Little something
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How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers -
wow... inspiring...
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self pity wont change the mind of the person who rejects you. as a matter of fact, it only makes the him/her looks down on you more.
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Normally never put high hopes when asking the other person for a relationship lor. At least wont fall that hard if got rejected. If I get rejected I'll either just smile or say it's a joke.Originally posted by Yunhaier:In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
Veri veri true...
How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b] -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
super cheem.
How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b]
sets me thinking .... agree 90%. -
x2Originally posted by www:self pity wont change the mind of the person who rejects you. as a matter of fact, it only makes the him/her looks down on you more. -
[quote]Originally posted by Yunhaier:
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In real love you would also want the other person to be good, even at the expense of oneself.
Way to go Yun. Cheers. -
haven found the person
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That is why .. u must use the "ta-rat" method ...... once she/he say no..... ignore him/her completely ... then the other fellow will feel the lost ...... hahaha
saddist yes .. i must agree. but hey guys ,... it works sometimes...not too sure abt gers.... but did intro this method to a few guys friends and they found it to be effective.
Ignore the girl completely for a few days and before they know it , the girl initiated an SMS to them asking to meet up ...!!! -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
ya many times we wanna possess it.
How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b]
we try to gif them wat we can best do.
however is it wat they really want?
is it the kinda happiness they seek for? -
hihi... sounds bery philosophical...
One question: what's the difference between real love and romantic love? By what yardstick do we differentiate them?
cheers... -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
inspiring indeed. a point to ponder.
How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b]
in real love u want other person's good, in romantic love u want the other person.
i think too many young minds are poisoned by fantasy tv dramas that owning the one they love is good.
if u love the person, naturally u wish he/she be happy.
way to go yunhaier! -
I tot I bold them?Originally posted by tranquil2:hihi... sounds bery philosophical...
One question: what's the difference between real love and romantic love? By what yardstick do we differentiate them?
cheers...
In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person Generally, you want to retain your love when he/she desire to flee from this romantic love. You would do everything you could to keep them. But when you have passed this phrase and realise that your form of happiness isn't what he/she is looking and he/she seeks elsewhere - would you open that door willing to let him/her depart?
Cheers -
Originally posted by Yunhaier:
After reading all your advice for the past few days.... i come to realise that you are a very deep person. You look at things especially the matters of the heart, in a different light and with depth.....
How many times, when we fell in love, we felt this uncontrollable need to have the person? Face it, its like a virus; you can't stop your love from multiplying. You feel that this extraordinary person makes you feel good when he/she is around and his/her presence lingers even if he/she vanish from your sight.
You couldn't contain yourself. You did the expressing.
Your worst nightmare happened - he/she rejected you.
So what? We hide in your favourite corner and weep over your failure. We refuse meetings from our good buddies and prefer to remain alone for a moment.
In the midst of our reflecting; 'how many times have we actually smile and respect the good decision of the other person?'
The kind of love we give - is it the kind of love they want?
[b]In real love you want the other person's good,
In romantic love you want the other person
Cheers[/b]
Just a thought... have you gone though many setbacks in life to gain all these wisdom/thoughts or is giving such advices a part of your profession??
You neer fail to inspire and it's amazing how you can hit the spot most of the time.
Cheers !
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Originally posted by springtime:After reading all your advice for the past few days.... i come to realise that you are a very deep person. You look at things especially the matters of the heart, in a different light and with depth.....
Just a thought... have you gone though many setbacks in life to gain all these wisdom/thoughts or is giving such advices a part of your profession??
You neer fail to inspire and it's amazing how you can hit the spot most of the time.
Cheers ! What matters is that you are assisted emotionally when you need it. That's what matters, if you could find it here.
P.S: Setbacks in life? We all have setbacks - mine is probably different, slightly. Giving advice as part of profession? If you meant giving advice as a process I do here, then yes bah.
Cheers -
Originally posted by springtime:After reading all your advice for the past few days.... i come to realise that you are a very deep person. You look at things especially the matters of the heart, in a different light and with depth.....
Just a thought... have you gone though many setbacks in life to gain all these wisdom/thoughts or is giving such advices a part of your profession??
You neer fail to inspire and it's amazing how you can hit the spot most of the time.
Cheers ! 
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u are singing easily
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good one~
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Originally posted by InVaa:u are singing easily
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I agree with Yunhaier .
"In real love you want the other person's good,
Loving someone is to support her unconditionally.
In romantic love you want the other person "
Love her without thinking of anything in your mind.
And definitely not trying to impress her with the things you do.
Very often, we always think that what we do is a token of love
but is it what the other party is feeling? Probably not.
If the other party doesn't feel the love, it is not considered love.
Love doesn't mean that you can do anything for her and think that she will be happy.
It is only in the mind of the giver and not the receiver.
Love is doing something that she can feel it in comfort and not pressure.
A good relationship makes us feel energized.
And a bad one make us feel stress out and tired. -
We are just humans after all.
