Have you been scolded for buying present?
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Okie my crush birthday is coming so i went to buy a watch for her , i went by this shop where this cute watch is sold so i bought it and it cost only 8$ , after my mom saw it she scolded me saying im only a secondary school student who shouldnt spend so much money on gifts.. did i do anything wrong? i mean its the money which i saved , i dont see why i should get scolded.
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it happens all the time
it's due to a underlying thinking that u shld save up no matter what
in my opinion,she is or will appreciate it just that the thinking mentioned abv 'overrides' her appreciation.
dun worry, it's not the usual scolding. i have been scolded for something related but not the same matter though -
part of growing up process. hmm....hang in there but dun start an arguement just because of that.
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hmm... explain to ur mum?
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$8 for a watch quite okay what?Originally posted by |0v3StUck:Okie my crush birthday is coming so i went to buy a watch for her , i went by this shop where this cute watch is sold so i bought it and it cost only 8$ , after my mom saw it she scolded me saying im only a secondary school student who shouldnt spend so much money on gifts.. did i do anything wrong? i mean its the money which i saved , i dont see why i should get scolded.
Maybe you tell your mum, next time when you grow up and start working and when you receive your salary, you will buy her a $80 watch.
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Your mother jealous la!!
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cos the first time he save up a present he bought something for others but not her?? hahahaha, if that's the case, cham liao lah~~Originally posted by torx:Your mother jealous la!! -
Originally posted by Estee:cos the first time he save up a present he bought something for others but not her?? hahahaha, if that's the case, cham liao lah~~ "
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I've nv been scolded 4 buyin presents lah... But in regards 2 ur case, tink ur mum scold u oso coz of ur own gd mah. She scared u anyhow spend money... Juz explain 2 her properly loh. Everythin wil b fine lah.
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maybe the superstition about not giving clocks for birthdays extends to watches as well?
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unless u nv ever buy any gifts for ur mum and now u buy for friend. parents at times tend to compare they way u treat them and the way u treat friends....once they realise u treat ur friends better..they complain?
so u can buy a 80 bucks watch for her and maybe she will stop complaining?
not saying ur mum is petty. just tt u need to know who to treat better. she's ur mum and she deserves ur good treatment.
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isit??Originally posted by AzRaeL:maybe the superstition about not giving clocks for birthdays extends to watches as well?
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ya lor.. mayb u should gif it to ur mum and den buy another 1 for ur crush. if u do that, most likely she wun scold u anymore