need advise........

• ahworm

  23 Jan 04, 20:09

  i broke off with my gf last year may. reason is i didn't cherish her, bad tempered etc.. after that i tried all means to get her back but fail. then for the past few months i stop contacting her. only till 1 month plus ago, i re-contact her. this time round i just treat her as a normal friend, but in my heart i still love her. suddenly she just told me that she has some feeling back for me, but say she needs to observe me for a period of time cos she doesn't want to be hurt again. she knows i have changed for the better, but after more than one month already, why she still doesn't accept me to be her bf again? in my part, i didn't dare talk abt any r/s stuffs as i'm afraid to be rejected(again and again..)
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 20:16

  Be patient? Maybe she's unsure and needs even more time to confirm her own feelings. I'm sure this is for the good of the both of you...
• ahworm

  23 Jan 04, 20:25

  i know.. but at times i can't help but to think at the bad side. then i have to employ the bo chup attitude to stop myself from thinking.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 20:29

  Originally posted by ahworm:

  i know.. but at times i can't help but to think at the bad side. then i have to employ the bo chup attitude to stop myself from thinking.

  then don't think too much lor. heehee.
  it's not good to think too much about some things.. Just be patient and let things take their natural course. The more you try to force your way into a relationship here, the worse the effects will be...
• ahworm

  23 Jan 04, 20:43

  okie thanks.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 20:44

  Originally posted by ahworm:

  okie thanks.

  hehe no lar i didn't help much also...
  
  hopefully things work out for you soon.. then u can have a nice feb 14
• ahworm

  23 Jan 04, 21:15

  just now i message her abt the 14feb and she replied 'ah yah.. it's just another day'
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:17

  give her time give her time give her time....
  me and my ex, if we were ever to get back together, would be in 10 years time ok.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:18

  Originally posted by ahworm:

  just now i message her abt the 14feb and she replied 'ah yah.. it's just another day'

  yup agree wif heng.. be patient and don't hurry her, if not you'll just be pressurizing her and things will work the other way round, instead of the way u hope for them to be
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:19

  listen to the evil mushroom. shes often right.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:20

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  listen to the evil mushroom. shes often right.

  yes... yes yes.. i can't agree more.
  
  tomorrow it will snow.
  
  /me strokes sage beard
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:22

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  yes... yes yes.. i can't agree more.
  
  tomorrow it will snow.
  
  /me strokes sage beard

  pull's evil mushroom's beard.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:22

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  pull's evil mushroom's beard.

  ooi. dat is not fatt choy u know.
  
  ow.
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:24

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  ooi. dat is not fatt choy u know.
  
  ow.

  orh no? ok.
  *plucks dragon beard candy*
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:27

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  orh no? ok.
  *plucks dragon beard candy*

  eat eat eat eat it and choke
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:32

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  eat eat eat eat it and choke

  i'll choke then u'll come and give me mouth to mouth rescucitation ok?
  
• Cerebral_Assassin

  23 Jan 04, 21:47

  how siao lah ahworm.......last time go steady who said "ai mai gia stead??.....u right??? so u ask again if u want lah.....but say some touching words or do some touching things loh.......if she reject flat, bo bian deng chu jiat ga gi loh....if she still ai mai ai mai, mai chup her again till 14feb....now till 14feb still si bei zui shi gan leh.......relac lah dei....
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:49

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  i'll choke then u'll come and give me mouth to mouth rescucitation ok?
  

  okay... I go and buy frog and train the frog to do CPR now..
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 21:53

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  okay... I go and buy frog and train the frog to do CPR now..

  so bad! i dun wan frog i wan mushroom!
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 21:55

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  so bad! i dun wan frog i wan mushroom!

  go supermarket and buy... got big variety.. dried shitake mushrooms, oyster mushrooms, button mushrooms.. fresh shitake, canned buttons..
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 22:06

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  go supermarket and buy... got big variety.. dried shitake mushrooms, oyster mushrooms, button mushrooms.. fresh shitake, canned buttons..

  i wan the eeeeeevil mushroom mooku.
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 22:08

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  i wan the eeeeeevil mushroom mooku.

  oops. didn't know i was so desired...
  
  evil mushroom eat oredi will die one leh.. u not scared ah
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 22:12

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  oops. didn't know i was so desired...
  
  evil mushroom eat oredi will die one leh.. u not scared ah

  with u, even if it means death, i am willing also.
  
  
• MooKu

  23 Jan 04, 22:13

  Originally posted by HENG@:

  with u, even if it means death, i am willing also.
  
  

  i'm so touched...
  
  /me sharpens a knife behind her back
• HENG@

  23 Jan 04, 22:14

  Originally posted by MooKu:

  i'm so touched...
  
  /me sharpens a knife behind her back

  
  resigns to his fate willingly