What age do you intend to get married at?
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For me, i hope to get married at 25, when im financially stable and have at least 3 out of the 5C.
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i'm going to get engaged at 25 and then at 27 to get married.. have kids at 30
by 25, all 5cs should appear 
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magically...
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Realistic target... my long term goals are somehow the same, getting married around 25, have my first kid at 30... hopefully, i will have at least 3 out of the 5C by then...Originally posted by torx:For me, i hope to get married at 25, when im financially stable and have at least 3 out of the 5C.
Happy New Year all~!!!!
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hate to burst bubbles tho I totally agree to the fact tat one must always have dreams.......
dreams and reality can be very different thing.... just speaking frm experience.... hahahaha....
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Originally posted by torx:For me, i hope to get married at 25, when im financially stable and have at least 3 out of the 5C.Originally posted by shawnsh:Realistic target... my long term goals are somehow the same, getting married around 25, have my first kid at 30... hopefully, i will have at least 3 out of the 5C by then...
Happy New Year all~!!!! 
wow. 25? how come u all r so sure u all will be financially stable and haf at least 3 of the 5Cs by 25 (im not disputing ur assumption tt u need 3 out of 5C in order to get married altho the assumption is questionable)
im entering 26 this yr, and i dont feel in any way financially stable or ready to get married.
isit jus me? -
hm...if possible i will get married at 25,provided my career must be stable also...
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argh!!!!!!Originally posted by Danisdead101times:hm...if possible i will get married at 25,provided my career must be stable also... -
I think the question one must ask is how old are the guys at the moment for those who've posted to be financially stable and get married at 25.
For girls, it is a different matter though.
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yeah.Originally posted by Werewolf:I think the question one must ask is how old are the guys at the moment for those who've posted to be financially stable and get married at 25.
For girls, it is a different matter though.
torx, shawnsh and dan, how old r all of u? and r u working (i noe dan is) now, or still studying, and if u r studying when do u plan to start work?
pardon my curiousity. im jus wondering if i need to relook my financial plans. -
heh... wuming... dun worry... you're not the only one...Originally posted by wuming78: wow. 25? how come u all r so sure u all will be financially stable and haf at least 3 of the 5Cs by 25 (im not disputing ur assumption tt u need 3 out of 5C in order to get married altho the assumption is questionable)
im entering 26 this yr, and i dont feel in any way financially stable or ready to get married.
isit jus me?
I agree with tare... dreams and reality are two very different things.....most gals are not even prepared to be married at 25 and they still want to have fun... much less the guys... and being financially stable these days is an entirely different thing from years ago... it meant more than having a $30k salary a year....
in any case.., the guy frens i know... most aren't prepared to make that kind of committment even when they're reaching 30s.
For me, i don't believe in setting a deadline like by what age i want to get married. I think it's a matter of feeling right with your beau, about yourself, your career and future etc....if it feels right.... then mebbe its time..... -
Not just you lah, I going to 28 this year but I dont think I'm mentally and financially prepare to get married too.Originally posted by wuming78:im entering 26 this yr, and i dont feel in any way financially stable or ready to get married.
isit jus me?
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Why this magic age @25?
And when you said get marry at 25 you mean ROM or the wedding itself?
I have many friends that ROM young but have the wedding only a few years later. -
I have frens who ROM at 25-26 only to annull the marriage after that....Originally posted by DeadPoet:Why this magic age @25?
And when you said get marry at 25 you mean ROM or the wedding itself?
I have many friends that ROM young but have the wedding only a few years later.
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dunno. maybe be a monk
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Originally posted by torx:For me, i hope to get married at 25, when im financially stable and have at least 3 out of the 5C. hope to marry between 30 to 35. but our financial stability is a prerequisite. or else drag on. don't drag others. so much for the singapore dream.
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i'm already married...
to my camera! and oh.. i'm changing wives soon too. -
hope arnd 28+
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i'm well on target. i hope.
to marrying after 30... or maybe not at all. -
no need mah. shudnt ur wife be able to give birth to some new ones for u?Originally posted by jOhO:i'm already married...
to my camera! and oh.. i'm changing wives soon too. -
I must say, to be financially stable at 25 yrs old is quite a pretty target, but definitely hard to achieve for most people in Singapore.
I'm 24 this yr and I dun even consider myself to be financially stable yet. If fated, perhaps the earliest I'd consider marriage is 28. -
yeah.. actualli the "perfect age" will be late 20s - 28, 29. jus a gut feel. this would mean having worked a few yrs, and, if lucky, having walked wif the gal for a few yrs too.
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age is not an issue... as long as i m financially stable and my other half is willing...
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was married at 26yrs... has worked a few years...got car 2nd hand one then, new HDB flat, cash just sufficient not much extra, got credit card, no condo, no country club....so is that passable?
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it depends, as sinned says, on both parties lor. if both are comfortable and confident, who cares abt Cs?Originally posted by cagelee131:was married at 26yrs... has worked a few years...got car 2nd hand one then, new HDB flat, cash just sufficient not much extra, got credit card, no condo, no country club....so is that passable?