sex before or after marriage?

• swenn

  20 Jan 04, 01:24

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  
• DeadPoet

  20 Jan 04, 01:29

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  You can ask him to go to hell!
  I don't think he is serious. Maybe watch too many XXX VCD liao.
  
• Fa||en~Ange|

  20 Jan 04, 08:13

  giving a deadline and telling the gal to prepare or else break up?! IMHO, the gal should tell the guy to FIND A SPIDER instead..
• Yunhaier

  20 Jan 04, 13:38

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  1st truth:
  
  Sex that happens between partner isn't planned like giving a dealine. Its happens naturally and both IS A WILLING PARTY WITHOUT ANY RESTRICTION. With mental/emotional restriction, they ain't ready.
  
  Asking if guy is still serious? If this guy is evolved and is able to differentiate lust from love, he will have his answer. For this, nobody could differentiate for him.
  
  Cheers
• shan_cai

  20 Jan 04, 14:00

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:
  
  
  [b]1st truth:
  
  Sex that happens between partner isn't planned like giving a dealine. Its happens naturally and both IS A WILLING PARTY WITHOUT ANY RESTRICTION. With mental/emotional restriction, they ain't ready.
  
  Asking if guy is still serious? If this guy is evolved and is able to differentiate lust from love, he will have his answer. For this, nobody could differentiate for him.
  
  Cheers[/b]

  Agree wif u, Yun!
• Inzaghi

  20 Jan 04, 14:02

  crazy..where got this kinda deadline one??...
  
  the only deadline i know is one party wans the other party to commit
• boy in blues

  20 Jan 04, 15:47

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  dump the bum now. it's pointless to continue any relationship with this loser.
• BrUtUs

  21 Jan 04, 00:33

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  give him the boot... he probably wants u for sex...
• springtime

  21 Jan 04, 11:01

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  guess it all brawls down to what sex really means to you and how important it is for the both of you to have or not have it. after all if you really love someone you would wanna wait for her or him to give themselves to you and not the other way round. There shouldn't be a deadline for it ... that's utter crap.
• dumbdumb!

  21 Jan 04, 11:46

  i think there are more topics like this in sgforums than i have fingers and toes
• The Immortal

  20 Apr 04, 03:25

  Originally posted by Inzaghi:

  crazy..where got this kinda deadline one??...
  
  the only deadline i know is one party wans the other party to commit

  x2.
• jusgal

  20 Apr 04, 10:11

  for me...i always hope that i can find a bf that can be serious. like my ex....he just think that sex before marriage is so common and everyones is doing that....
  
  seems like most guys wanna do it b4 marriage and their sense towards the word " responsibilities" is no longer there. just " i no longer love u " and leave as per nothing happen. Worse for those who did this to u and wanna u to take it easy or remains as friends.
  
  Cruel....
• foga

  20 Apr 04, 10:21

  that's why it's term as sex.
  when u have sex without loving that person, that's pure lust.
  
  usually guys are more horny when they are still growing up lor.
  
  i believe making love with the person you love prior to marriage isn't that much a taboo these days. but it should should come naturally. coaxing isn't really gonna work.n even if it did work, likely that she's not gonna enjoy it.
  
  

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

• beagle

  20 Apr 04, 12:14

  wow. deadline.
• WrX_STi

  20 Apr 04, 13:37

  wah sex oso got timing wan ah.. its up to 2 party i belief. see how both think..
• Wind

  20 Apr 04, 14:29

  Originally posted by swenn:

  Hi
  
  If your gf prefer to have sex before marriage while u cannot, but will you give in to her or break up with her?
  will you try to coax her time after time with examples like it very common , his friends all got, he is a more horny guy than average?
  
  are the guy still serious with her if he wanna do sex after a few months or 1 year of relationship?
  
  what do you think of this guy who give a deadline and tell his gf to decide and prepare herself ? If at the end she still reject they had to break up .
  so . Is this guy still serious?
  
  

  After so many replies, think you should have got your answer?
  
  Cast your emotions aside, think logically. Who on earth would resort to threatening in a relationship?
  
  This kind of thing, if it happens, it happens. If either party is not willing, then the word respect comes in.
  
  If your boyfriend doesn't even understand the fundamentals of being in a relationship, I think he jolly well can go fly kite.
  
  Yes, true. Everyone out there in the society is enjoying sex before marriage. So? Must we or you be like one of them?
  
  Whatever is wrong, is wrong no matter how many people are doing it. Whatever is right, is right, even if you are the only one doing it.
• DevilAngel77

  20 Apr 04, 15:13

  basically, the guy want sex. not a relationship.
  cos without sex, he forgo the relationship..
  with relationship, he want sex..
  
  summary: he want sex. regardless whether is in a relationship or not..
• 2 hearts

  20 Apr 04, 23:26

  sex is an ultimate expression of luv. it should be luv first then sex. I never believe in sex first then luv
  
  it shd be pleasurable and consentable by both parties. When 1 party felt compel to give in to sex to keep the relationship, this relationship becomes lopsided and i dun think it is luv anymore, it is selfishness where 1 party simply wants to satisfy his lust
• air_pork

  21 Apr 04, 00:55

  It's all about religion,self believe,self control and self discipline. i shld say there is no right or wrong,It's 2004 liao..so wat's wrong have sex before marriage and wat's wrong holding it off after marriage?..wat's wrong being a virgin at 20 or 25?...NOTHING wrong at all..
  
  Have sex at the rite time wif the rite person wif the rite mood.It's all about love,mood,emotions other than physical.Get real ppl.Enjoy sex.It's not DiRTY but BEA-UUUtiful!!!!!
• Princesscutie

  21 Apr 04, 00:58

  DUMP that bastard if he insist.
  
  no sex before marriage for me
• roverman

  21 Apr 04, 13:28

  Originally posted by DevilAngel77:

  basically, the guy want sex. not a relationship.
  cos without sex, he forgo the relationship..
  with relationship, he want sex..
  
  summary: he want sex. regardless whether is in a relationship or not..

  U R right and to simplify it. he is sex maniac.
• roverman

  21 Apr 04, 13:29

  Originally posted by DevilAngel77:

  basically, the guy want sex. not a relationship.
  cos without sex, he forgo the relationship..
  with relationship, he want sex..
  
  summary: he want sex. regardless whether is in a relationship or not..

  U R right and to simplify it. he is sex maniac in disguise
• shifeng

  21 Apr 04, 13:36

  this kind of thing comes out naturally by both parties... shdnt have any doubtful feelings... and love is not = only sex
  
  mayb alot of ppl juz lust for it only... small proportion of it goes for truely feelings..
  
  look at #teens on galaxynet, and u will know wat i mean...
• ron33

  21 Apr 04, 14:44

  i alwasy thought that i belong to those sex after marriage.. but i was wrongly thimgs changes .. earth is spinning... u just have to follow ur heart,,, think logically with ur mind... if both agress then u agree if 1 yes 1 no then take some time to consider... life is though short u must cherish waht u have,,,
• TLK

  21 Apr 04, 15:16

  When a guy blackmails his girlfriend for sex, just dump him. He's not worth it. I do not think he's serious about the relationship too! In fact, guys who blackmails sex out from their girlfriends (the common if-you-love-me-then-let's-do-it) are just out for sex, not love. If you give in, sooner or later you will get the boot from him because he's got what he had wanted and you are no more use to him.