Outing, comments are appreciated
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Just went out with a girl, aint seen her for a while, hardly see her since we are in different schools. Anywayz, I took her to watch a movie which was good. We walked around the mall, had a bite at a fast food resteraunt, and talked about past experiences and stuff like that. I made her laugh with my past experiences and jokes (aka wit), grandma says she probably laughed to be polite, but I believe in today's society, even Singapore, we are more candid right?
Anywayz, it was; 1. meet up, 2. watch movie, 3. eat, 4. saw her off at the busstop cos she had to go somewhere. 5. I went to friend's place.
In between the steps, we just talked about past experiences and fun stuff. How did I handle the situation though? I think I did ok... considering it was a non-date.
I admit I am/was infatuated with her, but I believe its best not to take the romantic route, just to preserve a cool friendship, let fate/God decide. But I look at her, and I think, I want to be her, I want to have her contentment and happiness with herself, I want to have her faith and confidence. Although I look at everyone with such thoughts of inspiration, she has truly made me determined today to attempt to be perfect. -
Hmm.. i think you are doing just fine. Just take it slowly, you two should go far.
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Hmm... Good for you...
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tt wil prob be wat i wil do shud i start to date (if i start to date)
slow and steady wins the race! gals dun like to be rushed.
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Any more comments? Tips? Criticisms? Ha, because my friend (a girl btw) said to me, "WHoa not very classy lehhhh, go fastfood resteraunt... that's it?"
I mean, i was speechless after that. -
fast food nothing wrong mah since its jz fren fren metting...Originally posted by men_@_arms:Any more comments? Tips? Criticisms? Ha, because my friend (a girl btw) said to me, "WHoa not very classy lehhhh, go fastfood resteraunt... that's it?"
I mean, i was speechless after that. -
Yeah thought so. Its "NON-DATE", for now heh. yet I was surprised to see that some girls think like that; materialistic "siah".
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Since you are contented to stay at 1st gear, then I think you are doing great!Originally posted by men_@_arms:Yeah thought so. Its "NON-DATE", for now heh. yet I was surprised to see that some girls think like that; materialistic "siah".
If you want to move up the gears, then just shower her with more care and concerns. Gers are sensitive, they will feel it....and her subsequent response will tell you if she's receptive towards your advancement.
Fast food for a meet-up with an old fren is alright. But there are nice places that won't burn a hole. For e.g. the Hans outlet at the former Pidemco bldg has a great ambience.
All the best to you. -
i believe you are doing all right... take it slow brudder
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Maybe she's just joking with you? Or maybe she's hinting you for more?Originally posted by men_@_arms:Yeah thought so. Its "NON-DATE", for now heh. yet I was surprised to see that some girls think like that; materialistic "siah". -
Maybe she's just joking with you? Or maybe she's hinting you for more?
Wait guys, I aint expressed myself properly heh. This girl who is materialistic is not the girl I went to watch Last Samurai with. The materialistic girl is just another different girl whom I asked for advice about this matter. -
Ooh...Originally posted by men_@_arms:Wait guys, I aint expressed myself properly heh. This girl who is materialistic is not the girl I went to watch Last Samurai with. The materialistic girl is just another different girl whom I asked for advice about this matter.