Uncompatible Love
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If you really love a person...
does educational background, status or whatsoever matters in your relationship...?
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i find it a lame excuse.. drop him and find another better guy. my cousin is NTU grad, but the bf is juz a itc grad.. how?Originally posted by christine79:i dun blame him its not really a lame excuse singapore is a very practical society education counts alot he wan to find someone of his same level. Im very sad n misery over this wan to say out my problem if not im gg to break down any time.
i tink more jialat den ur case rite.. the guy doing more worse den the ger.. -
i think u deserve someone better than a person whos so atas he thinks hes up there.
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read your own post..
does he really love you?
harsh, but you'll get over it... everyone does
be well yah?Originally posted by christine79:Hi
i love a guy very much n he loves me too but he say we r uncompatible due to our education. He is pursing his master nw in IT while i juz started my diploma in accounts. He wan a break up im very sad n misery wan to end my life cos i love him very much.
christine
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Love is not about seeing who is more inferior in studies/ work - Tell him that....Originally posted by christine79:Hi
i love a guy very much n he loves me too but he say we r uncompatible due to our education. He is pursing his master nw in IT while i juz started my diploma in accounts. He wan a break up im very sad n misery wan to end my life cos i love him very much.
christine 
I do not think the reason for the break up could be due to the education only. U have to sit down and chat with him, if u have done it... and its no use crying again. U have to move on with ur life. 
Always stay smiling, coz u might juz happen to find a betta guy one day who will love u. -
I dont think he really loves you as much as he claims to be... else he will nv break due to education standard... he loves his 'face' more than you... what's so great abt a master???
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Press on!
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seek for the true reason..
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You'll see...?Originally posted by christine79:thks all for consoling me let me speak out my misery i hope i can pull through this ordeal n be a stronger person
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Dun be silly. If he truly loves you, he won't give such a lame excuse..incompatible qualifications? So what if he is better qualified but dunno what is 'to love you for what you are'? Got brains but dunno how to love!
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i totally AGREE...Originally posted by browniebaobao:Dun be silly. If he truly loves you, he won't give such a lame excuse..incompatible qualifications? So what if he is better qualified but dunno what is 'to love you for what you are'? Got brains but dunno how to love! -
kind of sad to see such post on the start of a new year.
What kind of excuse is this....
Now as if you can only reach the diploma level ONLY!
he also come from primary education all the way to where he is what.... he born with a master cert meh? he took his degree in the womb ar? -
Forget about that creep. Come on out and make new friends! Its a new year, start a better beginning!
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Know that maybe you just want someone to listen to you now... Hope after typing out the above, you might feel better. -
Thought it's always the person and not the education that matters in love? How can a paper qualification determine one's heart? Thought that it's pretty lame an excuse too.
If qualification really mean that much and he really meant that much to you, why not consider an "upgrade" like doing a degree now? I think it will also be a personal achievement to obtain a degree too anyway.
I won't say if he is worth it or not, coz that's your own decision and I'm a wreck at deciding such things for myself too... hehehe.... There must be certain reasons why you think he is best for you and why you had choosen him in the first place. Therefore thou shan't comment on that.
Good luck!!
PS: Life is too precious to wanna end it just like that. Think of your love ones and people who do love you very much. Do you bear to put them through the same pain of losing a love one ?? -
well, i guess the guy's blinded by external factors such as social pressures that cause him to react in such a manner... he's love for u is certainly not that deep. But do let him noe how u feel and what u want, ur internal needs must not be neglected.
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he's damn stupid... of all things, he use educational level, it's an excuse... me n my gf has tons of difference but still going on... almost everything different eg education, temper, hobbies, thinking, food, working industry
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true love would surpass all other faults and mismatches.
since he decided to break up, its better if you get over him, as to put it bluntly, i don't think he loves you anymore.
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Tatz not a reason 2 break off loh... If he truly loves u he wont mind so much, esp itz onli educational wise. True love fear no boundaries... Since he initiated e breakup, den no pt clingin on 2 dis relationship... Even if he doesnt leave u, his heart wont b 100% wif u liao, coz he keep havin dis "uncompatible" mindset...Originally posted by christine79:Hi
i love a guy very much n he loves me too but he say we r uncompatible due to our education. He is pursing his master nw in IT while i juz started my diploma in accounts. He wan a break up im very sad n misery wan to end my life cos i love him very much.
christine
Dun do any foolish thing... Time wil heal ur wounds. I believe u wil find a better guy more worthy of ur love. Live on k? -
ya, without ur partner ard, the world like collapse liao... maybe mine going to collapse soon also...
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I hope that you will move on in life... though I understand its not easy and you might still feel sad...
You can try to get some hobbies or concentrate on certain things...
Also get to know more new friends? There will be better guys out there...
Take care....