lost in life..feeling depress..

• He77AnGeL

  22 Jan 04, 01:10

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?
• DeadPoet

  22 Jan 04, 01:39

  Well you can always start from here.
• ditzy

  22 Jan 04, 01:42

  Its not that bad really, theres always a period of time in our lives that we feel real down, but it gets over eventually. Just takes time.
• BrUtUs

  22 Jan 04, 01:45

  chill, u'll get over it... it jz takes time... join more outings lor...
• Yunhaier

  22 Jan 04, 03:47

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?

  Who knows everyone before outing?
  
  We all have our first time? So the question is are you willing to step into that first time?
  
  P.S: Are you a Taurus, Leo, Aquarius or Scorpio?
  
  Cheers
• WrX_STi

  22 Jan 04, 08:40

  everyone bound to haf its lowest in their live.. for mi is when my gf broke up with me and winthin weeks my grandpa pass away..
  
  dats was lowest... wad i did was going out with some gd frens who u can pour out ur sorrows.. and haf a gd drink.. mayb go clubs..
  
  dis will temporary help but at least will put some sastifaction in it..
  
  lastly, like everyone say.. onli time will heal.
  
  to get to noe more frens.. can start from here.. or u can alwiz ask ur frens to intro some frens to u.. cheers..
• Fa||en~Ange|

  22 Jan 04, 08:57

  Originally posted by WrX_STi:

  everyone bound to haf its lowest in their live.. for mi is when my gf broke up with me and winthin weeks my grandpa pass away..
  
  dats was lowest... wad i did was going out with some gd frens who u can pour out ur sorrows.. and haf a gd drink.. mayb go clubs..
  dis will temporary help but at least will put some sastifaction in it..
  
  lastly, like everyone say.. onli time will heal.
  
  to get to noe more frens.. can start from here.. or u can alwiz ask ur frens to intro some frens to u.. cheers..

  yeah.. that's wat i've been doing for the past few months...
• wuming78

  22 Jan 04, 10:39

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?

  there r many many avenues for making frens, but in the end, all of them require something - ur initiative. there is no way (at least normally) tt ppl r gonna start coming to u on their own to make frens, unless u r real rich or a big celeb.
  
  in any case, mabbe u wanna ask urself - would u like to cultivate a small circle of close frens, or haf a large one of loose frens. since u mentioned ur circle of frens is small and u r shy, i tend to think the former is more suitable for u.
  
  but if u realli wan to make more frens first, o cos u mus make the first move. dun use anything as an excuse for inaction. if u dun overcome it nothing wil change.
• the Bear

  22 Jan 04, 10:50

  the nameless one is right.. take responsibility for and of your own life
  
  and as aforementioned, you're in this forum, do take advantage of the many outings that are open to all, especially the Sentosa excursions
  
  shyness? overcome it!
  
  they're friendly people, no one is going to bite unless you bite first and chew on them...
  
  click here => The Great 31st Jan 2004 Outing
  
  go to Sentosa, make friends!
  
  who knows? may be the start of an additional chapter in your life!
• WrX_STi

  22 Jan 04, 19:16

  ohh.. .sianz lei.. new birdy going alone sure ulu.. Lolz
• WrX_STi

  22 Jan 04, 19:17

  Originally posted by Fa||en~Ange|:

  yeah.. that's wat i've been doing for the past few months...

  haha.. same lei.. still going there.. but now ok liao la.. juz some chat with frens lor..
  
  catch mi at broadwalk.. Lolz.
• the Bear

  22 Jan 04, 19:18

  nope.. last sentosa outing, bunch of new faces.. never see before one..
  
  and still had a good time was had by all
  
  

  Originally posted by WrX_STi:

  ohh.. .sianz lei.. new birdy going alone sure ulu.. Lolz

• Devil1976

  22 Jan 04, 20:52

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?

  Well... You still have to make a start? Unless you're contented with your life... If you're not? Do something to CHANGE it?
• Ayu {O_o}

  22 Jan 04, 21:00

  It either you break out or break lose....Simple, make your choice.
• True_Xerion

  23 Jan 04, 01:20

  talking it out wif new ppl helps IMO, they offer fresh perspectives and sometimes offer u a solution/opinion that actually might be bold enought to lift u outta the ruts we all encounter in life ....
  
  cheer up k?
• True_Xerion

  23 Jan 04, 01:22

  talking it out wif new ppl helps IMO, they offer fresh perspectives and sometimes offer u a solution/opinion that actually might be bold enought to lift u outta the ruts we all encounter in life ....
  
  cheer up k?
• Fa||en~Ange|

  23 Jan 04, 05:56

  Originally posted by WrX_STi:

  haha.. same lei.. still going there.. but now ok liao la.. juz some chat with frens lor..
  
  catch mi at broadwalk.. Lolz.

  i seem oki liaoz.. but actualli.. still not oki.. i normalli go to devilsbar.. in fact, will be going there tonite...
• xavier1979

  23 Jan 04, 10:53

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?

  Everyone here started out as strangers. But we had all put aside our worries and came out together to have some fun in the sun.
  
  If you dun mind, feel free to join the outing owls for gatherings. Know the fun-loving people in sgForums.
• 'm back

  23 Jan 04, 11:02

  yeh, u can start from here.
  
  but little or no frens not important 2 mi, i got so many things 2 do
  no time and bother for all these!
  
  HCNY
• He77AnGeL

  23 Jan 04, 12:07

  Originally posted by Yunhaier:

  Who knows everyone before outing?
  
  We all have our first time? So the question is are you willing to step into that first time?
  
  P.S: Are you a Taurus, Leo, Aquarius or Scorpio?
  
  Cheers

  No leh mi aries..i used to b very active wan mayb attached too long..circle of frens bcome smaller le..
• He77AnGeL

  23 Jan 04, 12:14

  thanx for all replying..i will try to go some outing.. cheers...
• wuming78

  23 Jan 04, 14:16

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  thanx for all replying..i will try to go some outing.. cheers...

  all the best, and haf fun!
• Cerebral_Assassin

  23 Jan 04, 16:02

  Originally posted by He77AnGeL:

  i m so sick of my life, feeling damn depress. love and family problem..i find tat my circle of frens r smaller. wat can i do? ihow can i make more frens? i m kinda shy type of person if i dun noe them well. if go outing oso v paiseh cos didnt noe anyone. wat can i do? any suggestions?

  time to get yourself a stead, go dating, join SDU if u still single.
  if u dun feel so, then just make friends or go to something u really want to do in your life, even if it is something unrealistic or "how siao" to other normal ppl. be adventurous. think out of the box. do something u never tried b4 and experience life, be it as simple as watching a movie alone or go clubbing/drinking alone. pick up an interest, yoga, kickboxing, which r the in thing for girls now bah
• men_@_arms

  23 Jan 04, 16:24

  Well I know how you feel, but I have overcomed it by a will of sheer determination and superiority. So what if you have a small circle of friends? U still have friends at the very least, it does not matter if you don't know people you go out with, get to know them.
  
  For the WEAK (most people in Singapore), are those who think they need to have a group to feel comfortable, they are slaves to other people and those people slaves to them... like crocodiles and those birds that clean their teeth... or something like that anyway. The point is, the STRONG (me and few others) don't need other people with them to feel good about themselves. Be strong and crush those beneath you when the time comes and if you want to.
  
  So don't get all depressed because you have few friends. Take steps.
  
  As for your other problems, i can offer no other advice.
• WrX_STi

  23 Jan 04, 17:06

  Originally posted by Fa||en~Ange|:

  i seem oki liaoz.. but actualli.. still not oki.. i normalli go to devilsbar.. in fact, will be going there tonite...

  certasin time u tot u are ok, but out of nowhere u bound to lai ang.. i dun understand why... its still the same for me..
  
  my fren whose r/s oso end at ard the same time as mi oso feeling the same thingy.. i guess we are not alright yet.