would you risk...
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losing a friendship and tell him/her that you have feelings for him/her, assuming that you have no idea how he/she feels about you?
i feel that the friendship might be lost because he/she might want to avoid you to prevent any further mis-understandings but on the other hand, the agony of not expressing your feelings weighs on you every single day... -
Im in the same situation as u .. but my crush i my friends gf.. but im contend to see her smile everyday
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true enuff....Originally posted by |0v3StUck:Im in the same situation as u .. but my crush i my friends gf.. but im contend to see her smile everyday Loving someone does not mean posessing him/her
but it all depends on urself...do u wan to try n sacrifice the frenship...
i'd experienced couple of similar situations...some turned out well some nt...
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ask urself wat r ur chances? otherwise wait n carry on wooing...Originally posted by simulacrum:losing a friendship and tell him/her that you have feelings for him/her, assuming that you have no idea how he/she feels about you?
i feel that the friendship might be lost because he/she might want to avoid you to prevent any further mis-understandings but on the other hand, the agony of not expressing your feelings weighs on you every single day... -
Hmm... Expressing yourself... Always a question? Should you or should you not? Always a gamble... Like people always say... Nothing ventured, nothing gained... Though it'll definitely lift your chance of 'winning' (she accepting you) if you have a certain sense of knowledge that she could be interested in you also? It's all a matter of your judgement, no definite answer till her reply comes....Originally posted by simulacrum:losing a friendship and tell him/her that you have feelings for him/her, assuming that you have no idea how he/she feels about you?
i feel that the friendship might be lost because he/she might want to avoid you to prevent any further mis-understandings but on the other hand, the agony of not expressing your feelings weighs on you every single day...
And also, understand that ACCEPTANCE is only a BEGINNING to a relationship... It certainly doesn't necessarily mean that you're both well-suited for each other and would live happily ever after....? -
life is a gamble ... and you only live once ... don't live to regret ... unless you are so old that you can't afford to lose, then don't take any risks, else you should ...
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make sure u know hw she is feelin b4 u make known for ur love for her lor. if not sacrifice a frenship, i dun tink its worth it.
like sm1 said, loving sm 1 does not need to possess her which i find it quite true. juz a simple smile from her to u can brighten up ur day.. y not keep it dat way.. rather den expressing liao den she kinda avoid u..