help!
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i love my gf very much
she feeling that she has not ding xin mode yet.
she say i m too playful and not too serious.
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what's "deng xin"?
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she's feeling insecure..?
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deng means stablizeOriginally posted by the Bear:what's "deng xin"?
xin is heart -
Deng xin?
What's tt? -
make her feel you are the only oneOriginally posted by Patrik:Deng xin?
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or u mean zhim xin..?Originally posted by antoh:deng means stablize
xin is heart -
DING!!!! not deng...Originally posted by antoh:deng means stablize
xin is heart
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watever
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Originally posted by antoh:i love my gf very much
she feeling that she has not deng xin.
she say i m too playful and not too serious.
what does it means
He meant Ding(4) xin(1).
What does it means? She is not receiving enough security from you to consider safe level? Your way of character leave much questioning about whether she can trust you personally. The reasurance is not enough as well. She could also suggest character clashes - she being serious and you not so.
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can mean she wans u to show more commitment towards ur future...Originally posted by antoh:i love my gf very much
she feeling that she has not deng xin.
she say i m too playful and not too serious.
what does it means -
PERSONALLY. I think she could be an unstable factor?
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well, dats wad i tink oso.. the prob mayb not with u.. mayb ur gf ? perhaps haf a gd talk and ask her wad does she mean dat u r not "ding xing" den ask her wad is her meaning of ding xing.. and see wad u can do abt it..Originally posted by Devil1976:PERSONALLY. I think she could be an unstable factor?
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whenever your gf says you are childish, playful, not serious, joker... there must be something wrong, better have a nice talk with her. My first gf last time suddenly said i was childish on the phone, not just a remark, but in quite a serious tone. I can't be bothered with her then, after a few days, she initiated broke up... weeks later then i realise she fallen for another guy.. because he was more serious with her, more secure.. geez.. who aren't serious when they just started chasing someone?
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Smile less = More serious?
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Haha.. perhaps being serious at the right time. Know when to joke and when not to.. hee..Originally posted by Parka: Smile less = More serious? -
how do you define by times to be serious>
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I'm don't mean you got to be serious all the time. Definitely alittle humour and playful at times will really spice up the relationship. Be serious FIRST when it needs to be, then when the matter lighten up, joking about it is fine.
When talking about big matters, be serious first. When she's feeling really down or when she lost something that really meant very important to her? Be serious first. When she's jealous, angry, sad, worried, be serious first. Sometimes we just tend to take things lightly because both of us are together for so long. I experience gers that suddenly ask you a question and you thought its just another casual talk of hers? You reply her in a joking manner. What is bad when it turned out to be some kinda test/decision of hers and she's really upset by how lightly you take her and her question. She may feel insecure and may find another person who treats her seriously. Sometime girls are just so hard to understand.
I remembered once when i got angry with my gf for not seeing that i'm unhappy about something. Instead, she scolded me because she don't know whether i'm serious or i'm joking.