Originally posted by dannyclass18:
What are you supposed to do if you love someone but you don't seem to be able to tell them and when you see them it is very infrequent and its not for a lenghty period of time?
This person is in my opinion is amazing - great personality with the looks to match. I am able to talk to her very easily and we always have a great laugh. Although I seem to be inable to take it further than just being good friends [especially the night when i spend nearly 2 hours just me and her talking]. She has always been very touchy feely with me (but she is in most cases like that with the people she gets on with), kisses on the cheek (odd time on the lips), playful slaps and recently she lay across me while sitting on the couch, pretty much for the durations we were sitting there (although we were with other friends and it was her legs to my knees). I know she likes me as a friends but I don't know whether she likes me any more than that.
What should i do to see if she likes me more than just a friend without being obvious and without telling her my feelings?
I came across quite a bit throughout life and really, unless you can see through than just blind love, its almost impossible to realise if she is only being herself or is there truely something more to it. I can't teach you to look beyond blind love because it can't be taught, but eventually you will understand how does this game of love works.
I have two suggested advice:
I) You feel that you could no longer store your feelings in your junkroom of emotions. It is bursting as if someone on the other side is ramming against it. If you want to tell, you have to date her out somewhere real good and probably express it out.
- Before you decide to tell her, please do not attempt avoidance or weirdo+ness tactics aftermath. To express is simply to tell, there shouldn't be any condition attached to it. If you can't accept this: avoid expressing, yet.
- To express is simply to tell (x2 stress); therefore be calm, stable and speak as if you both were 'sisters' - anything under the sun could be exchange in verbal form. Laugh, smile and accept if things doesn't go your way. I know it could be disappointing if she doesn't accept your proposal, but on the other hand, isn't revealing how you feel a great relieve off your chest and that is the
objective of your move?
II) Keep mum. Until the day when she tells you she likes you, before you reveal that. (This is great risk).
Astro mode: If her astrological signs falls under Leo, Sagi, Aries, Gemini, Libra or Aquarius - you can consider (I). If other signs - can consider (II).
P.S: At the end of the day: Listen to yourself.
Cheers