Girls crying..
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wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do??
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eh when my guy friends see my cry the offer me tissues then if it get worst they ask me to lie on their shoulders to cry till i song lor..Originally posted by torx:wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do??
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Pat her shoulder, stroke her hair and give her a brother hug...........Originally posted by torx:wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do?? -
Originally posted by bjork:eh when my guy friends see my cry the offer me tissues then if it get worst they ask me to lie on their shoulders to cry till i song lor..
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cry with them?
Feel their pain? -
oh...thats misleadingOriginally posted by FreeToFly:Pat her shoulder, stroke her hair and give her a brother hug........... -
stroking of hair ermmmmmmmmmmmmmm cannot la!!Originally posted by FreeToFly:Pat her shoulder, stroke her hair and give her a brother hug........... -
Sorry forget to add the things I will say "Dun cry, dun cry, come give me a hug"...........Originally posted by bjork:stroking of hair ermmmmmmmmmmmmmm cannot la!!
Closed Female Friends mah........why not? Aiya, if so closed liao, she will know I don't have other meaning.....
Human like to get hugged........... -
Originally posted by torx:wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do?? Used to have such scenario happening very often last time. Normally they cry in my shoulder and I pat their head. I suggest sayang-ing Hands, Arms, Shoulder, Neck or Head, whenever neccessary, if you ain't comfortable with hugs. (To me its ok lar, but provided if she feels the need to).
Actually, words are more important. Saying the right thing during these situation can mean much more. Physical 'sayang' is to calm them; good words will stablize the mind.
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Aunty Yun is always dishing out good advices...
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comfort her lor...Originally posted by torx:wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do?? -
i just sit there wait.
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Just sit in front of her and wait until she tell me what happen. Cannot anyhow touch touch lah, wait get out of hand how.
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So I am a cook.Originally posted by s|nNeD:Aunty Yun is always dishing out good advices...
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same.. its onli dat u hug her to comfort her.. nothing misleading if u alreadi haf a gf..Originally posted by FreeToFly:Pat her shoulder, stroke her hair and give her a brother hug........... -
what words should be said then.........Originally posted by Yunhaier: Used to have such scenario happening very often last time. Normally they cry in my shoulder and I pat their head. I suggest sayang-ing Hands, Arms, Shoulder, Neck or Head, whenever neccessary, if you ain't comfortable with hugs. (To me its ok lar, but provided if she feels the need to).
Actually, words are more important. Saying the right thing during these situation can mean much more. Physical 'sayang' is to calm them; good words will stablize the mind.
Cheers -
Originally posted by Cerebral_Assassin:what words should be said then......... Depends on situation lar. No magic words that could be used at all times in such situations - I only know when I am in that situation, the instinct just kick in and everything flows.
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try to console her lor,what else can u do?Originally posted by torx:wad do you do when you see a close female friend of yours crying..? i hate this kind of scenario.. i always get "stuck".. kinda like i don't know what to say. i can't hug her like my gf.. nor could i not bother about her... so wad shld i do??
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Then what is a gal to do when the guy friend breaks down?
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guys usually dont cry in public 1.. girls dunnit worry too much la.. but if i cry in public.. i rather every1 else keep quiet dun ask n say too much.
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guys often cry alone, or juz on fone with another female and dat female is a very gd fren to the male.
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Do the comforting stuff like patting and arms round etc etc blah blah blah. Then get seriously to the root of the problem and the overcoming of it.
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ya .. dats true..
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do it like the always do on TCS drama serials