Originally posted by tibirg:
im ignorin his calls n smses at e moment....
So you are the gf, not the guy. I thought it was the other-way round.

Think about this, are you feeling jealous or feeling threatened? When you feel jealous, its kinda normal. (That day of every month, personality, planets transition, etc) because woman generally have jealousy inflicted into their blood. However, when you feel threatened, the position of the relationship is unsecure, because 20% of your mind is drifting towards negative thoughts. (Then again, probably both)

Then again, we have to look at the whole picture - the point where all woman dreaded and hated - reasonable?
Is there an obvious clue that shows he's having ulterior motive behind that simple 'Wow, getting prettier' thingy? His behavior to the relationship and you?

If the one avoiding is you - you could be damaging the relationship and leave him wondering why. This adds tension and pressure to your love, when in the first place, it wouldn't have happen at all.
P.S: Everyone needs that bit of reassuring every now and then. Don't avoid - Find him, get a good hug. It will do you more good. If his usual emotional pilliar has gone unstable, who do you think would benefit? You want potential 3rd party to gain from your action? Hell no?
Cheers