Cant take the pressure...
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Ive been with my gf coming to 5 months now.. I know it seems very short, but i tell you our relationship seems to be like it has been for 5 years....
Ive been through all sorts of typical relationship problems with her, no doubt about that. But when it comes to her health, i will be so confused and dont know what to do.
She has this ongoing health problems that sometimes require a lot of check ups at the hospital. Juz yesterday, she have to go for an urgent check up to xray her body and head. I freaked out when i receive her sms of what she was about to go through. I know its juz an xray, but xray of the head deffinitely doesnt signal somethign good. I am worried for her, worried like ive never been worried b4...
I dont know what to do, im juz too worried that this might lead to an operation, which is very dangerous as its go to do with the brain. I dont want to lose her... I juz popped 10 tablets of panadol extra within 24 hrs.... i dont know why i did that.... but i juz cant take the pressure of worry....
Its making me want to end my life now...cant take it....
Please someone tell me what to do....i feel like popping in more pills....im too worried.... -
first question... how old are you?
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Dude, just try to relax.
Popping panadols like Mentos ain't gonna stop any problem, it will only make you sick.
What will come will come. Just be strong to face it all. -
Do you realize that your girlfriend may be taking this quite calmly while you are worried sick?
Relate your fears to her. Tell her how worried you are about her. It's more comforting to have each other's support and encouragement.
Do not worry so much. Everything will have a brighter side. Take care. -
talk it out.. why not u go to the hosp with her and noe wads going on...
a simple xray may not mean anything mahz... standard checkup consist of x ray too.. -
Hey hey oh gosh.
Don't stay at home too much or keep everything to yourself now... We're here to help you ok?
Pls dun think of ending your life. If your girlfriend is really sick *touchwood*, she will need you by her side... If not for yourself, continue living for her... -
MooKu is right, at this stage she really need you to be with her. If anythings happen to you, she will be very sad.Originally posted by MooKu:Hey hey oh gosh.
Don't stay at home too much or keep everything to yourself now... We're here to help you ok?
Pls dun think of ending your life. If your girlfriend is really sick *touchwood*, she will need you by her side... If not for yourself, continue living for her...
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time to steel yourself..
FORCE yourself to be strong..
at a time like this, your girl cannot be made to bear the burden of your silly actions...
this is a time for you to carry hers.. to help her through this hard time.. not for you to add to the mess...
everyone has it in them to be strong.. all it takes is WILL...
and if your love for her does not give you that will, time to re-evaluate how much she means to you... willing to die because of her but not strong enough to live for her?
the world does not need this... neither does she... the pressure TAKE IT!!
sounds harsh as hell, but look at what is at stake?
hope you will be well -
stoopid is as stoopid does... wat so you tink panadol will do for you! miracle cure tt solves all your problems? wake up!
If you cnt handle the fact tt yr gf is ill n needs you in 100% health by her side.... you dnt deserve a gf at all! N u dnt deserve any pity from me!
Apologies if im harsh. bt yr foolishness is too much for me to keep quiet... -
To be frank if such thing happen to me (touch wood), I will also be under tremendous pressure.
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be an asset or a liability?
pressure... yes... but when a loved one is in need, i would do what i can to not be found wanting...Originally posted by DeadPoet:To be frank if such thing happen to me (touch wood), I will also be under tremendous pressure. -
But.. I don't know, for me if somebody i love alot is very sick, my first reaction would be to take care of that person as well as I can...Originally posted by DeadPoet:To be frank if such thing happen to me (touch wood), I will also be under tremendous pressure. -
Originally posted by riezie:
My goodness....10 panadol extra in 24 hours...It is usually not recommended to even take panadol for more than a week...as it is not good for your liver....
Ive been with my gf coming to 5 months now.. I know it seems very short, but i tell you our relationship seems to be like it has been for 5 years....
Ive been through all sorts of typical relationship problems with her, no doubt about that. But when it comes to her health, i will be so confused and dont know what to do.
She has this ongoing health problems that sometimes require a lot of check ups at the hospital. Juz yesterday, she have to go for an urgent check up to xray her body and head. I freaked out when i receive her sms of what she was about to go through. I know its juz an xray, but xray of the head deffinitely doesnt signal somethign good. I am worried for her, worried like ive never been worried b4...
I dont know what to do, im juz too worried that this might lead to an operation, which is very dangerous as its go to do with the brain. I dont want to lose her... [b]I juz popped 10 tablets of panadol extra within 24 hrs.... i dont know why i did that.... but i juz cant take the pressure of worry....
Its making me want to end my life now...cant take it....
Please someone tell me what to do....i feel like popping in more pills....im too worried....[/b]
If you are worried about her....popping pills are not gg to help you... I am sure you wont want to fall ill...*touch wood*....cos if anything is really gg to happen to her...who is gg to be there for her...do you want her to worry about you when she doesnt even noe what is gg to happen to herself....
YOu have remain calm...take a walk if you cant take the pressure...
Seek professional help if you think you really cannot handle it anymore... -
dn worry....nw technology so high tech n gd...sure can cure ur gf....and ur gf needs u to take care of her..u mus b strong so dn b so stupid go commit suicide....is a crime
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At this time, she needs you. You should not be doing foolish things but to take care of her!!!Originally posted by riezie:Ive been with my gf coming to 5 months now.. I know it seems very short, but i tell you our relationship seems to be like it has been for 5 years....
Ive been through all sorts of typical relationship problems with her, no doubt about that. But when it comes to her health, i will be so confused and dont know what to do.
She has this ongoing health problems that sometimes require a lot of check ups at the hospital. Juz yesterday, she have to go for an urgent check up to xray her body and head. I freaked out when i receive her sms of what she was about to go through. I know its juz an xray, but xray of the head deffinitely doesnt signal somethign good. I am worried for her, worried like ive never been worried b4...
I dont know what to do, im juz too worried that this might lead to an operation, which is very dangerous as its go to do with the brain. I dont want to lose her... I juz popped 10 tablets of panadol extra within 24 hrs.... i dont know why i did that.... but i juz cant take the pressure of worry....
Its making me want to end my life now...cant take it....
Please someone tell me what to do....i feel like popping in more pills....im too worried.... -
u wanna leave early ah? dun take so much, worry oso cant help... jz go spend more quality time wif her, b hapi n do wat u both wanna do... remember if u sick she will oso worry then her condition will worsen so stay healthy...Originally posted by riezie:Ive been with my gf coming to 5 months now.. I know it seems very short, but i tell you our relationship seems to be like it has been for 5 years....
Ive been through all sorts of typical relationship problems with her, no doubt about that. But when it comes to her health, i will be so confused and dont know what to do.
She has this ongoing health problems that sometimes require a lot of check ups at the hospital. Juz yesterday, she have to go for an urgent check up to xray her body and head. I freaked out when i receive her sms of what she was about to go through. I know its juz an xray, but xray of the head deffinitely doesnt signal somethign good. I am worried for her, worried like ive never been worried b4...
I dont know what to do, im juz too worried that this might lead to an operation, which is very dangerous as its go to do with the brain. I dont want to lose her... I juz popped 10 tablets of panadol extra within 24 hrs.... i dont know why i did that.... but i juz cant take the pressure of worry....
Its making me want to end my life now...cant take it....
Please someone tell me what to do....i feel like popping in more pills....im too worried.... -
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If that is what you are going to do in time of a crisis if something ill does befall on her - do you think you could even support her emotionally? You fell before the enemy troops storm into your fortress.Originally posted by riezie:Ive been with my gf coming to 5 months now.. I know it seems very short, but i tell you our relationship seems to be like it has been for 5 years....
Ive been through all sorts of typical relationship problems with her, no doubt about that. But when it comes to her health, i will be so confused and dont know what to do.
She has this ongoing health problems that sometimes require a lot of check ups at the hospital. Juz yesterday, she have to go for an urgent check up to xray her body and head. I freaked out when i receive her sms of what she was about to go through. I know its juz an xray, but xray of the head deffinitely doesnt signal somethign good. I am worried for her, worried like ive never been worried b4...
I dont know what to do, im juz too worried that this might lead to an operation, which is very dangerous as its go to do with the brain. I dont want to lose her... I juz popped 10 tablets of panadol extra within 24 hrs.... i dont know why i did that.... but i juz cant take the pressure of worry....
Its making me want to end my life now...cant take it....
Please someone tell me what to do....i feel like popping in more pills....im too worried....
We all worry for our partners because we love them. You should be worrying if you don't feel a thing at all because it says alot of your definition of this current relationship. Since illness and alignment is a factor that is beyond our control, what we should be doing right now is remain stable, get your facts right first before jumping into silly conclusion and pray (if you have any religion).
P.S: Popping pills can't help her at all - do something more constructive. As least even if you freaking go to temple/church and pray is so much better?
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wake up your idea! your gf needs you okay! if you die before her then whos going to take care of her.
and let me tell you, popping panadols wont die. my best friend swallowed more than 100 panadols a few years ago and she's still living happily now. she didn't even have to go to the hospital! -
are u mad? ur gf didnt even tell u there is anything wrg and u feel terrible and wanan die.. taking panadol will make u less stress? 10? u will be going to the hospital soon aft ur gf check up showing she had nothing wrg..