

guys, will u flirt with other gals even though you have a gf already?

will you chat with other gals thru sms even though you have a gf already? i mean sms like; "what u doin now? very sian... on my way to sch now..." etc...

Rolling Eyes

Bochupi

11 Jan 04, 23:23

1) No

2) yes

bjork

11 Jan 04, 23:42

I flirt but depends where & who.
No.. not so bo liao.

fumih_81

12 Jan 04, 00:16

i think u are trying to gauge a potential guy yah?

in fact even i am a girl, i am sure that many guys out there will put yes to these 2 answers. same for girls...if u asked.

some people are more flirty, but they know where to stop. some dont.

i ever met a guy who signalled his interest in me...hid the fact that he was attached...after that found out he has a gf and he recently ROMed....His body language still can tell his interest is still there. sometimes during grp outings, he will still show his concern...

the gist is, must find out clearly his status before making ur moves.

dumbdumb!

12 Jan 04, 00:17

hmm i sometimes friendly until become flirt.

weidev

12 Jan 04, 00:36

no... to both questions... Mr. Green

marzguy

12 Jan 04, 06:39

Nope to the first one. Second one it gonna depends, I do that sometimes with best friends (females). Wink

boy in blues

12 Jan 04, 06:49

1. no
2. yes. but won't ask "what u doin?" these kind of questions.

Bontakun

12 Jan 04, 07:15

Define "flirt"...

Pls read Filrty or friendly, naughty or nice?

See... if U noe EXACTLY wats da meaning of flirt. No matter wat yr stead do, as long as its NOT overboard like 2 timing or something u really cannot handle. I dun see y not? It yr stead's freedom. He/she/it NOT yr property. Respect his/her/its decision.

YES I will be jealous. Wat to do? Dis 1 sure have 1 mah... But if she noe wat to do & dun cross da line. then everything is fine... yah, she can flirt me back loh... >___<

I WILL chat wif other gals thru phone or sms. My freedom too. My mum is a gal too! If liddat oso restrict me, I might as well restrict her from contacting any of her guy frens, including da male members of her family, then we see "fun" or not.

All in all its abt freedom & respect.

s|nNeD

12 Jan 04, 08:52

A definite NO NO for the first.
I would msg close female friends but as wat bjork said, not so bo liao as in wat you doin or such...
Wink

BrUtUs

12 Jan 04, 10:23

both no... onli fren fren msg...

F.O.S

12 Jan 04, 11:26

Devil1976

12 Jan 04, 12:42

Yunhaier

12 Jan 04, 13:16

I) Flirt itself is not a problem; the real problem is when your act of flirt shaken the foundation of your own relationship and sets it on declining mode. Rolling Eyes

Everyone flirts, consciously or unconsciously. When is the last time you wanted to buy something from a bazzar and you sweet-talk your way to get a better discount? When is the last time you returned a compliment when someone praise you - not that you wanted to praise him/her, just that he/she meant it as a joke/humorous manner and you do so flirtingly without you realising?

II) There are times when you have to catch up with old friends or simply maintain 'upkeep' contact with your friends and began the conversation with these little thingy. A healthy relationship should have life outside their partner. Of course, if he neglects you because of that - it will evolved into a problem. Then look at the relationship and his personality first before you trash things out.

P.S: Trust is still the main issue here. If you can't trust your bf, regardless of what situation he is in - you just can't trust him and every possible negative possibility will presume to happen. Rolling Eyes

Cheers

yi xun

12 Jan 04, 17:28

dunno why i just couldn't stand my bf sms other gals... i mean chatting & flirting through sms... maybe it's b coz my trust for him is still not enough...

sgboy2004

12 Jan 04, 17:31

u r not alone, dear... a lot of my gal friends have this problem with their boyfriends too....

The perils of sms...

InVaa

12 Jan 04, 20:27

jealous means don't trust? i dont think so

ivan|

12 Jan 04, 20:54

man... come on... doesnt mean u bf messages other pple he is flirting... pls... thats being quite dumb... everyone has the freedom of messaging... that applies to bgr too... if u r jealous over such little stuff... wat happens if u see ur bf with another girl? break up with him? hell no... this is definitely not flirting... frens are ok... but if he do that to girls that he doesnt even know... then that is flirting... u must have trust for each opther,... Surprised

X-men

12 Jan 04, 21:33

I dont flirt.... I'm just friendly. Mr. Green

Devil1976

12 Jan 04, 22:31

Ya rite.... Mr. Green

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swiftblade_nic

16 Jan 04, 00:32

i also damn tu lan when my gf msg or call other guys, but its like...tho i get pissed off and jealous, i try and hide it...i mean, i also got msg and talk to other girls mah, so u must understand that having friends is a must, without ur gf or bf. I also used to have jealousy probs, but i kept trying to "cure" myself, and i have been successful so far. Not perfect, but i'am trying....its ok to flirt abit, but just dont fall or have feelings for the person can le. Wink